Benefits of a life of service to others; ask Inge Dunham

It can be surprising, even to oneself, when something unexpected happens that is forever life-changing. For Lakeville’s Inge Dunham, such a moment came during a 1986 trip with a friend to Mexico that was meant to help her learn Spanish. What she came away with was a passion to help those who are the underdogs in society, who have challenges that can be almost impossible to overcome simply by the accident of where, when and to whom they were born. 

“I was struck by the enormous gap between the middle and upper classes and the very poor there,” Dunham said in a recent interview at her home. “People treated the poor there terribly, even treating their animals better. It made me very angry, and when I said something about it to our hosts, they couldn’t understand my point. I was never the same after that.”

Small steps begin with CROP

She returned to Lakeville and became involved with the CROP Walk through her church, Sharon Congregational. CROP Walks raise money to combat U.S. and global hunger. 

“I was very passionate to do something,” Dunham said, “so I became one of the CROP Walk organizers and the PR person, and did it for years. We got the community involved, not only the churches, but the schools, businesses, everyone.” 

The area CROP Walk still happens annually, starting at Housatonic Valley Regional High School in Falls Village.

She also became involved, again through her church, with the Hôpital Albert Schweitzer in Haiti. The church created the group Hope for Haiti, through which it channeled its support. Roger and Anne Williams of Lakeville had gone to Haiti to serve at the hospital for two years. Through them, learning of the needs of the hospital, Dunham realized she wanted to capture the work of the hospital in a video with interviews. She went to Haiti and did just that. 

“I learned a great deal seeing things not as a tourist, but as an objective observer. I made presentations of that video to community groups once I returned to Connecticut,” she said, “and one of those groups was the Salisbury Rotary Club.” 

It was after that presentation that the late Robert Estabrook of Lakeville, longtime Rotarian and editor and publisher emeritus of this newspaper, invited her to join the Rotary Club.

She joined the Salisbury Rotary Club in 1989 and was a very active member for years before recently becoming an honorary member. She was club president from 1991 to 1992, following Estabrook after his year as president. She was a District Chair of Grants, an assistant to the District Governor and a District World Community Service Chair. Dunham was honored at the club’s 65th anniversary celebration on Oct. 24 for her extraordinary work on behalf of Rotary. She also received a Rotary Service Above Self award in 1999 from Rotary International President James Lacy, an honor given only to a limited number of Rotarians worldwide each year.

Dunham found that her talents and interests were organizational to reach goals of service. “Once a lot of people become involved with a group, I step back,” she said. “Then they don’t need me anymore. But for organization, yes, that I will always do.”

Haiti and Cambodia

She was changed again, as she had been by her trip to Mexico, by a month-long stint as a volunteer in Haiti. She saw how the people there lived day to day, and wondered why they didn’t think about the future more. 

“They worked very hard, totally gave themselves to what they were doing, but didn’t plan for tomorrow,” she said. “The doctors at the hospital told me, they have to work so hard to feed their families, themselves, just to survive today, there is nothing left to think about tomorrow.” 

There was constant political strife, in addition to the poverty and challenges of a lack of infrastructure and potable water.

Dunham returned to Haiti every year well into the 1990s, working on projects for the hospital. Thanks to her organizational skills she was able to use the structure of Rotary to bring in funding not just from her local Salisbury club but from clubs throughout the region and beyond. 

“Clubs in Great Barrington, Pittsfield, Torrington and others were very supportive,” she said. She found ways to bring in Rotary 3H (Health-Hunger-Humanity) and Matching Grants through her club for the first time in its history.

When the crippling earthquake struck Haiti in 2010, Dunham found help from those Rotary clubs that had contributed to the Hôpital Albert Schweitzer over the years through her annual projects. They stepped up to contribute and help the hospital cope with the tragedy. 

“The hospital was overwhelmed. It was itself intact, hardly touched, but thousands of people came and camped outside the hospital, many more than it would usually have served. All those victims needed resources and help.” 

The Salisbury club gave $3,000 to Haiti in the aftermath of the earthquake.

In 2004, Dunham read an article in The New York Times about the devastation caused by land mines still active in Cambodia following the war in Southeast Asia and Vietnam. 

“Cambodia had lost a generation because of this national tragedy,” she said. 

The story moved her so deeply that she contacted the reporter at The Times, who referred her to an agency in Cambodia. 

“I received a very nice response,” she said, when she called to declare her interest and asked how she could help. She seized the opportunity and became very involved with the agency, VVAF, and the Rotary Club in Phnom Penh, starting the process with help from a mentor in Westport, Conn., to create a project to provide prostheses to land-mine victims.

She succeeded in gathering enough money from numerous Rotary clubs to make a difference, and in 2006 made the long trip to Cambodia, via Thailand, for a three-week stay to ensure the money was being spent in a meaningful way. 

“I was so pleased and impressed,” she said. “The Cambodians are such wonderful people, especially considering their difficult history, such egregious human rights crimes there. They were so warm and lovely, and the help with obtaining prostheses through the grant money renewed their lives, their ability to work again and support their families.” 

The program is still affecting the lives of those who have suffered injury from land mines in Cambodia.

For spiritual benefit

Over the years, the major projects she worked on for Haiti and Cambodia were supported by the Rotary Foundation of Rotary International. Such major projects took a lot of time and energy, but Dunham said she was happy to do it all. 

“I so much believed in it,” she said. “Really, I did it for spiritual reasons.” 

And she has received back spiritual rewards from her work that are immeasurable, she said. Part of her work that was particularly rewarding was working with high school students at Housatonic Valley Regional High School for 16 years, establishing a Rotary Interact Club there in 1996 for which she was liaison and chair, working with a faculty advisor. 

“The young people became very involved, doing projects in their own community and internationally. They became very familiar with the programs of Rotary, did fundraising for many causes, and were personally involved with the Rotary Youth Exchange, hosting students from around the world. They were a great group of young people, and I just loved them. They enlightened me on how young people really were then, and still are: wonderful, full of energy and enthusiasm. They renewed my own enthusiasm and beliefs, then went forward to live their lives with Rotary values as part of them.”

Dunham still keeps track of the Hôpital Albert Schweitzer and the Cambodian project for land-mine victims, which both continue to need support. Part of any of the projects she created was the component of education to improve people’s lives and conditions. 

“Education is number one,” she said. 

She is still involved as an honorary member of Salisbury Rotary, and gives time to support some activities. She also became involved with the Salisbury Housing Trust, which was the project of her late husband, Richard Dunham. 

“He gave so much time and energy, and accomplished a tremendous amount, at the Salisbury Housing Trust. I feel I owe it to him to take it on now, it meant so much to him.”

She found mentors in Rotary, and acted as one herself, to meet the challenge of serving others in her community and worldwide. 

“I would encourage young people and others to become involved with Rotary, as well as other service groups, who want to enrich their own lives while helping others.”

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