SALISBURY — Selectman Mark Lauretano continued his push for adopting a code of ethics and establishing an ethics commission at a meeting Saturday morning, Feb. 2, at Town Hall.The selectman said, as he has at previous meetings, that the proposed ordinance concerning the code and its enforcement is a work in progress and that he welcomes suggestions.Attending the meeting were Town Clerk Patty Williams, Claude Rolo from the Board of Education, Assessor Barbara Bigos, Fred Schmidt from the Planning and Zoning Commission, Selectman Jim Dresser and First Selectman Curtis Rand. In all, there were about 25 people present, not including press.Lauretano spent the first part of the meeting working off the same PowerPoint presentation he used at the last meeting on this subject, in December. He offered a timeline, beginning with the adoption of a code of ethics Nov. 1, 2005, when Val Bernardoni was first selectman. He said the code was supposed to go into effect Jan. 1, 2006.Lauretano said that when Curtis Rand took over as first selectman, the code of ethics was “shelved.”And he said that this year, when he tried to revive the idea, both Rand and Dresser objected, in part, they said, because there was no enforcement mechanism.Lauretano repeated his statement that he had tried to define “ethics, not feelings,” and emphasized that he had drawn heavily on ethics codes from other towns.“I’m not reinventing the wheel here.”Lauretano reiterated that the proposed code does not conflict with existing labor contracts (with Salisbury Central School teachers and with unionized employees at the town garage).And he said the code of ethics, and the ethics commission, were not to be used for “frivolous” purposes, nor to resolve everyday administrative issues.Lauretano gave, again, four examples of potentially unethical conduct, using himself — by name — as the town official in question.In the first example, “Selectman Lauretano” is the owner of the Black Goose restaurant, and also sits on a “road projects committee,” which is considering redesigning and repaving the street in front of the business. He said it could appear that the selectman is using his influence to enhance his business.In the second example, the hypothetical selectman, a real estate broker, is also a member of a housing commission. He learns of a land transaction that only a member of the commission would know about, and appears to use his influence to benefit his employer.In the third example, “Selectman Lauretano” pays expenses for a project from his own pocket, expects to be reimbursed, and does not follow procedures for the preservation of public documents, thus giving “the appearance of using his position to do whatever he likes.”The fourth example has “Selectman Lauretano” also sitting on a “home heating commission” and voting in seemingly contradictory ways on the same issue in the commission and on the Board of Selectmen, thus “misleading the applicant.”Examples two, three and four are very similar to situations involving Bob Riva, Dresser and Rand that Lauretano has brought up repeatedly during his first year on the Board of Selectmen.Lauretano said that he had changed the section on when or if town employees can accept gifts. The new language states that employees could accept “gifts or meals valued at not more than $100, at the end of a project, at the time of retirement, a promotion or at public occasions held to honor an official or employee … The cumulative value of such gifts and meals from any one source should not exceed $300 in any one calendar year.” Ethics commissionSection 4 of his proposal, which deals with establishing an ethics commission, recommends that the chairmen of the two major party town committees (Democratic and Republican) submit two members and one alternate apiece. The nominees would then be appointed by the first selectman. A vote of three members would be required when establishing by-laws and procedures, to avoid a political stalemate.At the last meeting, this arrangement was criticized for leaving out unaffiliated voters. Lauretano’s latest draft provides for an uaffiliated person wishing to serve to approach the chairman of one of the two major parties to be nominated as a member of that party.The ethics commission would not be “for witch hunts or personal or political vendettas,” he said.The commission would have broad powers, including subpoena powers. He said complaints would have to be signed, witnessed and notarized. Appeals would go to the state court system.He said that having the Board of Selectmen handle ethics complaints is inadequate, because there is no entity to hold the selectmen accountable.He also cited the structural imbalance of political power on any board of selectmen, and said that appointing a temporary ethics commission to deal with a specific issue would be ineffective. “There is too much to know” for members of a quickly assembled committee.Lauretano said the ordinance establishing the ethics commission and adopting the code would take effect 15 days after passing and apply only to matters that come up after that date. “It is not retroactive,” he said. The meeting then moved into questions and comments. Bigos began, asking if hearings before the ethics commission would be open, public meetings.Lauretano said hearings would be confidential, similar to executive sessions which are closed to the public and the media. He said that in the course of his research he had not spoken with anyone who had held a public ethics hearing.Subpoena powerBetty Tyburski said she thought Lauretano had “done a good job, to a certain point.”“But subpoena power really bothers me,” she continued. She said in a small town like Salisbury, individual reputations could be easily damaged.“It’s scary. I’m afraid people could get hurt badly if we handle this wrong.”Lauretano said he understood Tyburski’s concerns but added that a subpoena request has to go before a Superior Court judge, and that the request is not automatically granted.He was then contradicted by Charles Vail, an attorney and former Probate Court judge, who said a subpoena request goes to a clerk, not a judge, and the standard is whether or not the subpoena will produce evidence. “It’s a low standard,” he said.Vail continued, saying the structure and membership of the ethics commission, based on recommendations from political party chairmen, is problematic.“I’m with the Democratic Town Committee,” he said. He said having the town party committees choose the ethics committee members “is introducing politics into a quasi-judicial system. It’s too big for this town.”He raised the prospect of “four partisan people with subpoena power” and said “I am totally opposed to it.”He concluded by recommending the entire section establishing the ethics commission be eliminated, and said that the town could hire independent counsel to investigate individual ethics problems as they arise.Others also criticized the idea. One woman said she thought that a standing ethics commission, “politically based,” would create more more problems than it would solve.Peter Oliver, a former selectman, said he thought Lauretano was equating being on the losing side in votes on the Board of Selectmen with ethical violations.“The ultimate grievance occurs every two years,” during municipal elections, he said.Oliver said that in the town meeting-board of selectmen form of town government, “the town meeting is the forum for any grieveance. If the board of selectmen is acting improperly the town meeting has authority. That form of redress is always available.”A woman said that as an unaffiliated voter, “I don’t want to go begging to a party” to be nominated to the ethics commission.Another person suggested electing the ethics commission.“That’s a great idea,” said Lauretano.Al Ginouves said he thought Lauretano’s “solution is bigger than the problem.”Vail reiterated his idea that independent counsel be hired if necessary to investigate complaints, and cited the hiring of land-use consultant Donald Poland in 2010 to review the town’s planning and zoning regulations as an example of the town seeking independent advice on a major issue.“I’m going to give you a backhanded compliment,” Vail continued. “You’ve designed something that cannot be supported.”Another man then said, “I’m going to give you a forehanded compliment” and thanked Lauretano for his efforts. “I think you’re a stand-up guy.”Dresser’s objectionsDresser said he had planned to remain silent, but wanted to “make corrections.”He said that efforts had been made to get the Northwestern Connecticut Council of Governments (COG) to create a regional ethics commission, but the efforts were unsuccessful. The COG is an organization made of the first selectmen from nine Litchfield County towns, including all six towns in the Region One School District.And he said it was unfair for Lauretano to say that he and Rand had not cooperated. Dresser said that after all three selectmen attended a code of ethics workshop, Lauretano expressed the desire to work on it, and the other two agreed.“This is a town meeting issue, not a Board of Selectmen issue,” Dresser said, noting that the meeting was the fourth Lauretano had held on the subject, which he said was “appropriate.”Vivian Nasiatka said she thought a regional ethics commission would be “far better” than a town ethics commission, which would “pit people against each other.”
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Pet photo contest
Madi Long
Georgie, the resident office dog at The Lakeville Journal and The Millerton News.
Few things bring as much joy to a household as a pet. Whether they're our loyal companions, our biggest personalities or the ones who somehow manage to run the household, they have a way of making life a little more fun.
From dogs who greet us like we've been gone for years to cats who remind us who's really in charge, our pets bring plenty of character, comfort and a whole lot of love into our homes.
They're our walking buddies, couch companions, adventure partners and, of course, our favorite subjects to photograph.
We invited our community to introduce us to the pets who fill their lives with love. We're excited to share some of the adorable faces, funny personalities and furry friends that make our lives so special.
"Took" - Turkish Angora loved by Emily Peterson

Emily Peterson
Took, is a one-year-old Turkish Angora cat who lives in Falls Village. Fun fact: Took was named after the Hobbit Peregrin "Pippin" Took, from Lord of the Rings!
"Coop" - Dachshund loved by Karlee Mcghee

Karlee Mcghee
This is Coop, a cream/copper colored dachshund. He is a year old on October 11, and he lives in Sharon, CT. His favorite part about fall is chasing the leaves when they blow in the wind.
"Murray" - Clumber Spaniel loved by the Goldring Family

Daniel Goldring
This is Murray, a 5.5 year old Clumber Spaniel who is 60lbs of fun! He lives in Lakeville and can often be seen hiking Dark Hollow Road. Fun fact: he sits on the bench looking out the front window just to make sure we always come home. Works every time!
"Beni" - "Super Mutt" loved by Roxanne and Scott Bok

Roxanne Bok
Beignet “Beni” came to Roxanne and her husband, Scott, 2 years ago at 6 years of age. She is 8 different breeds, including “super mutt” - which is an actual category - but seems to identify as mostly terrier. She was originally rescued from a shelter in Louisiana, spent some time in foster with a FL veterinarian before coming to them. They had a rough first few months as she was fear-aggressive, especially regarding other dogs, but is still gaining confidence and trust. She is crazy for the woods and loves nothing better than digging for chipmunks in holes. They love her deeply and have learned the rich rewards of adopting. "Beni" lives in Salisbury, CT.
"Henry" - Jack Russell Terrier loved by Mimi Harson

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"Charlie" - Standard Poodle loved by Gwen Greene

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"Bella" - Portuguese Water Dog loved by Megan Jensen Sher

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"Maisie" - Lab mix loved by Alexandra Missett

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"Thorin" - Kerry Blue Terrier loved by Elizabeth Demetriades

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"Roger" - Sphynx cat loved by D.H. Callahan

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Harding concedes State Senate District 30 to Zimmer
Patrick Stachniak
Just as polls close, Former District 30 State Senator Stephen Harding greets supporters at his election watch party at The Abby Restaurant & Bar in New Milford, CT, Nov. 3.
In an unprecedented midterm election the evening of Nov. 3, Democrats across the country flipped battleground races for federal and local representatives in what has been described as a blue tsunami. The results in Connecticut were no different.
Small trout, big lasagna and bad movies
Patrick L. Sullivan
The Men of CACA. From left, the author, Steve DeSimone, and Tom Gallucio.
I recently convened the fall meeting of CACA, which stands for Cinema, Angling and Culinary Appreciation.
This takes place in Phoenicia, New York. We fish all day, make a bountiful dinner, and watch the world’s worst movies.
CACA was founded about 25 years ago, back when we had to worry about the elderly VCR eating the tape of “Death Race 2000.”
Attending this year were Steve DeSimone, who I met in the sixth grade, and my itinerant attorney Tom Gallucio.
Steve is gainfully employed and could only manage a couple of days. Tom wanders the nation with a small camper, so he was underfoot the entire week.
When the cool weather begins and he starts to molt, he knows it’s time to head south. So this was his last hurrah in the Northeast.
The culinary appreciation began when Tom made a 15 pound lasagna. We weighed it to be sure. It lasted all week.
On the cinema front, the big discovery was John Boorman’s 1974 ode to weirdness, “Zardoz.”
Whatever you do, do not Google the words “Zardoz” and “Sean Connery” and then select “images.”
If you do you will see something that cannot be unseen. And because this is a family newspaper, that’s all I have to say on the subject.
The angling was so-so. The Esopus was suffering from turbidity, so we concentrated on tributaries, which were running clear.
What we were hoping for was brown trout ready to put on the nosebag.
What we found were small wild rainbows.
I caught my fish on Leadwing Coachmen wet flies and small, heavy Bread and Butter and Surveyor nymphs.
Here in Connecticut, the stocking trucks have been rolling and a trip to the Blackberry, Housatonic or Farmington will probably be rewarding.

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Sharon ambulance captain carries on family tradition of service
Ruth Epstein
Thalia MacMillan
SHARON — Whether it’s in her professional work or her community volunteerism, Thalia MacMillan strives to advocate for others. She developed that instinct from her many family members who also have the same calling.
Many in the region know her dad, Stanley MacMillan, who served for decades as a building inspector and fire marshal. Her mother, Grace Kandefer, was a longtime nurse at Sharon Hospital. Both were active volunteer first responders. Her brother Stanley MacMillan, Jr., is a member of the Sharon Fire Department.
MacMillan, who is currently captain of the Sharon ambulance squad, was raised in Sharon, attended Sharon Center and then Oliver Wolcott Technical School with the intent of studying nursing.
“I wanted to help others, but realized not in that way,” she said during an interview Saturday. “I decided to take the social work path.”
After receiving a bachelor’s degree from Mt. St. Mary’s College in Newburgh, she went on to earn a master’s in social work from Fordham University. She then took a position with Lighthouse for the Blind, while also working as a teaching assistant. Later she earned a PhD in social welfare from Fordham.
As a teaching assistant, she found she really enjoyed working with students. That led to her current position as full professor at Empire State University, which is part of the State of New York system. Her courses include human services, addiction, disability and policy. Her teaching is now online and through independent study.
Most of her students are 30 and over who are coming back to school to get a degree. “As one who did that, I get it; I understand where they’re coming from,” she said.
MacMillan’s sense of caring and compassion comes through very clearly when she talks about preparing her students to work with individuals with disabilities, older adults, housing communities, those living in housing projects and people suffering from addiction.
For someone who loves to have fun and display a quirky sense of humor, MacMillan takes on a serious tone when talking about her students. “Things have gotten worse in the past few years. They are seeing some horrible things.”
She is also the author of several books dealing with topics related to her profession, including “An Introduction to Psychoactive Drugs and Medication,” “The ABCs of CPL: A Guide to Credit for Prior Learning” and “New Directions in Treatment, Education, and Outreach for Mental Health and Addiction.”
While working in New York, she met her husband, Andy Tam. They made the decision to move to Sharon in 2009. Both continued to commute to New York City before her teaching went online and he has transferred to Danbury, where he’s a purchasing manager.
“I wanted to come back and see what I could do for my community,” she said.
She joined the ambulance corps and when Jamie Casey retired in 2023, she took over the helm. She credits those whom she originally served with, including Casey, Jack Murtagh, David Chase, Betsy Hall and Tom Casey, with sharing their expertise to help her learn what she needed to know. “They gave me a lot of wisdom,” she said.
Speaking about the ambulance corps, she said the pool of volunteers has dwindled since the pandemic, with only about 14 to 15 members now. The hours required for certification and recertification are steep. Similar to other departments, Sharon has had to hire paramedics to cover certain hours. “Financially, it’s a struggle,” she said. “The burdens of the squad weigh heavily on me.”
But she went on to emphasize that the volunteers who are serving are phenomenal. They are very dedicated “and above all else, are very good people.”
One of the group’s big fundraisers is on the horizon for the fifth year, for which MacMillan is now preparing. Luminara, small bags filled with sand and tea-lights, are sold for $10 each. They are marked with names in honor or memory of someone. On Dec. 5 they will be put out all around the Green creating a magical glow to start off the holiday season. Last year a total of 2,200, including donations from a large number of businesses, were sold. Ambulance member Patricia Chamberlain came up with the idea. So far, 900 have been ordered for this year.
The ambulance squad also hosts monthly pancake breakfasts from March to September, In addition to raising some money, she likes that they bring the community together in an informal way.
For relaxation, MacMillan and Tam enjoy attending Comic-Cons, dressing up in wild costumes that depict some of their favorite characters.
“I love it just as much as kids,” she said. Among her favorites are the witch from “Snow White,” Ursula and “Super Girl.”
She said her favorite is Snow White because their backyard is a haven for stray animals and Snow White loves animals.
She is also a voracious reader, focusing mainly on stories about witches and vampires. “I like light reading; not heavy. My friend calls my favorites ‘fairy porn,’” she said with a laugh.
Sharon plans replacement of West Cornwall Road bridge
Patrick Stachniak
SHARON — The Board of Selectmen and Planning & Zoning Commission have approved new plans to replace the West Cornwall Road bridge over Pine Swamp Brook, just south of the historic covered bridge over the Housatonic River in West Cornwall.
The project has been in the works for three years after a survey determined that the structure was nearing the end of its intended life-span. After passing the P&Z commission, the project now only needs approval from four property owners near the site to begin the bidding process.
Demolition and the new bridge will cost an estimated total of $1.5 million, with Sharon responsible for 50%. First Selectman Casey Flanagan is “cautiously optimistic” construction will begin in spring 2027.
“We conducted a bridge assessment of our structures between six and 20 feet in length,” said Flanagan. “This bridge was identified as the top priority because of its poor condition, so that was the first one we started with.”
The approximately 15-foot bridge that crosses Pine Swamp Brook, and the several other bridges along West Cornwall Road can be indistinguishable from the normal road for commuters, according to Flanagan.
Flanagan did not identify any dangers or deficiencies but said the bridge has reached the end of its design life.
Connecticut’s $16 million State Local Bridge Program, administered by the Department of Transportation (CDOT), reimburses municipalities for repairs and replacement for small bridges. Though each town is responsible for the design, bidding and construction process, the state will reimburse 50% of the project’s total cost.
“Whether it’s kids going to school, people heading to work, or traveling to visit friends and family, every community depends on bridges that are safe and built to last,” said Governor Ned Lamont in July.
“This grant program provides significant relief to our towns and cities, helping them tackle costly infrastructure projects they couldn’t take on alone.”
The largest hurdle for both the Board of Selectmen and P&Z Commission was the revelation that four separate private properties intersect at the middle of the extended design’s Western side, which increases its lifespan.However, Flanagan stated that the property owners were cooperative and willing to allow the updated bridge design to stretch roughly 15 feet into their properties. Sharon has sought a permanent easement on the land to allow the new guardrails and road to remain on the properties, as well as enable maintenance and upkeep.
Though the complication increased the approval process timeline, Flanagan feels confident the town can compensate the property owners fairly and estimates Sharon will be able to complete the bidding process over the winter and begin construction in 2027.
The new design will not make substantial changes to the present bridge and will be functional for the next 100 years.
“Everything’s been going well. Hopefully the property owners are still eager and willing to work with us because it’s going to benefit them just as much as anybody else,” Flanagan said. “I’m cautiously optimistic that we’ll be able to negotiate deals with them all and move forward.”
Salisbury Forum links science, religion and Earth’s future
Patrick L. Sullivan
From left, Sam King, Mary Evelyn Tucker and John Grim discuss how religion and science can be used to address environmental challenges on Oct. 30.
LAKEVILLE — Religious scholars Mary Evelyn Tucker and John Grim and environmentalist, writer and former Hotchkiss teacher Sam King delivered a presentation at The Hotchkiss School Friday, Oct. 30.
Sponsored by the Salisbury Forum, “Change the Story, Change the World: A New Vision for an Ecological Era” explored how religious tradition and modern science can be used together to address environmental and spiritual challenges.
Tucker and Grim are co-directors of the Yale Forum on Religion and Ecology. King is project director for Journey of the Universe and taught environmental humanities at Hotchkiss.
Tucker and Grim were both students of Thomas Berry, a Catholic priest and professor at Fordham University who advocated for humanity to see itself as part of an interdependent community with the Earth, rather than using scientific and technological advances to exploit the planet.
The speakers made frequent references to “Journey of the Universe,” an Emmy Award-winning documentary co-written by Tucker. The film tells the story of the evolution of the universe, the Earth and humans from the Big Bang to the present.
Tucker said Berry was looking “not just for ways of enlightenment but a new way forward.”
“We need a new story that will integrate the discoveries of science” with religious beliefs, she said. “This new story has to be told in many forms.”
Grim said the challenge of “Journey” was how to tell the story of the evolving universe in what was originally a two-hour program, later edited down to one hour for television.
The subject matter was daunting, and the film deals with questions such as “Where did gravity come from?”
Tucker said the response to the film was gratifying and surprising. “China has really picked this up because it works with their traditions.”
Grim said he met a student from Pakistan who wanted to bring the film to that country even though it might be seen as contradicting Islamic teachings.
The student “cracked that nut,” and the film was shown in private and public schools in Pakistan without incident.
King, whose work on “Journey” includes arranging screenings, publishing a newsletter and hosting a podcast, said he taught at Hotchkiss from 2016 to 2019 in interdisciplinary humanities courses that asked students questions such as “Where do we come from?” and “What is a good human society?”
He said he discovered the film at a retreat and knew he had found something.
“I felt like I was meeting my own teachers.”
He started thinking about “a new cosmology with a new science.”
“We stand at a profound cosmic moment. We’re in the sixth mass extinction event, and the first caused by humans.”
The question for King was how to inspire young people to move from a model of human exploitation of nature toward a mutually enhancing relationship with it.
“We need to instill in young people a sense of fulfillment as creatures.”
Tucker said the interest is there. “Young people are very keen on science and cosmology.”
“This generation has gone through cynicism, disempowerment and despair. They’re coming out in a new place of hope and possibility. I’m very excited.”

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