Henry M. Gaffney

SHARON — Henry M. Gaffney, a prolific songwriter and  music professor, died May 23, 2010, at his home in Sharon after a struggle with lung cancer. He was 61.  

He was the beloved and proud father of 23-year-old twins, Julian and Devin Gaffney, and husband to his best friend and wife of 39 years, Lisa Gaffney.

Henry was born in Brooklyn, N.Y., on March 8, 1949, to the late Mary (Gross) and Henry E. Gaffney. In 1971, he started visiting the Northwest Corner of Connecticut, which he loved so much. Sharon became his home in 2002.

Henry had a career in music that spanned almost four decades.  He was a professional recording artist in his early career with two witty and romantic albums (“Waiting for a Windâ€� and “On Again Off Againâ€�). In a review of “On Again Off Again,â€� Rolling Stone magazine said“Henry Gaffney’s pop songs are often touched with brilliance.â€� He then became a songwriter for many artists. Included among them are Roberta Flack, The Pointer Sisters, The Four Tops, Judy Collins, Jennifer Warnes and Glenn Campbell, as well as for the Emmy award-winning television series “Fame,â€� receiving gold and platinum records for his work.  He also composed, arranged and produced the original score to “Sidewalk Stories,â€� the 1988 winner of the Prix du Public award at the Cannes Film Festival.

He joined the songwriting department faculty at the Berklee College of Music in Boston, Mass., in the early 1990s, beginning a deeply fulfilling period as a professor. He later brought the same enthusiasm for teaching to the Tisch School at New York University, where he played an instrumental role in the development of the Clive Davis Department of Recorded Music’s Songwriting Department. His door was open to all and he was deeply loved and admired by his students and colleagues alike.

He was a brilliant man who was regarded by all for his voracious intellect and open mind. Despite his deep-felt understanding of his subject, his gift was to encourage and inspire his students to find their own voice.

Henry is survived by his wife, Lisa, and sons, Julian and Devin, as well as sisters Mary Stonitsch and Cathy Gaffney, and brother Ed Gaffney. His brother Chris died in 1995. He was beloved by all who had the pleasure to meet him and he will be greatly missed.

Henry loved the peace and beauty of Sharon and a memorial will be held there in the summer.

His family has been deeply touched by the fond memories posted on his Facebook wall. Henry would be moved to know how many lives he impacted.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be sent to The Sharon Volunteer Fire Department and Ambulance Service, PO Box 357, Sharon, CT 06069.

Arrangements are under the care of the Kenny Funeral Home in Sharon.

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