Letters to the Editor - The Lakeville Journal - 4-16-20

Gratitude for so many honoring Shea

We have said this many times over the past two weeks, and it remains true –— there are not enough words, or the right words, to describe our gratitude for the kindness, compassion and out-pouring of love and support our family has received these past two weeks since we lost our Shea.

The memorial parade was indescribable. To see the hundreds of people who came out to honor Shea and support his family was overwhelming and heartwarming. He surely was a gift to this world, and he will continue to be the bright light we all need.

The texts, messages, calls, meals, sharing of photos and videos, flowers, and constant virtual hugs have made us smile, laugh and cry. Sharing memories certainly keeps us going and makes us even more proud of the young man Shea had become.

We are grateful to live in a community that is filled with such tenderheartedness and we thank you all for your kindness.

A Celebration of Life will occur as soon as it’s possible. Shea will ‘rock-on’ — we promise.

Doug, Denise, Emma and Grace Cohn

Falls Village

 

Finding help to sustain

The impact of the coronavirus is affecting everyone on many levels, without much support to explore one’s feelings, ask questions and get clear answers.

The dire prospect of people having little food or basic supplies (yes, even the coveted toilet paper) are fleeting concerns yet likely could be taken more seriously by every community. Distribution centers and people doing deliveries have provided lifelines for food and PPE, personal protective equipment.

Thankfully some companies from Elon Musk to Dyson and others have pivoted their businesses to manufacture respirators, according to Ryan Levesque who teaches the online ASK Method I am finding helpful about online marketing.

Most are hoping things will be back to normal before long, yet some New York Times articles are explaining that without customers now, huge amounts of food are being thrown out because it is too much to try to reconfigure distribution.

It seems the government would be able to intervene and help make a way for products, at least milk, eggs and other fresh foods, not go to waste and lead to shortages. Perhaps prices to consumers could be cut down and the government offset other fees for the producers.

At least the concerns are being raised. Now it’s time for more people to brave asking questions and exploring their collective (and individual) responses. These are tough new times and may not be changing back anytime soon.

I explore many ideas and resources on Livfully.org and am eager to network with others online about ways to address these times and many matters. I can be contacted at cppaton@yahoo.com and 347-471-9209. 

Let’s make more ways for all to network in meaningful ways since these Corona Times are calling for the best of everyone’s collective genius and goodwill.

Catherine Palmer Paton

Falls Village

 

Questions on CRFs

My fellow Nutmeggers,

Our current federal government has abandoned its citizens. So where do we go from here?  As COVID-19 rolls through our state, our governor has many difficult decisions to make.  

The nursing home situation is one of those. The governor quietly signed an Executive Order (EO) regarding it Easter weekend, creating COVID Recovery Facilities, CRFs, with no real explanation of what that means, and how it works. There are questions that need to be answered. 

(Seems like a good way to make a difficult situation disappear from the news cycle in the quiet of Easter and Passover.)

Please define a CRF, Governor Lamont.

Are these really hospice facilities?  

Who is overseeing what is happening in them? A corporate owner from afar who serves to profit from your decision?

The EO includes granting the state the ability to unilaterally move non-COVID nursing home patients from their existing facility, to locales alien to them.

I will let that sit with everyone. And hope you will contact the governor with your concerns.

Then there is the issue of PPEs, personal protective equipment, and we all know that is a broken supply chain.  

How will these places get the adequate supplies?  

Who is handling this medical waste?

Now take these and many other unanswered questions to a rural location, where much of the infrastructure is volunteer, and staffing is a massive issue.

A state of Connecticut Public Health field hospital is a tent. It needs a Public Health staff to accompany it.

We all need to step up now. In order to do so, we need a thorough plan created with dignity addressing the suffering of our elders and their families, supporting the staff and respecting the community upon whom you are laying this monumental task.   

If we are going to be the repository of dying souls, please help us do it properly, with intelligence and compassion for all.

Deborah Moore 

Sharon

The views expressed here are not necessarily those of The Lakeville Journal and The Journal does not support or oppose candidates for public office.

Latest News

Robin Wall Kimmerer urges gratitude, reciprocity in talk at Cary Institute

Robin Wall Kimmerer inspired the audience with her grassroots initiative “Plant, Baby, Plant,” encouraging restoration, native planting and care for ecosystems.

Aly Morrissey

Robin Wall Kimmerer, the bestselling author of “Braiding Sweetgrass” and a member of the Citizen Potawatomi Nation, urged a sold-out audience at the Cary Institute of Ecosystem Studies on Friday, March 13, to rethink humanity’s relationship with the natural world through gratitude, reciprocity and responsibility.

Introduced by Cary Institute President Joshua Ginsberg, Kimmerer opened the evening by greeting the audience in Potawatomi, the native language of her ancestors, and grounding the talk in a practice of gratitude.

Keep ReadingShow less

Melissa Gamwell’s handmade touch

Melissa Gamwell’s handmade touch
Melissa Gamwell, hand lettering with precision and care.
Kevin Greenberg
"There is no better feeling than working through something with your own brain and your own hands." —Melissa Gamwell

In an age of automation, Melissa Gamwell is keeping the human hand alive.

The Cornwall, Connecticut-based calligrapher is practicing an art form that’s been under attack by machines for nearly 400 years, and people are noticing. For proof, look no further than the line leading to her candle-lit table at the Stissing House Craft Feast each winter. In her first year there, she scribed around 1,200 gift tags, cards, and hand drawn ornaments.

Keep ReadingShow less
Regional 7 students bring ‘The Addams Family’ to the stage

The cast of “The Addams Family” from Northwest Regional School District No. 7 with Principal Kelly Carroll from Ann Antolini Elementary School in New Hartford.

Monique Jaramillo

Nearly 50 students from across the region are helping bring the delightfully macabre world of “The Addams Family” to life in Northwestern Regional School District No. 7’s upcoming production. The student cast and crew, representing the towns of Barkhamsted, Colebrook, New Hartford and Norfolk, will stage the musical March 27 and 28 at 7 p.m., with a 2 p.m. matinee on March 29 in the school’s auditorium in Winsted.

Based on the iconic characters created by Charles Addams, the musical follows Wednesday Addams, who shocks her famously eccentric family by falling in love with a perfectly “normal” young man. When his parents come to dinner at the Addams’ mansion, two very different families collide, leading to an evening of secrets, surprises and unexpected revelations about love and belonging.

Keep ReadingShow less
google preferred source

Want more of our stories on Google? Click here to make us a Preferred Source.

‘Quilts of Many Colors’ opens at Hunt Library

Garth Kobel, Art Wall Chair, Mary Randolph, Frank Halden, Ruth Giumarro, Project Chair, Maria Bulson, Barbara Lobdell, Sherry Newman, Elizabeth Frey-Thomas, Donna Heinz around “The Green Man.”

Robin Roraback

In honor of National Quilt Day, a tradition established in 1991, Hunt Library’s second annual quilt show, “Quilts of Many Colors,” will open Saturday, March 21, with a reception from 5 to 7 p.m. The quilts, made by members of the Hunt Library Quilters, will be displayed through April 17. All quilts will be for sale, and a portion of each sale goes to the library.

At the center of the exhibit is a quilt the Hunt Library Quilters collaborated on called the “Quilt of Many Colors,” inspired by Dolly Parton’s song”Coat of Many Colors.” Each member of the Hunt Library Quilters made two to four 10-inch squares for the twin-size quilt, with Gail Allyn embroidering “The Green Man” for the center square. The Green Man, a symbol of rebirth, is also a symbol of the library, seen carved in stone at the library’s entrance. One hundred percent of the sale of this quilt benefits the library.

Keep ReadingShow less

New in at Kenise Barnes Fine Art

New in at Kenise Barnes Fine Art

New works on display at Kenise Barnes Fine Art in Kent

D.H. Callahan

Since 2018, Kenise Barnes Fine Art in Kent has been displaying an impressive rotation of works across a range of artists and mediums. On Saturday, March 14, art enthusiasts arrived to see a new exhibition at the gallery featuring a wide variety of new pieces.

Large-scale paintings by David Collins and Melanie Parke alongside small 3-by-3 inch oil-on-panel works by Sally Maca.

Keep ReadingShow less
Trailblazing divorce attorney Harriet Newman Cohen to speak at Norfolk Library

Harriet Newman Cohen

Provided

Harriet Newman Cohen weathered many storms in her five-decade-long journey to become one of the nation’s most celebrated divorce attorneys. Voted one of the top 100 attorneys in New York for many years, Cohen served as president of the New York Women’s Bar Association and has been a champion of divorce reform. She and her co-author, journalist David Feinberg, will give a book talk about her memoir, “Passion and Power: A Life in Three Worlds,” at the Norfolk Library on Sunday, March 22 at 2 p.m.

What began as a personal record of her life, intended for her family, grew into a memoir that journalist Carl Bernstein describes in his endorsement as “wise and riveting.” Born in 1932 in Providence, Rhode Island, to parents who immigrated in 1920 from Ukraine and Poland, Cohen traces the arc of her life and the challenges she faced entering a legal profession that was overwhelmingly male at the time, leading to her success as a maverick divorce attorney fighting for women’s rights and equity in the law. She received her Juris Doctor, cum laude, from Brooklyn Law School in 1974, one year after Roe v. Wade was decided. She is a founding partner of Cohen Stine Kapoor LLP in New York City, a family and matrimonial law firm she formed in 2021, at age 88, with her daughter Martha Cohen Stine and Ankit Kapoor.

Keep ReadingShow less
google preferred source

Want more of our stories on Google? Click here to make us a Preferred Source.

google preferred source

Want more of our stories on Google? Click here to make us a Preferred Source.