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Beginning to talk about the end of life

SALISBURY — A new series called Community Conversations and sponsored by the Scoville Memorial Library, the Salisbury Visiting Nurse Association (SVNA)and Salisbury Congregational Church, begins Sunday, Jan. 27, with a three-part series of workshops: “End-of-Life: Dialogues and Decisions.”The three sessions include a viewing of a documentary, “Consider the Conversation,” and use materials from The Conversation project, a program dedicated to helping people talk about their wishes for end-of-life care and to supporting families with making the often-difficult conversations easier.Sarah Zarbock, a hospice volunteer, said the three workshops will begin with a central question: “How do we get people to talk about it?”Scoville Library Director Claudia Cayne said the workshops will be conducted in a “more intimate setting,” which she hopes will make it easier for people to talk about sensitive issues.“It’s really about what you need to know so it’s how you want it to be — so it doesn’t just happen,” said Cayne.Donna DiMartino, hospice director for the SVNA, said the workshops will help people and families explore their options and make decisions before things reach the crisis stage.“Most people would like more autonomy” at the end of their lives, DiMartino said. “By sharing this information we have a better chance of making that happen.”“It’s valuable even if you have already lost a person,” said Zarbock. The information in the workshops is “something I can hand on.”“It’s not just a checklist,” said Cayne. Rather the workshops are designed to get people “to think about their responsiblities for this part of life — so it can be as good as it can be.”The Rev. Diane Monti-Catania of the Congregational Church sent her thoughts by email: “This is an initial effort by the three organizations to create a place for civil dialogue on difficult subjects. We are starting with end-of-life planning because it is a subject that affects everyone, and our collective experience has shown that early decision-making often alleviates inter-family crisis at a later time.”“The plans we leave our loved ones, in the end, are a gift to them,” said DiMartino.The series begins Sunday, Jan. 27, 3 to 5 p.m.; and continues Sunday, Feb. 10, and Sunday, Feb. 24, 3 to 5 p.m. The organizers stressed that it is not necessary to attend all the sessions to benefit from them.

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