Carmen Patricia Petty


DOVER PLAINS — Carmen Patricia Petty, 63, a lifelong area resident, died Tuesday, Nov. 12, 2024, at Sharon Hospital. Carmen was a beloved school bus driver for nearly two decades, finishing her career with First Student Transportation in Millbrook, New York.
Her dedication and professionalism, along with an excellent safety record while driving, allowed her the opportunity to transport children with very special needs everyday throughout her career. Her “kids” loved her and she loved each and every one of them.
She remained at First Student until her health declined and she no longer felt safe to drive. She reluctantly retired in 2022.
Born March 18, 1961 in Sharon, she was the daughter of the late Mansel A. and Janet Bailey, Jr. of Dover Plains.She was a 1978 graduate of Dover Jr. and Sr. High School in Dover Plains and Richards Beauty School in Poughkeepsie, New York where she received her New York state license to practice as a beautician. On July 21, 1979 at the Dover Plains United Methodist Church, she married the love of her life, Lance Corp. Bruce Edward Petty, USMC. Bruce survives at home in Dover Plains. Carmen joined the J. H. Ketcham Hose Company Ladies Auxiliary on Oct. 3, 1978. She served as the organization’s secretary in 1992 and again from 2007 through 2008. She was elected president of the auxiliary in 1993 and remained through 1997. She then became vice-president of the auxiliary in 1998. She was a lifetime member at the time of her passing. Carmen always enjoyed the comradery at the firehouse and always was there to support her husband Bruce when he served as District Fire Chief. Carmen also enjoyed gardening every season, the years she spent at the Cabin with family and friends, never missing a lunch out with co-workers, hosting family gatherings and taking in a wayward stray. Her most favorite moments were bossing people around, a great argument on any subject and stealing the skin off the Thanksgiving turkey. Her greatest love was spending time with her beloved grandsons, Colton and Jacoby. “Moomie” spoiled them rotten and loved them beyond measure. Carm, “Our world became a much quieter place when you left and our family will never be the same without you in it. We love you and we miss so much.” “Cheers to you !!”
Carmen is survived by her husband Bruce; her daughter Robin M. Conklin and her husband Scott D. Conklin of Dover Plains; her son, Bruce E. Petty, Jr. and his wife Megan of Dover Plains; her grandsons, Colton D. Conklin and Jacoby F. Petty of Dover Plains, her step grandson, Tyler J. Conklin and his wife Rachel of Highland, New York; her sister-in-law Robin M. Saiken and her husband Jack of Poway, California; her sisters, Melissa Smith and her husband Randy of Millerton, New York, Lucy Ackermanand Valerie Logiudice; her brothers, Mansel Bailey III, Timothy Bailey, Mark Bailey and Joseph Bender and many, many dear friends. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her granddaughter, Reese Madison Tate, her beloved mother-in-law and father-in-law Yvonne S. and Frank E. “Buzz” Petty of Dover Plains, her sister, Elin Liverani and two brothers, David Bailey and Roma “Steve” Bailey.
Calling hours will take place on Sunday, Nov. 17, 2024 from 12 to 2 p.m. at the Scott D. Conklin Funeral Home, 37 Park Ave., Millerton, New York. The J. H. Ketcham Hose Company Ladies Auxiliary will honor Past President Petty at 2 p.m. A funeral service will be held at 2:30 p.m. at the funeral home. Pastor William Mayhew will officiate. A reception in Carmen’s memory will follow at the J. H. Ketcham Hose Company in Dover Plains. Memorial Contributions may be made to the J. H. Ketcham Hose Co., P.O. Box 706, Dover Plains, NY 12522. To send an online condolence to the family, flowers to the service or plant a tree in Carmen’s memory, please visit www.conklinfuneralhome.com
KENT — Town officials are warning residents to be on alert after a second fraudulent email impersonating the Land Use Office was reported in less than three weeks.
The town clerk announced on Nov. 26 that another false message has been sent to residents in recent days, this time attempting to collect payment for an “Application Review and Approval Fee” tied to a supposed special permit application. No such fee or permit exists, according to Town Hall.
A similar scam email was reported on Nov. 10, prompting officials to notify the public that any messages requesting payments or personal information should be treated with caution. Residents who receive a suspicious email are urged not to respond.
Anyone who receives an email from the bogus address planning-dept.townofkentct@usa.com is urged to contact the Land Use Office at landuseadmin@townofkentct.gov or call 860-927-4625 to alert Town Hall. The clerk emphasized that recipients should not respond to the message in any way — including clicking an “unsubscribe” link — as doing so may confirm their address to scammers.
Officials note that Kent uses a federally verified “.gov” domain for all official communication. Any message claiming to be from Town Hall that does not come from a .gov address should be considered fraudulent.
Tom Key’s talk at Scoville Memorial Library Nov. 9 brought forgotten tales of the Revolutionary War to light.
SALISBURY — In a region rich with Revolutionary War history, Tom Key, a self-described “redneck engineer,” offered residents a deeper look at some of the lesser-known events of the American Revolution during a talk at the Scoville Memorial Library on Sunday, Nov. 9.
The program was part of an ongoing series tied to author Russell Shorto’sbook “Revolution Song.” Copies are available at the library, and Shorto is scheduled to appear in person on March 27 with local teachers Peter Vermilyea and Rhonan Mokriski through the Salisbury Forum — a group well-known for its public discussions on history, politics and culture.
Key focused on the Revolution’s early stages in the northern colonies, outlining events that shaped the era in New England. He described the tense buildup to April 18, 1775 — the night of Paul Revere’s famous ride — noting that colonists around Boston were already stockpiling munitions while British General Thomas Gage watched from the city, “getting nervous.”
According to Key, the colonists expected a British march of roughly 1,000 soldiers toward Lexington. When the troops advanced, the colonists fired and retreated, setting off the skirmishes that led to the start of the war. As the British continued toward Concord, American fighters harassed them using what Key described as “guerrilla” tactics — an approach that would define New England’s early resistance.
With no reinforcements nearby, the British pulled back toward Boston. “That’s when it got vicious,” said Key. American snipers targeted the retreating troops, causing casualties and demoralizing the redcoats.
Back in Boston, Key said, the Americans “tightened the noose” by constructing a redoubt or temporary fortification on Breed’s Hill — the precursor to the more widely remembered Battle of Bunker Hill. Built overnight, the fortification heightened British frustration.
“Gage sent three waves against the colonials, into coordinated fire,” Key said. “It was a killing field.”
But the tactic was effective. By the last wave, the colonials were out of ammunition and were overrun by the British.
Key then shifted to Benedict Arnold, a figure with ties throughout New England.
Arnold participated in the siege of Boston before proposing the capture of Fort Ticonderoga on Lake Champlain. After that accomplishment, Arnold launched an ambitious attack on Quebec.
Key explained that Arnold began the expedition in September 1775 with 1,100 men, traveling up the Kennebec River in Maine before attempting a grueling march through the wilderness. The mission quickly faltered amid brutal weather and supply shortages. At one point, Key said, Arnold “saved the day” by buying a herd of cattle from a Frenchman so his troops could eat.
Reinforced by Gen. Richard Montgomery, Arnold pressed on and attacked Quebec City on Dec. 31, 1775. Montgomery was killed, Arnold was badly wounded, and the assault failed.
Arnold went on the following year to fight a series of naval actions on Lake Champlain that were ultimately unsuccessful but did delay the British advance to the south.
When asked why Arnold defected in 1780, Key said Arnold had accumulated a long list of grievances, beginning with not being paid.
His reputation had been challenged, leading him to request a court martial to clear his name. “Remember, a court martial wasn’t always a bad thing,” Key said.
Arnold also resented the personal and financial costs of leadership, was embittered by his wounds, and was grieving his wife’s death. While administering Philadelphia, Key added, “he lived it up, more like a Tory” than a committed revolutionary.
“Hurt feelings? Money? Opportunist?” Key asked. “But not a coward.”
A crowd gathered at the Kent Town Green Friday, Nov. 28, to witness the annual lighting of the tree. Santa Claus made an appearance and attendees caroled as the tree was illuminated for the holiday season.

Parishioners gathered Saturday, Nov. 29, to light the Christmas tree and enjoy handmade doughnuts and cider at Trinity Epsicopal Church in Lime Rock.
LIME ROCK — Parishioners gathered outside Trinity Episcopal Church on Saturday, Nov. 29 for a festive evening of tree lighting, carol singing and a chance to try handmade doughnuts.
The carolers, led by Trinity’s musical director Christine Gevert — tucked inside the church vestibule with an electric keyboard — launched into the first songs promptly at 5 p.m. Moments later, the tree lights were turned on, adding a glow to the gathering.
About 20 minutes later, with the carols and pop tunes finished and the cold settling in, the group headed inside to warm up and investigate the cider and doughnuts.
The latter were fried in bacon fat by John Lloyd, dusted lightly with confectioner’s sugar, and carried out to the hungry crowd.
