Words can definitely hurt

The knee-jerk reaction is to want to identify the perpetrator and then label them with words like enemy, terrorist and Jihadists. Catch-all phrases are what politicians need to be able to rally support for what they want to do: Appear strong and protective. But a better question might be: How to actually protect and be strong long-term? How do we get there?

First of all, we need to evaluate the reality properly. Here we are 100 years after the first World War — a war that was kicked into action by a bunch of anarchists (terrorists of their day). End result? Millions died, and except for maybe a couple of thousand, not one of those dead 17 million was an anarchist or terrorist. Lines are quickly drawn when you start labeling. They say sticks and stones will break your bones but words will never hurt you, but we all know that is a lie. Words decided on in haste or convenience or hatred lead, always, to violence and deadly outcome.

Let’s look at the reality of ISIL, ISIS or Daesh — this is an illegal Caliphate (meaning a religious medieval government with a supposed religious leader at the head). Daesh is, every day, murdering hundreds of Muslims. Yes, every day. They are ethnic cleansing on a par with some of the Medieval religious leaders of old world Spain, England, France and Germany. And they know that their opposition is Muslim groups more routed in the real faith of Islam that always wants to oppose such evil. And Daesh’s opposition is getting help from Russia, the U.S., France, Italy and a long list of countries that all oppose Daesh’s evil.

And evil it is. And evil should be opposed. But Daesh is winning one significant battle … like the anarchists before WWI, they are creating a black and white, good and evil, us and them, breakdown of society. And in that division hatred will breed disaffection and mistrust. Ten million Muslims in America are slowly being mistrusted — and that mistrust could breed exactly the type of vandalism and perversion of their true beliefs that Daesh needs and will feed upon. Every time you hear yourself or your neighbors generalize about Muslims, Daesh is winning. They split us … they can win, they can make us fight, they can make us commit the lives of American soldiers, and, worst of all, they can breed international mistrust which could, very easily, lead to WWIII.

Words can break your bones. Be very careful.

Peter Riva, a former resident of Amenia Union, now lives in New Mexico.

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