Gardens galore at Trade Secrets 2023

Martha Stewart with Caleb Kane of Stonecrop Gardens in Cold Spring, N.Y., during the Trade Secrets event Sunday, May 21.
Photo by Anne Day
LAKEVILLE — Trade Secrets Rare Plants and Garden Antiques Sale, and garden tours, took place this past weekend in various locations throughout the Northwest Corner of Connecticut. Both days threatened rain, and Saturday delivered on that promise, but that didn’t keep hundreds of enthusiasts from touring the gardens on Saturday, May 20, or attending the plant and garden antiques sale at Lime Rock Park in Salisbury on Sunday, May 21.
Trade Secrets was started by well-known interior designer, gardener, and Falls Village resident Bunny Williams 22 years ago, as a fundraiser for Women’s Support Services. She has been involved with the event and the organization it supports continuously since its inception. The garden tours, usually sold as a package of four, were sold individually this year; Williams’ garden was sold out.
On Saturday Williams stood near the boxwood parterre at her home greeting visitors, who sought her out to say hello, and compliment her on the beauty of her gardens many rooms and different spaces. Guests meandered through the woodland garden, across the hedged lawn, down into the sunken garden, and out to the bird house village, snippets of conversation floating in the air behind them. “I love this!” “This is a garden I could handle.” “We could put something like that in the meadow.”
“You guys need these,” a woman said to her friends, pointing to a tree peony.
“Ideas and inspiration,” said Sally Hamilton, when asked why she came on the garden tour. Hamilton, from Athens, N.Y., more than an hour’s drive away, was wending her way around Michael Trapp’s magical, gravity defying, Mediterranean-inspired reverie in West Cornwall. Trapp opened his store and started his garden 33 years ago. “Though it looks like it’s 1,000 years old,” Trapp said.
That’s intentional. Narrow cobblestoned paths hedged in boxwood, towering cedars, ancient terracotta pots, chunks of statuary, a reflecting pool tucked into the hillside, Trapp’s garden is inspired by his travels around the world.
Trade Secrets began as a plant sale on Williams’ Falls Village estate, and the next year antiques were added. It quickly grew in popularity, necessitating several venue changes. Last year it was held at Lime Rock Park for the first time, and the venue seems large enough to handle the crowds. More than 35 vendors displayed a wide variety of wares.
Nancy Henze from Pine Plains was admiring the selection of handwoven baskets displayed by Wendy G. Jensen Basketmaker. “These are fabulous,” Henze said.
Jensen of Monterey, Massachusetts, is an expert weaver. Asked if she designed the baskets for specific uses, she said, “Sometimes I just like a particular shape, but for instance this one, was inspired by a student of mine who wanted something to use when she was picking blueberries.” Jensen hand-weaves the baskets out of rattan, and also basket willow that she grows herself. After its harvested she dries it for nine months or so, then resoaks it to make it pliable for weaving.
Vicki Salnikoff, from Millbrook, confessed that it was her first time ever at Trade Secrets. She came with a trio of friends who are longtime supporters of the event. Salnikoff, despite being new to the scene, had scoped out the good coffee from Batchy Brew, a food truck positioned on the periphery, and she was enthusiastic about the topiaries she had purchased from Atlock Farm, and “the tablecloth from the linen lady,” she said. Then she was off to buy peonies from Peony Envy, a Trade Secrets participant for more than a decade.
Women’s Support Services was rebranded a few years ago, “to recognize that relationship violence affects people regardless of gender,” said Betsey Mauro, executive director of Project SAGE (which stands for “Support, Advocate, Guide, Educate”). “We want everyone to know that our services are available to anyone experiencing intimate partner violence.”
Jonathan Bee of Hunter Bee, the vintage goods shop in Millerton, is not only a longtime vendor, but also a volunteer of many years. He is passionate about the need for the programs and services SAGE offers. “SAGE does a lot of great work, and I’m very glad they changed their name and expanded their reach. It’s really important to have an organization that deals with domestic violence issues.”
Mauro also talked about the importance of Trade Secrets as a fundraiser for their organization and the dedication of the volunteers and vendors. “I want to note the generosity of our vendors, who are very supportive of our mission; and our more than 250 volunteers, many of whom start working on next year’s Trade Secrets, months beforehand.”
To volunteer or support Project SAGE go to: www.tradesecretsct.com/project-sage
Update: Event organizers reported Tuesday, May 23 that some 2100 patrons came to Lime Rock Park for the sale on Sunday. The gardens tours on Saturday had anywhere from 400 to 850 attendees, depending on the garden.
Visitors to Bunny Williams’ garden on Saturday, May 20, wandered around the boxwood parterre. Photo by Rodney Paterson
Kirk Henckels from Millbrook rarely misses Trade Secrets. He was thrilled to find some lupine. “Very tricky to grow in this area,” he said. Photo by Rodney Paterson
WINSTED — Gilbert Kenneth Schoonmaker, of Monroe, Connecticut, passed away peacefully on July 24, 2025, at the age of 77. Born on Jan. 18, 1948, in Winsted, Connecticut to Gilbert and Alta (Bierce) Schoonmaker, Gil spent four decades enjoying life on Highland Lake before settling in Monroe.
He is lovingly survived by his wife of 56 years, Sally (Gustafson) Schoonmaker, and his two daughters, Lynn Sindland and her husband Lee of Lead Hill, Arkansas, and Deb Pikiell and her husband Tim of Bristol, Connecticut. Gil was a proud grandfather to Ozzie, Tommy, Betsy, Katie, George, Lucy, Maddie, Joey, and Julia, and he cherished his time with his eight great-grandchildren. Gilbert leaves behind his siblings Ann, Gary, Gail, Jan, and Tim.
Gil met Sally, the love of his life, while attending Housatonic Valley Regional High School.He went on to attend Northwest Community College before serving in the United States Air Force. Professionally, he was the longtime owner of Universal Business Equipment in Bridgeport, a role he held with pride for more than 20 years.
Gil had a lifelong passion for the outdoors and was an avid golfer and fly fisherman. He also enjoyed birdwatching and gardening. Perhaps more than anything, Gil will be remembered for his love of cooking. He took great joy in preparing meals for family and friends. Right up until his final days, he was finding joy in discovering new ways to cook the vegetables he grew in his garden.
Friends and family are invited to attend a funeral service at Stepney Baptist Church, 423 Main Street in Monroe on Tuesday, July 29at 11:00 a.m.
To leave an online message of condolence, please visit Gilbert’s tribute page at www.OBrien-FuneralHome.com
Author and cartoonist Peter Steiner signed books at Sharon Summer Book Signing last summer.
The 27th annual Sharon Summer Book Signing at the Hotchkiss Library of Sharon will be held Friday, Aug. 1, from 4:45 to 7:30 p.m.; Saturday, Aug. 2, from 10 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.; and Sunday, Aug. 3, at noon.
Friday’s festivities will honor libraries and the power of the written word. In attendance will be 29 locally and nationally recognized authors whose books will be for sale. With a wide array of genres including historical fiction, satire, thrillers, young adult and non-fiction, there will be something for every reader.
The event will include a selection of hors d’oeuvres and drinks, followed by eight festive author dinners where writers will read and discuss their work one-on-one with attendees.
Saturday will feature a new Page to Plate program that merges the literary and culinary worlds. Just as writing is a practice of patience and love, so too is the art of cooking. Cookbooks and food writing make cooking teachable to those excited to learn and celebrate the art of a perfect meal.
Through a combination of demonstrations and conversations, acclaimed cookbook authors and chefs will cover a variety of delicious topics. Highlights include a discussion with Chris Morocco, food director of “Bon Appetit” magazine and “Epicurious.” Sharon resident and chef Jessie Sheehan will demonstrate recipes from her cookbook “Salty, Cheesy, Herby, Crispy Snackable Bakes: 100 Easy-Peasy, Savory Recipes for 24/7 Deliciousness.”
With the combination of vetted recipes and thorough discussion from food experts, attendees are sure to leave knowing how to cultivate the ultimate act of service: the gift of a full stomach.
Sunday will be brunch at a private Sharon residence hosted by Graham Klemm and Cody O’Kelly to celebrate author Carolyn Klemm and her cookbook “Culinary Collection: Favorite Country Recipes.”
For more information and to purchase tickets, visit hotchkisslibraryofsharon.org
All proceeds support the programs at The Hotchkiss Library of Sharon.
Ukraine Emergency Fundraiser at The Stissing Center in 2022 raised over $120,000 for Sunflower of Peace.
The spirit of Ukraine will be on display at the Stissing Center in Pine Plains on Sunday, July 27. Beginning at 5 p.m., the “Words to America from Ukraine” fundraiser is set to showcase the simultaneous beauty of Ukrainian culture and the war-time turmoil it faces, all the while fundraising in support of Ukrainian freedom.
“Words to America from Ukraine” aims to remind and spread awareness for the suffering that often gets forgotten by those who live in comfortable worlds, explained Leevi Ernits, an organizer for the event. “We are trying to make an attempt to remind people that we are human, and we are connected with human values,” she said. “With very few words, poetry can express very deep values.”
Sponsored by the Town of Stanford, Friends of Ukraine, L.E. Design LLC, Bartelby & Sage, Oblong Books and Borshch of Art, the fundraiser will host the recitation of war-time Ukrainian poetry. Readings will include the works of Vasyl Sagaydak, Oksana Lutsyshyna, Serhiy Zhadan, Victoria Amelina, Marjana Savka, Ostap Slyvynsky, and Mariana Harahonych.
“Poems are fishhooks into our souls,” added Mark Lagus, another event organizer, explaining why poetry was chosen for the main event.
Guests will also enjoy a performance by Ukrainian Village Voices, a New York City- based band dedicated to preserving and promoting traditional Ukraining Folk music. The evening will also feature speakers Jed Sunden and Maria Genkin, along with a live auction. Food and drink will be provided by Bartelby & Sage, a sustainable, local and female-owned company.
All ticket proceeds, bids, and donations will go directly to Razom for Ukraine, a U.S.-based nonprofit. Razom, meaning “together” in Ukrainian, has the mission of “contributing to the establishment of a secure, prosperous and democratic Ukraine,” through “creating, inspiring, and collaborating on initiatives that motivate people to think, partner and do.”
Tickets, donation opportunities, and more information are all available by visiting www.wordsfromukraine.org
Celebrating its 45th year, the Grumbling Gryphons will perform at HVRHS Friday, Aug. 1, at 7 p.m.
The Grumbling Gryphons Traveling Children’s Theater is preparing to celebrate its 45th year — not with fanfare, but with feathers, fabric, myth, chant, and a gala finale bursting with young performers and seasoned artists alike.
The Gryphons’ 2025 Summer Theater Arts Camp begins July 28 and culminates in a one-night-only performance gala at Housatonic Valley Regional High School on Friday, Aug. 1 at 7 p.m. Founder, playwright, and artistic director, Leslie Elias has been weaving together the worlds of myth, movement and theater for decades.
“We’re a touring company that is participatory,” Elias said with her trademark storytelling cadence. “Even when there’s no pre-performance workshop, it’s still participatory. Always.”
Founded in 1980 “in a little basement apartment on the lower east side with co-founder Vanessa Roe,” said Elias,Grumbling Gryphons (recipients of the 2003 Connecticut Governor’s Arts Award) has long occupied a unique niche: part performance troupe, part educational outreach, part community ritual. Whether dramatizing Greek myths, Native American legends, or original tales about bees and bogs, the company’s ethos centers on inclusion, transformation, and hands-on engagement.
This summer’s camp offers children ages six and up five fast-paced days of storytelling, acting, mask-making, and rehearsal. The first three days will take place at Elias’s own home studio — a tucked-away space filled with costumes, puppets, and instruments — before moving into full performance prep mode.
“In the ideal world, we would have more time,” she laughed. “It’s a lot of pressure to be performing for the public after five days. But we’re going to do our best.”
The gala performance, she explained, is a kind of theatrical mosaic — scenes and excerpts from Grumbling Gryphons’ vast repertoire, some showcasing seasoned adult performers and others giving campers center stage. The cast will include returning campers, newcomers, and guest artists drawn from the Gryphons’ decades-spanning circle of collaborators including mask maker and artist Ellen Moon.
“We’re still figuring out exactly what we’ll do,” said Elias, “but it’s kind of like a smorgasbord… a celebration. And it’s open — if anybody wants to get their kids involved, or even volunteer, we welcome you.”
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Elias’s own theater background winds through early improvisational schools, Viennese dance traditions, and experimental spaces like Henry Street Settlement. As a child on Long Island, she studied with jazz pianist Ivan Fiedel and dancer Rosalind Fiedel, eccentric mentors who nurtured her taste for the surreal and spontaneous.
“Mr. Fiedel was a character,” she recalled. “He would smoke a cigar… and take the cigar in his ear and the smoke would come out the other end. I don’t know how he did it.”
Elias built Grumbling Gryphons with this sense of magic — not as a traditional company, but as a living, evolving story in itself. Whether working with preschoolers or middle-schoolers, audiences in botanical gardens or historic town halls, the Gryphons invite kids to become creators — to chant, to improvise, to embody archetypes from ancient lore or environmental parables.
And that’s what this summer’s camp and gala are all about. “It’s more than theater,” Elias said. “It’s myth, poetry, movement — it’s about building self-esteem, imagination. It’s about transformation.”
For more information, to register a child for the 2025 Summer Theater Camp, or to inquire about volunteering, visit grumblinggryphons.org