Turning The Page This Fall With Journaling

Millerton News reporter Kaitlin Lyle advocates for journaling as a way to store memories and also to work out problems you aren’t necessarily ready to talk about yet. Photo by Hunter O. Lyle

Take it from someone who’s been practicing the art of journaling for more than a decade: You may just discover more about yourself with a pen in hand and a blank page than you might suspect.
For some, journaling can be therapeutic: A few flicks of the wrist and you can feel confident that your thoughts are secure with a silent listener.
Others may use it to preserve memories, to jot down the woes and wonders of everyday life or to even find a way to approach conflicts they’re too anxious to talk about out loud.
I first turned to journaling in high school and continued writing through college; this year, I’ve been using journaling to chronicle stories from the COVID-19 pandemic. Thanks to the thoughtfulness of friends and family members, I haven’t needed to buy myself a new journal in years, though that hasn’t stopped me from admiring the ones I see on display at stores around here.
The journal you purchase can reflect the way you want to tell your story. Are you looking for something small that you can whip out of your pocket at a moment’s notice? If so, you might enjoy a Moleskine Classic Notebook, a Moleskine Volant Journal or a Moleskine Cahier Journal. If you want to see how they fit your own pockets or pocketbook, you can see and purchase them in person at Oblong Books & Music in Millerton, N.Y.,or you can check Barnes and Nobles in Kingston, N.Y., most Staples stores and most Target stores.
If you don’t want one of the Moleskines (which were, famously, the notebook of choice for Ernest Hemingway and Pable Picasso), art supply stores such as JWS on Railroad Street in Great Barrington, Mass., always have interesting options for journaling.
You can even buy heavy stock paper there and cut the sheets to be exactly the size you want, then custom cover them with the fabric or leather of your choice (you can also buy beautiful leather journals at Barnes and Noble; some are neat and tidy and others have unfinished edges that make them feel very “Lord of the Rings”).
Over in Kent, Conn., House of Books carries a line of leather journals from Rustico, with colors ranging from buckskin to black to burgundy.
Young writers looking for a space to confide their thoughts in the manner of iconic YA heroine Harriet the Spy can always turn to the classic black-and-white marbled composition notebook, available at most stores and pharmacies. (Drip some juice from a tomato sandwich onto one of the pages, for a true Harriet the Spy experience.)
Those seeking encouragement while trying a hand at journaling might want to pick up an inspirational journal. These journals are designed with an uplifting message on the front cover to empower the journaler and can be found at most art supply and stationery stores, and online at Anthropologie.
Journalers who like to keep track of the passing days can pick up a dated journal at Staples.
Ocean State Job Lot in Torrington, Conn., also has an unexpectedly large and diverse selection of art supplies, notebooks and dated journals.
Oblong Books & Music in Millerton sells a special Bibliophile Reader’s Journal, an ideal gift for book lovers and writers. Many vendors of books and journals also carry the decorative and entertaining Wreck This Journal line, which encourages the destruction of the journal with poked pen holes, spilled coffee, drips from tomato sandwiches (see the above reference to Harriet the Spy) and defaced photos. This might be a good place to start for anyone who is ambivalent about journaling; perhaps it will prove to be a gateway to more pacific and productive journaling. If not, perhaps it will offer a good aggression outlet.
The opposite of the Wreck This Journal books is the Bullet Journal craze (well, it was a craze last year). This innovative series reminds us that we don’t have to put everything in electronic form on our phones and computers — we can write it down. On paper. With a pen.
Devotees of Bullet Journals keep lists of their favorite pens. The biggest supplies of diverse pens can be found at Big Box stores such as Staples and Target; and small, independent stores that sell art supplies, such as Oblong, JWS and Tom’s Toys in Great Barrington. You can also find an excellent selection of pens at craft stores such as Michael’s and Joann (they have shops in Torrington, Conn., and Kingston).
NEWTOWN — Housatonic Valley Regional High School's girls soccer team's state tournament run concluded in the semifinals with a 4-2 loss to Morgan High School Wednesday, Nov. 12.
The final four finish was the deepest playoff push for Housatonic since 2014. Lainey Diorio scored both goals and keeper Vi Salazar logged 10 saves in the semifinal game.
"It's an unfortunate loss but you know they played their hearts out," said HVRHS coach Don Drislane. "Awesome season."

It was the final soccer game for HVRHS’s two senior captains: Ava Segalla and Madeline Mechare. Segalla ended her varsity career as the leading goal scorer in school history with a total of 133.
Morgan's size and speed on the field helped the Huskies dominate possession and earned them a bid to the Class S girls soccer championship for the second year in a row. In 2024, Morgan lost in penalty kicks to Coginchaug High School.
This year, the Huskies will face Old Saybrook High School in the Class S championship game at Trinity Health Stadium in Hartford on Saturday, Nov. 15 at 10 a.m. Old Saybrook defeated Canton High School 1-0 in the semis.
Local writer shares veterans’ stories in Malcolm Gladwell’s ‘Medal of Honor’ podcast
SHARON, Conn. — After 20 years as a magazine editor with executive roles at publishing giants like Condé Nast and Hearst, Meredith Rollins never imagined she would become the creative force behind a military history podcast. But today, she spends her days writing about some of the most heroic veterans in United States history for “Medal of Honor: Stories of Courage,” a podcast produced by Malcolm Gladwell’s company, Pushkin Industries.
From her early days in book publishing to two decades in magazines and later a global content strategist for Weight Watchers, Rollins has built a long and varied career in storytelling.
“I’ve learned a lot with each career shift, but the higher I went up the masthead, the less it was about writing and editing,” said Rollins. “I missed the creative process.”
While the podcast isn’t her first writing project, it marks her first foray into audio storytelling.
“During the pandemic I used to listen to mostly true crime podcasts when I was doing the laundry, driving my kids somewhere or working in the garden,” she said. Now Rollins gets to write one, and approaches each episode with awe and a reporter’s curiosity.
After 30 years of friendship with Malcolm Gladwell, the pair decided to collaborate on a project that would combine their shared journalism roots with stories that celebrate bravery and courage.
“Malcolm approached me about a project, and he was looking for a subject that he believed would really bring people together in this fractured political time we’re going through,” said Rollins.
Enter “Medal of Honor.”
The podcast’s namesake is the highest U.S. military decoration for valor, awarded for “conspicuous gallantry and intrepidity at the risk of life above and beyond the call of duty.” Each episode brings to life the story of a Medal of Honor recipient — often with the cinematic pacing and emotional resonance of a feature film.
“Medal of Honor” released its second season this summer, and production on a third season is underway. While Season One was narrated by Gladwell himself, Season Two introduced a new voice with firsthand experience. J.R. Martinez is a former U.S. Army soldier, author, motivational speaker and winner of Dancing with the Stars Season 13.
Writing for two very different narrators, Rollins said, has been both a challenge and a joy.
“As we’ve gotten to know each other and gotten deeper into this project together, I can almost predict how J.R. will react to certain moments,” she said. “He brings so much heart and humanity to the stories.”
Both her father and father-in-law served as Marines, but Rollins said military history was never top of mind until Gladwell pitched her the idea.
“The deeper you get into a subject you don’t know about, the more excited you get about it,” she said. “It’s been a way for me to learn about the incredible sacrifice woven into our country’s history.”
Rollins approaches each episode of “Medal of Honor” by looking first at the act of sacrifice itself, which she describes as “a moment that often happens in a flash.”
She dives deep into research, gathering biographical details from their upbringing and motivations to the circumstances that led them into combat. She then recreates the atmosphere of the conflict, setting the scene with vivid historical detail.
“These men would tell you they were just average guys,” said Rollins. “And if you believe that, then you have to believe we’re all capable of that same bravery or selflessness. It has really shown me the incredible courage we all have, and our ability to do right in the world.”
Chris Ohmen (left) held the flag while Chris Williams welcomed Salisbury residents to a Veterans Day ceremony at Town Hall Tuesday, Nov. 11.
SALISBURY — About 30 people turned out for the traditional Veterans Day ceremony at Salisbury Town Hall on a cold and snowy Tuesday morning, Nov. 11.
Chris Ohmen handled the colors and Chris Williams ran the ceremony.
Rev. John Nelson from Salisbury Congregational Church gave both an invocation and a benediction. The latter included this:
“We pray that those who have served and those who have died will never have done so in vain/We pray that the commitment of veterans will be an abiding call to resolve our conflicts without resorting to arms/ That one day soon we may mark the war that indeed ends all wars.”

Williams began his remarks by noting that the Veterans Day speech was usually given by the late David Bayersdorfer, who died earlier this year.
“As we honor our veterans today, let’s keep in mind that service comes in many forms. Each role, each job, each post is a vital part of what makes our military the finest in the world.”
Lloyd Wallingford sang “God Bless America” a cappella, with the crowd joining in.
Eden Rost, left, shakes hands with Sergeant Nicholas Gandolfo, veteran of the Korean War.
NORTH CANAAN — Students at North Canaan Elementary School saluted servicemen and servicewomen at a Veterans Day ceremony Wednesday, Nov. 12.
Eighteen veterans were honored, many of whom attended the ceremony and were connected to the school as relatives of students or staff.
The 2nd graders sang the official song for each branch of service represented that day: Army, Navy, Coast Guard, Marines and Air Force. Special recognition was given to the Marine Corps, which was founded 250 years ago in November 1775.
Eighth graders offered speeches of appreciation. Taylor Gulotta said, "My older sister, Madison, has worked so hard to get to where she is today. She has dreamt of being in the Coast Guard since she was a little girl." She continued, "Her selflessness and bravery... is truly inspiring."

Brayden Foley spoke of his grandfather Todd Baldwin's time in the Navy. "My grandpa taught me that helping others in a fundamental way can build strong, meaningful relationship and a supportive community. I appreciate all members of the Armed Forces past and present for their bravery and their commitment to protect the freedom that we have today."
Veterans were recognized individually by Principal Beth Johnson and students presented them with certificates.
The 2nd graders closed the ceremony with a choreographed rendition of "Grand Old Flag."
