Norfolk Library unveils teen lounge

Carter Nadeau, Liam Heller and Wilson DeShazo at The Owl Cove.
Jennifer Almquist
Carter Nadeau, Liam Heller and Wilson DeShazo at The Owl Cove.
NORFOLK — To meet the need for more activities and a greater sense of community for the region’s teenagers, Norfolk Library has created a welcoming space called the Owl Cove.
Ann Havemeyer, Norfolk Library executive director, said, “The board of trustees and I felt that creating a dedicated space for teens was a crucial step towards building a sense of belonging. It sends a strong message that they are valued and welcome.”
The idea was hatched in 2021 after community discussions of teen mental health revealed that young people did not feel a sense of belonging in the town. To begin the creation of a teen-friendly space within the historic library, designer Deanna Dewey was given the task of giving life to the vision.
Havemeyer and Dewey worked closely with Leslie Battis, assistant director of the library, to learn what the teens’ needs were, determine the location of the space, choose furniture, define technology needs and decide what color to paint the walls. Renovations began with the removal of existing oak shelves and cupboards to make space for a technology cyber bar where the youths can plug in and work on their laptops. A large screen with Roku was installed on the wall, and a HP color laser printer.
Entering the hushed silence of the Norfolk Library, the elegant architecture of the vast space, designed by George Keller in 1888, invokes awe. Past the oak library tables, the stone fireplace used on certain evening embers of silent reading, and the soft Persian carpets, there are two alcoves at the north end of the Great Hall opening to the left and right. The walls of one alcove now glow with a deep saffron color, wobble stools with orange seats were added for some extra punch, there are low floor-rocker seats, and across the way, surrounded by bookshelves is a worktable with four blue chairs.
A sign stating “Seating is reserved for teens — thank you” stakes out the turf. Colorful student artwork, and poems are displayed on a bulletin board.
Above each alcove there is a welcoming sign — a clever graphic design logo created by art director Jill Chase of a winking owl and the words “Owl Cove, our place to meet up, do homework, hang out.”
Chase came up with the name. The owl was first introduced as a logo by Norfolk Library founder Isabella Eldridge, who included an owl standing on an open book in the invitation to the opening March 6, 1889. Architect Keller perched a terra cotta owl created by sculptor Albert Entress above the porch entrance, and another Entress stone owl above the mantel of the large fireplace in the Great Hall. The library motto, “Inter Folia Fructis” or “Fruit Among the Leaves,” is carved into the stone.
The Owl Cove is a contemporary oasis for young people in the town of Norfolk.
“Within days of opening, teens started showing up. They say it feels comfortable, homey and relaxing,” according to Havemeyer, who continued, “We are so pleased to find teens using their space and look forward to their participation in customizing the Owl Cove to reflect their needs and interests.”
In addition, the library has created a Teen Advisory Council (TAC) to connect with teens and define what programs they would like to have at the library. The TAC consists of six Norfolk teens in ninth through 12th grades, who are expected to engage with their peers on behalf of the library. TAC members are paid a monthly stipend as consultants, and responsibilities include attendance at monthly meetings, planning teen programs and reaching out to friends.
The young folks come from the five area towns represented by Northwestern Regional High School, and some have come to events from Litchfield. Plans include game nights, pizza parties, a possible craft fair for teens, classes in bookbinding, and maybe cell phone photography or a photo contest. On Friday, Feb. 9, a total of 22 teens gathered to enjoy a teen-only pre-Super Bowl food party.
Sometimes the students gather to do their homework together. The library has worked hard to give the teenagers autonomy and clearly is showing them respect. The Owl Cove welcomes area teenagers to join its community. The TAC is full at present, but applications for openings will be on the website after the school year ends. Battis is the Owl Cove advisor. Check the Norfolk Library website for library hours and announcements from the Teen Advisory Council and the Owl Cove.
LAKEVILLE — Rhys V. Bowen, 65, of Foxboro, Massachusetts, died unexpectedly in his sleep on Sept. 15, 2025. Rhys was born in Sharon, Connecticut, on April 9, 1960 to Anne H. Bowen and the late John G. Bowen. His brother, David, died in 1979.
Rhys grew up at The Hotchkiss School in Lakeville, where his father taught English. Attending Hotchkiss, Rhys excelled in academics and played soccer, basketball, and baseball. During these years, he also learned the challenges and joys of running, and continued to run at least 50 miles a week, until the day he died.
In 1982 after graduating summa cum laude from Harvard College, Rhys returned to Hotchkiss to teach biology, where he met his wife of 35 years, Rebecca (Becky) Snow. After two years of teaching, he worked at a research field site in Borneo, then went on to the University of California, Davis where he earned a PhD in Animal Behavior in 1995.
Rather than follow an academic tenure track, Rhys preferred the solitary focus of field ornithology, and he spent several decades researching the ecology of bird species in California and on Cape Cod and the Islands. Rhys believed passionately in supporting biodiversity through habitat preservation. His proudest achievements, therefore, came through his work for the Lakes Region Conservation Trust, in New Hampshire, where he served on committees and the Board of Trustees for twenty years, including three years as Chair.
Deeply intellectual and curious, Rhys learned Homeric Greek so he could read The Odyssey and The Iliad in their original language. An amateur Melville scholar, he would wax poetic about reading Moby-Dick for the umpteenth time.Rhys’s spirit was filled by the performing arts. Concerts by the Handel and Haydn Society and Boston Early Music Festival often brought tears to his eyes, while Boston Bluegrass Union shows delivered toe-tapping fidgetiness.
Rhys will be missed by his wife, Becky Snow, his mother, Anne Bowen, extended family, friends, and anyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.
A service will be held at The Hotchkiss School chapel on Saturday, Nov. 15, 2025 at 1 p.m..
In honor of Rhys’s memory, donations can be made to the Lakes Region Conservation Trust.
LAKEVILLE — Kelsey K. Horton, 43, a lifelong area resident, died peacefully on Saturday, Sept. 27, 2025, at Norwalk Hospital in Norwalk, Connecticut, following a courageous battle with cancer. Kelsey worked as a certified nursing assistant and administrative assistant at Noble Horizons in Salisbury, from 1999 until 2024, where she was a very respected and loved member of their nursing and administrative staff.
Born Oct. 4, 1981, in Sharon, she was the daughter of W. Craig Kellogg of Southern Pines, North Carolina, and JoAnne (Lukens) Tuncy and her husband Donald of Millerton, New York. Kelsey graduated with the class of 1999 from Webutuck High School in Amenia and from BOCES in 1999 with a certificate from the CNA program as well. She was a longtime member of the Lakeville United Methodist Church in Lakeville. On Oct. 11, 2003, in Poughkeepsie, New York, she married James Horton. Jimmy survives at home in Lakeville. Kelsey loved camping every summer at Waubeeka Family Campground in Copake, and she volunteered as a cheer coach for A.R.C. Cheerleading for many years. Kelsey also enjoyed hiking and gardening in her spare time and spending time with her loving family and many dear friends.
In addition to her husband and parents, Kelsey is survived by her two beloved children, Hunter Horton and Aryanna Horton, both of Lakeville; a step-brother, Jason Tuncy of East Hartford, Connecticut; her mother-in-law, Frances “Fran” Horton and her brother-in-law, Benjamin D. Horton III and his wife Penny of Bloomsburg, Pennsylvania, and their son, Alec, and several aunts, uncles, cousins and many dear friends. She was predeceased by her father-in-law, Benjamin D. Horton, Jr. in 2017.
There are no calling hours. A Celebration of Life will take place on Saturday, Oct. 25, 2025, from 11 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. at the Millerton American Legion Post # 178, Route 44, Millerton, NY 12546. A time to celebrate Kelsey and share stories and memories. Memorial contributions may be made to The Jane Lloyd Fund. Please make checks payable to Berkshire Taconic Community Foundation (please note in memo line, The Jane Lloyd Fund) and mail to: Berkshire Taconic Community Foundation, 800 N. Main Street, Sheffield, MA 01257.
To send an online condolence to the family, flowers to the service or to plant a tree in Kelsey’s memory, please visit www.conklinfuneralhome.com
Arrangements have been entrusted to the Scott D. Conklin Funeral Home, 37 Park Avenue, Millerton, NY 12546.
SHARON — On Sept. 27, Eliot Warren Brown was shot and killed at age 47 at his home in New Orleans, Louisiana, in a random act of violence by a young man in need of mental health services. Eliot was born and raised in Sharon, Connecticut, and attended Indian Mountain School and Concord Academy in Massachusetts. He graduated from the School of the Art Institute of Chicago. He and his wife Brooke moved to New Orleans to answer the call for help in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina and fell in love with the city.
In addition to his wife Brooke, Eliot leaves behind his parents Malcolm and Louise Brown, his sisters Lucia (Thaddeus) and Carla (Ruairi), three nephews, and extended family and friends spread far and wide.
Normally at this point one might list some interests, but in Eliot’s case, it’s easier to list what he wasn’t interested in: watching sports.
Eliot made a living as a fine craftsman and carpenter, but at heart he was an artist. He was well versed in music, painting, literature, biking, travel, Mardi Gras costumes, poker, pranks, street performance and on and on and on.Having previously hiked the entire Camino de Santiago in Spain and Portugal, he recently achieved another dream of summiting the highest stratovolcano in North America.
Eliot’s creative ability was astounding. His creations were designed to bring joy to others. He didn’t seek recognition or praise, and a large part of his work was anonymous. Pieces of art would appear in the community, encouraging people to think, connect and enjoy.
From the precociously funny and determinedly defiant boy that grew up in the Northwest corner of Connecticut, Eliot grew into a brilliant, gentle souled, boundlessly creative, ever mischievous, perpetually scraggly, and astoundingly wise and caring man who made an indelible impact on those who were lucky to have him in their lives.
In honor of Eliot, please consider making donations to organizations that work to end gun violence, support the arts, or provide mental health services. A service will be held at the Congregational Church in Salisbury on Sunday Oct. 26 at 2 p.m.
SHARON — Randall “Randy” Osolin passed away on Sept. 25, 2025, at the age of 74. He was born on Feb. 6, 1951, in Sharon, Connecticut to the late Ramon (Sonny) and Barbara (Sandmeyer) Osolin.
He was a dedicated social worker, a natural athlete, a gentle friend of animals, an abiding parish verger, an inveterate reader, and an estimable friend and neighbor. He was a kind-hearted person whose greatest joy was in helping someone in need and sharing his time with his family and good friends.
He was the beloved husband of Karen LaChance Osolin; the loving brother of Bruce Osolin and the late Gail Osolin Leo; the devoted uncle of Kyle and Andrew Osolin and Taylor LaChance; the brother-in-law of Debra LaChance; and the cousin of Brenda Curran, Jay Pickering and Audra Salazar.
To honor Randy’s memory, do a good deed for another or send a donation to the Little Guild, 258 Sharon-Goshen Road, West Cornwall, CT 06796. The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.