The jalapeño of life

If variety is the spice of life, then competition should be its jalapeño pepper; and there is no better competition than an historic, geographic and downright dirty rivalry.

A rivalry is built on both respect and hate. Respect is necessary in that one cannot get really worked up about an enemy that can’t fire back, and there are few things sadder than a once blooming competition that has been lost because one side is now incompetent.

Take the once deep dislike between the Washington Redskins and the Dallas Cowboys. For quite a time, when both teams were good, who beat whom was a story avidly followed and a matter of great civic pride. Now that neither team is very good, mention of a rivalry seems like wishful thinking.

What was lacking in that rivalry, though, was geographical proximity, a necessary quality to a real barn burner of a feud. Now every baseball fan knows of a true case of civic hysteria in the yearly face-offs between the Boston Red Sox and the New York Yankees.

Ever since The Sox gave away Babe Ruth, Boston has had it in for the Yankees, but I don’t think the feeling was reciprocated. The Yankees were the kings of the American League for decade after decade, and most of the time, the poor Red Sox were trying to stay out of the cellar. Unrequited hatred is really a bit pathetic.

Things change, and the dawning of this century has rewritten the rules of engagement. The Sox are now the kings and the Yankees more of a Royal Pretender. What this season may bring is an open question, but whatever the result, it will merely add fuel to the fire.

Hatred is really not a productive emotion; but playing at it, while perhaps a bit dangerous to one’s inner balance, is very much like ordering those hot wings that you know will burn but will somehow also satisfy. It’s one of the ways of knowing that there’s still some fire in that belly and that it can be played with without burning down the building. Play is one way of defusing what otherwise might be ugly.

For youngsters playing the game, a good rivalry adds some urgency to the otherwise peaceful feeling of using one’s natural skills and talents. For the rest of us, well, we will just have to make certain we have the right cap, our favorite uniform shirt and this year’s roster when we go to the ball park to get a dose of that rivalry spice firsthand. See you there.

Theodore Kneeland is a retired teacher and coach.

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