Norfolk celebrates midwinter

Library Events Coordinator Eileen Fitzgibbons explained the symbolism of the spread of nuts, seeds, cheeses and more she had prepared for the occasion.
Alec Linden


Library Events Coordinator Eileen Fitzgibbons explained the symbolism of the spread of nuts, seeds, cheeses and more she had prepared for the occasion.
NORFOLK — With a foot or more of snow on the ground and below-zero wind chills outside, spring felt far off in the Northwest Corner on Saturday. Inside Norfolk Library, however, a small group gathered for a discussion and reflection on the ancient Celtic holiday of Imbolc — a celebration marking the gradual return of light and life at winter’s midpoint.
Norfolk Library staffers Eileen Fitzgibbons and Bina Thomson introduced the holiday during the program on Saturday, Jan. 31, inviting about 10 attendees to meditate on the quiet calm of winter and the imminent vitality of spring.
Now synonymous with the feast day of Ireland’s patroness saint, St. Brigid — a bank holiday in Ireland as of 2022 — Imbolc is one of the four traditional Gaelic festivals originating in pre-Christian Ireland, Scotland and the Isle of Man. Falling roughly halfway between the winter solstice and spring equinox, the ancient Celts viewed the beginning of February as the beginning of the end of winter.
“[Imbolc] reminds us that growth starts long before it is visible,” Fitzgibbons explained to the attentive group as a fire roared in the Library’s ample fireplace.
She said the Gaelic origin of the holiday’s name, Imbolc, means “in the belly,” referencing the beginning of the lambing season in Ireland. Despite the cold, she said, the Celts understood this time of year as a season of “renewal” and “life returning.”
As they listened, guests munched on a spread of sheep’s cheese, seed crackers, nuts, dried apricots and fig jam prepared by Fitzgibbons, and sipped wine, herbal tea and a hibiscus cider punch made by Thomson. Fitzgibbons said each libation and refreshment reflected symbolic food and drink associated with the tradition, which draws on both the ancient festival and its Christianized version, St. Brigid’s Day.
St. Brigid is thought by scholars to correlate with a pagan Irish deity of the same name, associated with metalwork, fire, fertility and midwifery — symbols that remained attached to the saint. Fitzgibbons said the image of both the goddess and saint reconciles the harshness of winter with the gentle promise of spring. “She’s quite a gal,” Fitzgibbons said, drawing laughs from the group.
Both Fitzgibbons and Thomson said they have observed the holiday in their own ways for some time, and that the gathering offered an opportunity to share what they had learned.
Thomson said the practice has helped her “learn how to winter properly.” At the midpoint between the winter solstice and spring equinox, she said, it is a good moment to pause and reflect: “Ok, we’ve made it this far.”.
Norfolk resident Kristin Mudge, who was attending without prior knowledge of the holiday, said she appreciated the perspective. “I love the idea that something is sort of simmering below the surface, and there sure is a lot of surface out there right now,” she said, gesturing at the snowbanks towering outside the window.
After a brief candle-making workshop – candles are another symbol of the holiday – the group regathered to exchange poems. Fitzgibbons and Thomson explained that the holiday is one of introspection and reflection, and that things like exchanging poems, walks in the woods and quality time with friends and family are all suitable “celebrations.”
Thomson led the poetry circle with a composition of her own, a “poem/not-poem” called Imbolc Musings:
“We do not need to rush, we do not need to run. We just need to stop and take notice.”
Lakeville Journal
CANAAN — Anita L. (King) Gochey, 85, of 77 South Canaan Rd. died June 5, 2026, at Geer Village. She was the wife of the late Lester Gochey. Anita was born July 16, 1940,in Winsted, daughter of the late Ivan and Irene (Dulude) King.
Anita was well known throughout the Northwest Corner. She worked for many local businesses and organizations. Anita worked at the Rexall Drug Store, C.A. Lindell and Sons, Bob’s Clothing, Brooks Pharmacy, and the Housatonic Valley Regional High School in the cafeteria.She used her skills in calligraphy to complete the record books for the North Canaan Congregational Church.Anita’s daughter remembers her as being very creative with cardboard, and a loving mom.
Anita is survived by her son Raymond Gochey and his fiancee’ Chris Filkins of Hinsdale, Massachusetts; and her daughter Michele O’Brien of Sharon. She is also survived by her sister Denise Warner of Torrington and her brother Arthur King of Danbury. Her three grandchildren, Kyle Gochey of Pittsfield, Massachusetts, Cody O’Brien of Georgia, and Sabrina O’Brien of Falls Village. Anita was predeceased by her brother, Martin King.
A Celebration of Anita’s life will be held on Saturday June 20, 2026, at 2:00 p.m. in the Newkirk-Palmer Funeral Home 118 Main St. Canaan, CT 06018.
Lakeville Journal
SHARON — Susanne Cecilia Berberoglu, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and friend, passed away peacefully on May 14 surrounded by the love of her family.
Born on Fe 13, 1951, in New Milford, Susanne lived a life filled with warmth, adventure, compassion, and dedication to those she loved.
A graduate of Brookfield High School, Susanne went on to work as a travel agent, a career perfectly suited to her adventurous spirit and love of discovering the world. She especially cherished her travels to Australia, London, and Hawaii, creating memories that she carried throughout her life.
Susanne had a lifelong passion for antiques and found joy in collecting and appreciating beautiful pieces filled with history and character. She was also deeply devoted to her beloved Boston Terriers, whom she lovingly raised and cared for over many years. Her home was always filled with warmth, laughter, and the companionship of the dogs she adored.
Above all else, Susanne treasured her family. She is survived by her devoted husband of 54 years, Tayfun Berberoglu Sr.; her loving daughter, Jennifer; her son, Tayfun Berberoglu Jr.; and her cherished granddaughters, Faora and Sybella. Her love, kindness, strength, and gentle spirit will forever remain in the hearts of all who knew her.
Susanne will be remembered for her caring nature, adventurous soul, and unwavering love for her family, friends, and animals. Her memory will continue to inspire all whose lives she touched.
The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.
Lakeville Journal

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Lakeville Journal
SALISBURY — Rafael Porro passed away on January 6, 2026.
Family and friends are invited to attend a memorial service in his honor on Saturday, June 13, 2026, at 11:00 a.m. at St. John’s Episcopal Church, Salisbury.
The family welcomes all who knew and loved Rafael to join them in remembering and celebrating his life.
The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.
Lakeville Journal
Lakeville Journal
CANAAN- — Nicholas Gandolfo Jr., 94 of East Canaan passed on June 4,2026, after a courageous battle with kidney cancer and CLL Leukemia.
Nicholas was born and raised in East Canaan to Nicholas Gandolfo Sr. and Marie Zucco Gandolfo both Italian immigrants, a heritage Nicholas embraced with pride.
During his youth Nick had a passion for the outdoors especially hunting and fishing which he enjoyed throughout his lifetime.
Nick served in the Korean war as a Marine. During his heroic service he received many medals and citations,most notably for saving his platoon even while sustaining injury himself during the famed Battle Of The Hook. Nick showed selfless dedication to serving the needs of others. He was involved with the Marine Corps League with whom he established a scholarship fund, the Canaan Couch Pipa VFW, providing durable medical equipment (and Girl scout cookies)to various VA homes and hospitals including Walter Reed in Washington. Nick also aided and assisted in other charitable causes not just limited to veterans, he served his community, for example, by providing thanksgiving dinners to needy local families.
Nicholas served as a volunteer firefighter for the town of Canaan for 25 years.
He will be remembered for his quick wit, and his fiery disposition. He was a shameless flirt who competed with his pals on who would receive the most hugs at any social gathering. With his charm, he always won.
Nicholas is predeceased by five brothers and his longtime partner Marlene Strattman. He is also predeceased by his daughter, Karen Gandolfo.
Nicholas leaves behind his loving daughters and their partners, his grandchildren and their partners and his great grand children. He is also survived by his only remaining brother, Robert Gandolfo, with whom he greatly valued his love and support. Nick also leaves behind numerous nieces and nephews. In his words, he had a special relationship with nieces Melissa Gandolfo and Lynne Gandolfo.
The family wishes to thank Salisbury Visiting Nurses, the Winsted chapter of Veteran Affairs and Nicks longtime aide Robin Brazee Anstett.
Wake and burial services will be private, however our family welcomes you to a celebration of life on June 20,2026 at the Canaan Couch Pipa VFW between the hours of 12:00pm and 3:30pm
In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be sent to East Mountain House, PO Box 1405 Lakeville, Ct 06039
Nicholas spent his final days there surrounded not just by family but by an amazing team that provided exemplary care and support for which Nicks family is extremely grateful.

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