Turning The Page This Fall With Journaling

Millerton News reporter Kaitlin Lyle advocates for journaling as a way to store memories and also to work out problems you aren’t necessarily ready to talk about yet. Photo by Hunter O. Lyle
Take it from someone who’s been practicing the art of journaling for more than a decade: You may just discover more about yourself with a pen in hand and a blank page than you might suspect.
For some, journaling can be therapeutic: A few flicks of the wrist and you can feel confident that your thoughts are secure with a silent listener.
Others may use it to preserve memories, to jot down the woes and wonders of everyday life or to even find a way to approach conflicts they’re too anxious to talk about out loud.
I first turned to journaling in high school and continued writing through college; this year, I’ve been using journaling to chronicle stories from the COVID-19 pandemic. Thanks to the thoughtfulness of friends and family members, I haven’t needed to buy myself a new journal in years, though that hasn’t stopped me from admiring the ones I see on display at stores around here.
The journal you purchase can reflect the way you want to tell your story. Are you looking for something small that you can whip out of your pocket at a moment’s notice? If so, you might enjoy a Moleskine Classic Notebook, a Moleskine Volant Journal or a Moleskine Cahier Journal. If you want to see how they fit your own pockets or pocketbook, you can see and purchase them in person at Oblong Books & Music in Millerton, N.Y.,or you can check Barnes and Nobles in Kingston, N.Y., most Staples stores and most Target stores.
If you don’t want one of the Moleskines (which were, famously, the notebook of choice for Ernest Hemingway and Pable Picasso), art supply stores such as JWS on Railroad Street in Great Barrington, Mass., always have interesting options for journaling.
You can even buy heavy stock paper there and cut the sheets to be exactly the size you want, then custom cover them with the fabric or leather of your choice (you can also buy beautiful leather journals at Barnes and Noble; some are neat and tidy and others have unfinished edges that make them feel very “Lord of the Rings”).
Over in Kent, Conn., House of Books carries a line of leather journals from Rustico, with colors ranging from buckskin to black to burgundy.
Young writers looking for a space to confide their thoughts in the manner of iconic YA heroine Harriet the Spy can always turn to the classic black-and-white marbled composition notebook, available at most stores and pharmacies. (Drip some juice from a tomato sandwich onto one of the pages, for a true Harriet the Spy experience.)
Those seeking encouragement while trying a hand at journaling might want to pick up an inspirational journal. These journals are designed with an uplifting message on the front cover to empower the journaler and can be found at most art supply and stationery stores, and online at Anthropologie.
Journalers who like to keep track of the passing days can pick up a dated journal at Staples.
Ocean State Job Lot in Torrington, Conn., also has an unexpectedly large and diverse selection of art supplies, notebooks and dated journals.
Oblong Books & Music in Millerton sells a special Bibliophile Reader’s Journal, an ideal gift for book lovers and writers. Many vendors of books and journals also carry the decorative and entertaining Wreck This Journal line, which encourages the destruction of the journal with poked pen holes, spilled coffee, drips from tomato sandwiches (see the above reference to Harriet the Spy) and defaced photos. This might be a good place to start for anyone who is ambivalent about journaling; perhaps it will prove to be a gateway to more pacific and productive journaling. If not, perhaps it will offer a good aggression outlet.
The opposite of the Wreck This Journal books is the Bullet Journal craze (well, it was a craze last year). This innovative series reminds us that we don’t have to put everything in electronic form on our phones and computers — we can write it down. On paper. With a pen.
Devotees of Bullet Journals keep lists of their favorite pens. The biggest supplies of diverse pens can be found at Big Box stores such as Staples and Target; and small, independent stores that sell art supplies, such as Oblong, JWS and Tom’s Toys in Great Barrington. You can also find an excellent selection of pens at craft stores such as Michael’s and Joann (they have shops in Torrington, Conn., and Kingston).
LAKEVILLE — Barbara Meyers DelPrete, 84, passed away Tuesday, Sept. 30, 2025, at her home. She was the beloved wife of George R. DelPrete for 62 years.
Mrs. DelPrete was born in Burlington, Iowa, on May 31, 1941, daughter of the late George and Judy Meyers. She lived in California for a time and had been a Lakeville resident for the past 55 years.
Survivors, in addition to her husband, George, include son, George R. DelPrete II, daughter, Jena DelPrete Allee, and son Stephen P. DelPrete. Grandchildren; Trey, Cassidy, and Meredith DelPrete, Jack, Will and Finn Allee, and Ali and Nicholas DelPrete.
A Funeral Mass was held at St. Mary’s Church, Lakeville, on Saturday, Oct. 4. May she Rest in Peace.
Ryan Funeral Home, 255 Main St., Lakeville, is in care of arrangements.
To offer an online condolence, please visit ryanfhct.com
SHARON — Shirley Anne Wilbur Perotti, daughter of George and Mabel (Johnson) Wilbur, the first girl born into the Wilbur family in 65 years, passed away on Oct. 5, 2025, at Noble Horizons.
Shirley was born on Aug. 19, 1948 at Sharon Hospital.
She was raised on her parents’ poultry farm (Odge’s Eggs, Inc.).
After graduating from Housatonic Valley Regional High School, she worked at Litchfield County National Bank and Colonial Bank.
She married the love of her life, John, on Aug. 16, 1969, and they lived on Sharon Mountain for more than 50 years.
Shirley enjoyed creating the annual family Christmas card, which was a coveted keepsake.She also enjoyed having lunch once a month with her best friends, Betty Kowalski, Kathy Ducillo, and Paula Weir.
In addition to John, she is survived by her three children and their families; Sarah Medeiros, her husband, Geoff, and their sons, Nick and Andrew, of Longmeadow, Massachusetts, Shelby Diorio, her husband, Mike, and their daughters, Addie, Lainey and Lyla, of East Canaan, Connecticut,Jeffrey Perotti, his wife, Melissa, and their daughters, Annie, Lucy and Winnie, of East Canaan. Shirley also leaves her two brothers, Edward Wilbur and his wife Joan, and David Wilbur; two nieces, three nephews, and several cousins.
At Shirley’s request, services will be private.
Donations in her memory may be made to the Sharon Woman’s Club Scholarship Fund, PO Box 283, Sharon, CT 06069.
The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.
MILLERTON — Veronica Lee “Ronnie” Silvernale, 78, a lifelong area resident died Tuesday, Oct. 7, 2025, at Sharon Hospital in Sharon, Connecticut. Mrs. Silvernale had a long career at Noble Horizons in Salisbury, where she served as a respected team leader in housekeeping and laundry services for over eighteen years. She retired in 2012.
Born Oct. 19, 1946, at Camp Lejeune, North Carolina, she was the daughter of the late Bradley C. and Sophie (Debrew) Hosier, Sr. Following her graduation from high school and attending college, she married Jack Gerard Silvernale on June 15, 1983 in Millerton, New York. Their marriage lasted thirty-five years until Jack’s passing on July 28, 2018.
Ronnie is survived by her daughter, Jaime Silvernale (Wm. MacDaniel, Sr.) of Millerton, her beloved grandson, Wm. MacDaniel, Jr.; two special nieces, Shannon and Rebecca and a special nephew Sean Hosier. In addition to her parents and husband, she was predeceased by her brother, Bradley C. Hosier, Jr. and her dear friend Ruth Fullerton of Millerton.
Visitation was private. A celebration of Ronnie’s life will be held in the future. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Scott D. Conklin Funeral Home, 37 Park Avenue, Millerton, NY 12546. To send an online condolence to the family or to plant a tree in Ronnie’s memory, please visit www.conklinfuneralhome.com
Christine Gevert, Crescendo’s artistic director, is delighted to announce the start of this musical organization’s 22nd year of operation. The group’s first concert of the season will feature Latin American early chamber music, performed Oct. 18 and 19, on indigenous Andean instruments as well as the virginal, flute, viola and percussion. Gevert will perform at the keyboard, joined by Chilean musicians Gonzalo Cortes and Carlos Boltes on wind and stringed instruments.
This concert, the first in a series of nine, will be held on Oct. 18 at Saint James Place in Great Barrington, and Oct. 19 at Trinity Church in Lakeville.
For those unfamiliar with Crescendo, the award-winning organization was founded in 2003 and brings lesser-known works from the Renaissance and Baroque periods — along with contemporary fusion pieces — to new life. Its performances often blend classical composition with nontraditional instrumentation for a refreshing new take on an established body of work.
Gevert, who is German, Chilean and American, is a conductor, keyboardist and musical scholar. As the multi-national, multi-lingual (German, Spanish and English) creative director, she is a veritable whirlwind of talent, professionalism and inspiration who conceives of new musical treats for her audiences. She also hires and nourishes local talent, sources internationally known vocal and instrumental professionals, and provides her audiences with well-researched program notes for each concert, packaged in lush, full-color programs that resemble illuminated manuscripts.
“It is the excitement about and dedication to the music, along with the prerequisite vocal and instrumental talent, that characterizes a Crescendo member,” said Gevert. “I don’t care about things like how old or young you are or where you’re from — it’s all about bringing these performers together to provide unforgettable musical experiences for its audiences.”
“Traditional audiences for classical music performances tend to skew older,” Gevert continued. “For that reason, I’ve embarked on an effort to reach younger listeners, and have done things like taken a Crescendo choral group to perform at Housatonic Regional High School. I’ve also launched an effort to recruit and train young singers in Baroque singing techniques so they can perform with our existing choral group.”
The upcoming 2025-26 season includes, among other performances, a solo recital and benefit concert on Nov. 22 by the international Baroque opera star and countertenor Nicholas Tamagna. The curated program will include works by Handel, Vivaldi, and Monteverdi.
Two dazzling Christmas concerts follow: on Dec. 6 and 7, Crescendo presents J.S. Bach’s “Sweet Comfort” cantata and Mass in G minor, featuring the full chorus and soloists with a period instrument orchestra. On Dec. 21, the annual Holiday Concert will be presented: “A Tapestry of Traditions: Unraveling the History of Christmas Carols,” with the entire Crescendo vocal ensemble and Gevert on organ.
For the full schedule, concerts details and ticket information, visit: www.crescendomusic.org