Ruthmary Willand

Ruthmary Willand

SALISBURY — Ruthmary Willand, 85, of Taconic and formerly of Frankford Township, N.J., died Nov. 29, 2021, at home surrounded by her family and friends.

Ruthmary was born in Ottawa, Ill., to the late Mary (Clark) and Jack Hille. Raised in Midlothian, Ill., she taught second and fourth grade for 17 years. After moving to New Jersey, she enjoyed work in the office of an accountant.

Ruthmary was a passionate and adventurous cook who hosted many joyous family holidays.

She was a skilled and energetic gardener who loved flowers and for years had a large vegetable garden.

With her husband, Steve, she embarked on many an adventure, from fly-fishing to farming. She designed the Augusta, N.J., farmhouse where they lived together for 20 years, as well as a fishing cottage in Upstate New York.

Above all, Ruthmary was a tender and devoted mother and grandmother, who created countless wonderful memories for her children and grandchildren.

She is survived by her husband, Steven Willand; her three children, James, Mary and Richard Pellegrino; two step-children, Suzanne and Scott Willand; eight grandchildren, Richard, Michael, Jacquelyn and her husband, Stephen, Marissa, Nicholas, Statler, Steffen and Sharyce; and a great-grandson, Logan.

Her brother, Jack Hille, predeceased her.

Visitation was on Friday, Dec. 3, and Saturday, Dec. 4, at Smith-McCracken Funeral Home in Newton, N.J. Funeral services were held Dec. 4 at the funeral home. Interment was in Frankford Plains Cemetery in Augusta.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Ruthmary’s memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, P.O. Box 1893, Memphis, TN 38101.

Online condolences may be offered at www.smithmccrackenfuneralhome.com.

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