Mom and Dad are moving in with you as soon as they reach 65. Get that spare bedroom ready, move brothers and sisters in together. We’re turning back the clock to pre-World War II: The family unit is back and the retired are, once again, about to be the burden of those still working. Come to think of it, little Johnny and Suzy had better get an after-school job to help the family make ends meet. And you can forget about school loans for the high-school graduates, that first car, holidays or remodeling your kitchen — no one will be able to afford them soon, either.You see, Granny and Granddad paid — through all those decades — for Social Security and Medicare. They planned for their retirement, no, not by having huge savings in a bank — there never was enough to put away really. What they did, as 65 percent of all Americans did, was to pay taxes and pay into the system. It’s like paying into a bank account for your retirement, only the government was handling their savings. They were promised Social Security retirement pay. Even if it was penny-pinching tight, at least they could live in their house and eat. They were promised Medicare medical coverage, even if it wasn’t as fancy as private insurance coverage at times, at least it was a safety net.u u uBut the Republicans in Congress this last week voted their first big anti-little guy measure: They want (and passed the vote) to cancel Medicare in favor of a private insurance plan. In other words, all those years of paying into the system are for nothing. You want medical insurance? You will now need to buy it from a private insurance company. The Republicans counter with an offer of a voucher system. They’ll give you a voucher you can trade in with a private insurance company to get minimal coverage. Of course, there is no guarantee the voucher will be worth anything and, on top of that, there will be a deductible, maybe as much as $10,000 per person. Get sick? The first $10,000 is on you. How the heck is someone living hand-to-mouth in this economy supposed to have $10,000 put aside for medical deductibles? Well, that’s OK because Congress members are covered by your tax dollar, no deductible of course, so it is easy for them to tell you to tough it out. They have no clue how hard it is to make ends meet for 65 percent of Americans.Bush Jr. tried this with Social Security, tried to privatize it. The whole nation stood up and said, “No! Hands off our savings, our planned retirement.” Will the nation stand up now and tell Boehner and Co. that privatizing Medicare is similarly immoral and theft on a grand scale? Maybe not. Why not? Because the young really have no idea what illness and old age ailments are like. The very system that has allowed families to live in separate houses and get on with their private lives (Mom and Dad don’t normally live with Granny and Granddad) has allowed the healthy to overlook and be ignorant of the dependence our seniors have on proper medical care without fees.u u uLook, let’s put this another way: Medicare is free for retired people. They do not (any longer) have to think about paying those bills, paying monthly premiums. They can rely on it; it is a benefit earned by paying their share over the decades. When privatized, as the Republicans just forced through the House with a full-court party-line press, will Granny pay the oil-heating bill or the medical insurance bill in the dead of winter. Remember last winter? What would you do? And what will Granny do when she gets ill? “Hello, Son and Daughter, I need help.” And then Son and Daughter say to their kids, “Put your futures on hold, our parents need help.”Now, across the nation seniors are angry at the Republicans’ plan, which is expected. What I would like to remind the young — yes, even you teenagers — is that your responsibility for your parents just shot up and will, no doubt, get worse. Are you ready? Will you take care of your bed-ridden parent with no insurance, a parent who may need 24-hour nursing? And if you do, who’s going to pay your bills if you cannot work? And let’s not forget Republicans want to, once again, try and privatize Social Security as well. They want your savings in Wall Street bankers’ hands. Now there’s a safe idea. Not.u u uWhy do you need to worry about all this? Because Medicare and Social Security payments, made faithfully and honestly over decades, have been raided by each successive administration. Has the government taken the principle money? Nope, that’s against the law. What they have done is take loans against the interest the money has earned and, surprise, never paid loans back at anything approaching commercial interest rates. It is like your savings account being raided and instead of 4 percent or more you got back half a percent. How, why, is this possible? Again, those people in the House of Representatives have passed laws allowing them to do so. The president doesn’t make laws, they do.There is a chance the Senate can stop all this nonsense, but the forces in Washington are rallying to help Boehner and his team to gut your parents’ security in retirement. And when they do — and they have passed the first step — you’re the ones having to pick up the pieces. Of course, you could always ask your parents to do the honorable thing, like aging Eskimos, and get on an iceberg and sail out to death at sea. Maybe, as Scrooge said, what Boehner is really after is “to decrease the surplus population.” One day, youth of America, that would be you. Peter Riva, formerly of Amenia Union, lives in New Mexico.
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Legal Notices - October 20, 2026
Lakeville Journal
TAX COLLECTOR TOWN OF SALISBURY CT
LEGAL NOTICE
Pursuant to Sec. 12-145 of the Connecticut Statutes, the taxpayers of the Town of Salisbury are hereby notified that the second installment on the Grand List of October 1, 2025 is due and payable on October 1, 2026. Payments must be received or postmarked by November 2, 2026. If said Real Estate and Personal Property taxes are not paid on or before November 2, 2026 interest at the rate of 1 1/2% (18% per year) will be added for each month or a fraction thereof which elapses from the time when such tax becomes due and payable until the same is paid. Minimum interest charge is $2.00. Taxes can be paid by mail addressed to: Tax Collector, P.O. BOX 338, Salisbury CT 06068 or Town Hall, 27 Main Street, Salisbury CT. There is a drop box in the vestibule of the Town Hall available 9am-4pm, Monday - Friday or the 24-hour drop box on the back side of the building off Factory Street. Tax Office is open Mon and Wed, 9am-4pm and Friday 9am - 3pm closed for lunch 12:30pm -1:30pm. The Town is urging taxpayers to use the option to pay by credit card or e-check. Please go to the Town website salisburyct.us, View/PayTaxes Tab. Dated at Salisbury, CT this 2nd day of September, 2026. JoAnne D. Dodge, CCMC Tax Collector
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NOTICE TO CREDITORS
ESTATE OF STEPHEN MICHAEL BRANDT
Late of Lakeville (26-00394)
The Hon. Jordan M. Richards, Judge of the Court of Probate, District of Litchfield Hills Probate Court, by decree dated September 28, 2026, ordered that all claims must be presented to the fiduciary at the address below. Failure to promptly present any such claim may result in the loss of rights to recover on such claim. The fiduciary is: Maureen F. Dell 172 Farnum Road Lakeville, CT 06039 Jordan Bergs Clerk
10-22-26
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CONNECTICUT -- All Registrars of Voters' offices in Connecticut will hold a statewide voter registration session from 9:00 AM to 8:00 PM. This is the last regular session for admission of electors who have turned 18, become a US citizen, or moved to Connecticut. This deadline includes registration by mail which must be post marked by this day, registration at DMV by close of business, Online registrations must be completed by 11:59 pm or in person by 8:00 pm. Residents of Norfolk can register at Norfolk Town Hall, Registrar's Office, 19 Maple Ave, Norfolk CT November 2, 2026 CONNECTICUT -- All Registrars of Voters' offices in Connecticut will hold a statewide voter registration session from 9:00 AM to 5:00 PM. This is a limited registration session for admission of electors who have turned 18, become a US citizen, or moved to Connecticut since October 16th of this year. This registration session is also open to members of the Armed Forces, and former Armed Forces members who have been discharged within the calendar year. The Norfolk CT session will be held at Norfolk Town Hall, Registrar's Office, 19 Maple Ave, Norfolk CT 06058
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Lelah M. Somers
Lakeville Journal
DOVER PLAINS — Lelah M. Somers, 97, a longtime Dover Plains, New York, resident, passed away peacefully on Saturday, Oct. 10, 2026, at Ferncliff Nursing Home in Rhinebeck, New York. Lelah was born on July 3, 1929, in Pawling, New York, to the late Byron and Lelah (Watts) Brill. Lelah grew up in Pawling and on Nov. 22, 1946, in Pleasant Valley, New York, she married James F. Somers, Sr. Mr. Somers passed away on Sept. 3, 1970. Lelah worked for New York State as a therapy aide for thirty-years and as a senior companion for New York State for thirty-two-years, with specific care provided to the mentally disabled.
She enjoyed taking care of the mentally disabled, was a wonderful mother to her four children, always putting her family first. She is survived by her son, James F. Somers, Jr. and his wife Donna of Dover Plains; two daughters, Doreen Monica of Wingdale, and Frances “Fran” Horton of Dover Plains, who was also her caregiver for many years; seven grandchildren, Debbie, Margie, Leah, Stephanie, Deirdra, Benji and Jimmy and several great grandchildren and great-great grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews, and her step-son, Kenny Elliott. In addition to her parents and husband, Lelah was predeceased by her daughter and son-in-law, Carol “DeeDee” Maile and Gil Maile, her son-in-law, Stephen Monica, and her son-in-law, Benny Horton as well as her companion of over forty-years, Andrew “Mac” McAlravey and her siblings, Ferris Brill, Eleanor Barryann, Richard Brill, William Brill and Barney Brill.
Lelah was a loving mother and a strong willed and hard-working woman. She was an avid NASCAR fan for many years and traveled with her companion “Mac” up and down the east coast following the sport. Her favorite track was the Daytona International Speedway in Florida that they went to every February to attend the Daytona 500 race. She loved her family so much and she will be dearly missed; she lived a long life and for that her family is deeply grateful.
Graveside services and burial will take place on Friday, Oct. 16, 2026, at 11:30 a.m. at Valley View Cemetery in Dover Plains, NY. Pastor Rick Totten will officiate. A reception in Lelah’s honor will follow at the VFW Post # 5444, 3422 Route 22, Dover Plains, NY. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Heart Association, American Cancer Society or the Alzheimer’s Association Hudson Valley Chapter. To send an online condolence to the family, flowers to the service or to plant a tree in Lelah’s honor, please visit www.conklinfuneralhome.com Arrangements have been entrusted to Scott D. Conklin Funeral Home, 37 Park Avenue, Millerton, NY 12546.
Ronald Decker Jr.
Lakeville Journal
MILLERTON — It is with great sadness that we announce the sudden passing of Ronald Owen Decker Jr. of Millerton, New York on Oct. 6, 2026, at the age of 58.
Ronald was born on Oct. 29, 1967, in Sharon, Connecticut to the late Catherine Spaulding and Ronald Decker Sr.
Known affectionately as Ronnie, he was a beloved chef for many years at various private schools in the Millerton, and Connecticut areas. He enjoyed cooking for others and lending a helping hand to anyone in need. Ronnie cherished spending time with family and making people smile. His kindness always shined bright.
Ronnie and his brother Steve spent many years together driving tractor-trailers before Ronnie returned to the kitchen.
Those left to cherish his memory include his son, Christopher Johnson, and his partner, Sara LeBaron; two grandsons; his close cousin, John Wilson (JR); his niece, Tiffany Brown, and her spouse, Sean Brown; and his great-niece, Elianna Decker. Ronnie also leaves behind other cousins and great-nieces and great-nephews. His father, Ronald Decker Sr., had other children whom Ronnie leaves behind: Kevin Decker, Dawn Decker, and Heidi Piefer.
Ronald is also predeceased by his brother, Steven Decker; his late wife, Joanne Decker; and Timothy Decker.
He will be dearly missed by everyone who knew him.
A small celebration of life in Ronnie’s memory will be held at a date to be determined.
The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.

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Carol McLaughlin Anderson
Lakeville Journal
LAKEVILLE — Carol McLaughlin (Fenn) Anderson of Brunswick, Maine, died on Sept. 11, 2026. Carol was the daughter of the late Ray and Carolyn Mary (Everhard) McLaughlin and was predeceased by her sister, Nancy Peck. She was born March 23, 1932, in Ohio and moved to Sharon, Connecticut with her family in 1942. She graduated from Bassick High School in Bridgeport and then attended Connecticut College for Women and completed her education at Connecticut Teachers College in New Britain, earning a Bachelor’s degree in education and Master’s degree in mathematics. She raised her family in Canton, Connecticut and lived in Lakeville, Connecticut until she moved to Maine in 1992.
Carol’s love of nature and being out of doors led her and first husband, Allyn Fenn, to downhill skiing as weekend volunteers for the Catamount Ski Patrol in Hillsdale, New York. She also loved to sail, learning at a girls’ camp on Moose Pond in Denmark, Maine and continuing throughout her life. She explored the waters of midcoast Maine with her late husband, Captain Robert Anderson, and Casco Bay with her family and close friend Bill Hetzel on sailboats big and small.
Carol was endlessly curious and loved to learn. She took classes, read books and articles, traveled, went to museums, and deeply listened to people. She shared her love of the world with others as a volunteer at the Maine Maritime Museum, a train host on the Downeaster, and both an elementary school and adult education teacher. An avid crossword puzzler and knitter, she always found a way to keep both her hands and her mind busy. She was active in her local churches, most recently St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in Brunswick.
Carol’s greatest joy, though, was her family. Carol is survived by her daughter, Deborah Driver, and her husband, Roy; her son, Christopher Fenn, and his wife, Liz; four grandchildren, Krystal Fenn, Dustin Fenn, Kate Driver, and Josh Driver; and two great-grandchildren, Evan and Aidan Miller.
Carol found great delight in little things: a nice cup of tea, a walk, watching the birds, a baked apple or a slice of fresh bread, the view from atop a parking garage in Portland, or a few minutes parked next to the ocean. She knew how to appreciate life’s small pleasures, remarking on one occasion while looking out over Casco Bay after a short cross country ski with her family, “aren’t we lucky.” She will be missed by many.
A private graveside service was held at Salisbury Cemetery in Salisbury, Connecticut on Oct. 14th. Memorial gifts can be made to the Maine Maritime Museum.
Celebration of Life - Dona L. Chilcoat
Lakeville Journal
Family and friends are invited to gather in loving memory of Dona L. Chilcoat at a Celebration of Life on Saturday, November 7, 2026, from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m. at the Lakeville Town Grove.
This informal gathering will be an opportunity to honor Dona’s life, share cherished memories, and celebrate the love and joy she brought to those who knew her.
Please stop by and help us celebrate a life that meant so much to so many.
Classifieds - October 20, 2026
Lakeville Journal
REAL ESTATE FOR SALE
PUBLISHER'S NOTICE: Equal Housing Opportunity. All real estate advertised in this newspaper is subject to the Federal Fair Housing Act of 1966 revised March 12, 1989 which makes it illegal to advertise any preference, limitation, or discrimination based on race, color religion, sex, handicap or familial status or national origin or intention to make any such preference, limitation or discrimination. All residential property advertised in the State of Connecticut General Statutes 46a-64c which prohibit the making, printing or publishing or causing to be made, printed or published any notice, statement or advertisement with respect to the sale or:rental of a dwelling that indicates any preference, limitation or discrimination based on race, creed, color, national origin, ancestry, sex, marital status, age, lawful source of income, familial status, physical or mental disability or an intention to make any such preference, limitation or discrimination
HELP WANTED
Full-time Warehouse and Office positions available in Sharon, CT. We're looking for dependable, self-motivated individuals who are ready to work and take pride in doing a good job. Pay is $22 to $30 an hour, depending on experience. Applicants must have reliable transportation, be dependable and on time every day, be self-motivated and able to work independently, have a positive attitude and good work ethic. Interested? Call Mike or Greg at 800-245-8222 for more information.
The Hughes Memorial Union in West Cornwall seeks an energetic, hands-on Program Manager to lead day-to-day operations for a growing community organization encompassing The Local retail market, the Wellness Collective, two organization-owned buildings and other programs. The role blends nonprofit and financial management, retail leadership and facilities stewardship, and is suited to someone equally comfortable with a spreadsheet, local vendors and makers, consultants, funders, and government officials. If interested, please send a cover letter and resume to: kate.campana@accesschallenge.org and brwhiteford@gmail.com
HOUSE FOR RENT
2 Bedroom House. Millerton, NY. Quiet. 4 miles from town. No Dogs. $2400 monthly, plus utilities. 518-567-8277.
SERVICES OFFERED
Carpenter/Builder/Handy-man David Valyou Renovations, Repairs and Maintenance. Old homes and barns my speciality. Extensive knowledge and experience. 25 years serving NY, CT, MA. Licensed & insured. Based in Canaan, CT. Call or text 917-538-1617 for consultation. David Valyou @yahoo.com
APARTMENTS FOR RENT
3 Room Apartment in Sharon, utilities included. $1800 per month. 860-248-0056

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