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Blond tumbles across the screen, blond hair catching the lights of the mall, refracting in the glimmer of the sun, as gold as the gold-painted convertible jalopy that stalks her. This is Connie, she is 15, a little taller, a little more mature-looking, but still very much a child, trying on the identity of adult femininity like trying on a new lipstick at the retail counter. “Everything about her had two sides to it, one for home and one for anywhere that was not home: her walk, which could be childlike and bobbing, or languid enough to make anyone think she was hearing music in her head; her mouth, which was pale and smirking most of the time, but bright and pink on these evenings out,” wrote Joyce Carol Oates in her short story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” First published in Epoch Magazine in 1966, it's an eerie ode to the serial killers of the Sixties and the youth folk ballads of Bob Dylan. It’s that wild innocence that attracts Arnold Friend to Connie’s door one afternoon when she’s home alone; an older man who lures and threatens her with a ride in his car. In the 1985 film “Smooth Talk,” Joyce Chopra directed Treat Williams and Laura Dern as Connie, based on a script by Chopra’s husband, Tom Cole. Previously, Chopra had been a documentary filmmaker, whose work included a notable self-reflective video essay on new motherhood and career goals with a confessional but matter-of-fact sensibility called “Joyce at 34.” Later, she would adapt another of Oates’ works, “Blonde,” a fictional account of the life of Marilyn Monroe. Now a resident of Charlottesville, Va., Chopra previously lived in Kent and Roxbury, Conn. Her new book, “Lady Director” takes a look back at her multi-decade career — Joyce at 86.
Alexander Wilburn: Your film “Smooth Talk” was recently inducted into The Criterion Collection, how did they approach you?
Joyce Chopra: It was all through the producer of the film, and Criterion was very happy to have it, and they took other films of mine as well, all the others are documentaries. I’m so honored to be in The Criterion Collection, it’s wonderful.
It must feel like a real moment as a director. I would imagine there’s a thrill getting the Criterion copy.
Absolutely. Yes, you understand, I was thrilled.
I think it really means you’ve created lasting art, which doesn’t always end up being true for every director.
I have two films I feel that way about. I did a documentary called “Joyce at 34” which is in the permanent collection in the Museum of Modern Art, and when that happened — my god, I have a film in the Museum of Modern Art. Criterion was wonderful to deal with, they went through the negatives and color-corrected and cleaned them up, they did a great job.
You’re there with a fairly small number of female directors in Criterion, Claire Denis, Agnès Varda, Sofia Coppola… not a ton.
There can’t be, because there aren’t that many prominent women directors. I haven’t looked to see what the percentage is, but when you think of how few feature films were made by women it’s not surprising.
What was the landscape for you like when you were starting your career?
In 1958 I couldn’t think of any women directors, I thought I was crazy to even think of something like that. There weren’t any film schools and there weren’t any history books about women who made movies all through the 1920s and 30s. There were quite a few. Dorothy Arzner… that all disappeared in the 1940s. It was not easy to do something like that. But I did. I just kept trying to get a way in, some way or the other. It’s still not great for women as film directors, but it’s gotten a lot better for women as television directors.
It really does feel like our present television industry has opened a landscape for women that has been closed off in film.
I think it’s changed in the years, particularly after the MeToo movement. I did an episode of “Law & Order: SVU” in the early 2000s, they were going into their fourth season, and there are… I don’t know, 20 episodes a season? They had only hired two women in those four years. When they hired me, the producer who ran the show was constantly over my shoulder, found fault with everything I did, and made me so nervous. He was really horrid to deal with and I was never, quote end quote, “asked back.” It really was like that up until three or four years ago, and now about 40% of episodic television is being directed by women. Not features… but that’ll come, that’ll come.
How did you first encounter the Joyce Carol Oates story “Smooth Talk” is based on?
I found it in the O. Henry Prize short story collection. Joyce Carol Oates and my husband, Tom were both selected for prizes that year. I could never forget the story, it just terrified me.
It’s a very unnerving story about youth, even if the end is quite interpretative.
What do you mean by interpretive?
Open to interpretation I should have said. It’s not conclusive, you imagine with some horror what happens to Connie in the end once she gets in Arnold's car.
It’s allegorical. We changed the ending because we couldn’t possibly film that ending. My husband wrote the script and we couldn’t bear to kill our character. We wrote the ending while we were filming, we just learned so much through the filming process based on how Laura Dern was playing Connie.
Another big change from story to the screen was the time period.
We tried to be vague about it, but on the other hand, we made it in 1985, but there are no computers, no cell phones. So it’s hard to… when did you think the film was set?
I did feel like there was the shadow of Reagan over the film. But maybe that’s my interpretation of it, looking back at it as someone who wasn’t alive then.
Possibly. In the story there aren’t many details, there’s no father, there’s no town, and there’s a lot for the reader to fill in, so in a way, it was an easy story to adapt. Joyce Carol Oates suggests with a sentence here and there what would become whole scenes in the film. Most of the story is Connie’s confrontation with Arnold Friend, which we changed very little of, although Treat [Williams] changed some of it. He didn’t want to say what Arnold says in the story, “If you don’t come out I’ll burn your house down.” He changed it to “What if I burned your house down?” It fits in more with the way he was playing Arnold. Do you know how I found Treat Williams? He went to The Kent School. He was roommates with the man who became head of the school, Father [Richardson] Dick Schell. I was talking to Dick, we were rather friendly, and when he mentioned his former roommate Treat Williams I said, “Oh I’d love to cast him as this character.” So hurray for Litchfield County!
I read Laura Dern was discovered on the beach in California.
Yes, my producer was on the phone with a woman who lived on Malibu Colony Beach, complaining about how we hadn’t found anyone to play Connie. And this woman said, “I know her.” She was acting as if Connie the character was a real person. She said, “She’s walking by my window right now.” It was very odd. But the girl was Laura Dern. So I called Laura to set up an audition, and on her answering machine was playing the song that’s in the script, “Handy Man” by James Taylor. There’s another coincidence. James at that time was living in Kent. This was a Kent production. That’s why I’m happy to come back and talk there. James Taylor was a neighbor, he came by our house one night for dinner. He knew Tom and I were writing a script and were excited about it. He asked to read it and he came back the next night and said, “I want to be part of this, I want to write music for it.” I was very fortunate with all these connections, and then Laura was perfect.
She’s a great reactor on screen, you can read so much into her face during that very long scene she does with Treat Williams.
I have no idea how she does it, but she’s very in the moment. Treat was very active at that point, he was booking a lot of film jobs, so he could only give us one week of his time. We ran out of time and we still had to film the close-ups of Laura behind the screen door. Treat had left, so I read off-camera for Laura. She could have performed with a lamppost.
You would never know that watching.
You could never tell in a million years.
You had a screening of "Smooth Talk" recently and another coming up on Nov. 20 at Film Forum in New York.
There’s a film festival where I live in Charlottesville called The Virginia Film Festival and they showed it the other night. For me, it was a big night, and it was a big audience. I think the reaction was bigger than ever. People were, I can’t say awestruck, that’s so ridiculous, but I felt the audience was really knocked out about it.
There have been other adaptations of Joyce Carol Oates' work since "Smooth Talk," including some French films like "The Double Lover" by François Ozon, but you were one of the first.
And now there’s "Blonde" that’s just come out on Netflix.
I was going to ask you about that.
Have you seen it?
I have. You had your own adaptation of the book.
CBS did a miniseries of "Blonde" in 2001. I wasn’t involved with the script writing, but I directed and we did have a terrific cast. It’s strange now that the new “Blonde” has come out, and I’ve been doing interviews. People want to know what I thought of it, and I’m not very eager to say. I was told it would be really good publicity because Hollywood Reporter wanted to interview me, but I said I don’t want to say negative things about it and I didn't want to see it. [Andrew Dominik] has been trying to make “Blonde” for 10 years, and I sympathize with that. I finally… got talked into it. So I watched the new “Blonde” the night before the Hollywood Reporter interview, but I managed to avoid saying what I really thought. I don’t like saying negative things about another director. I wouldn’t want anyone to do it to me.
Dominik's film has been controversial with critics, some have written it feels exploitative of its female character When it came to your adaptations of Joyce Carol Oates' work, do you think there was something about having a female director adapt a female author’s fiction?
My husband Tom, who unfortunately died a while back — we shared in conceiving the scenes, but he did the actual dialogue writing. He would always surprise me, with things I never would have thought of. When Tom died The New York Times did an obit, and they called Laura to ask what it was like working with him. I’ll misquote her, but she said something like, “Here was this 50-year-old male MIT professor telling me what it was like to be a teenage girl... And he was so wonderful and so able to help me with this role.” That was the biggest compliment Tom could have gotten. I don’t feel my being a woman had to do with anything, it was working with Tom, that was the world we wanted to create.
Joyce Chopra will discuss her book “Lady Director: Adventures in Hollywood, Television and Beyond” on Nov. 18 at House of Books in Kent, Conn.
Photo courtesy of Janus Films
Photo courtesy of Janus Films
Photo courtesy of Janus Films
Former President Joe Biden and his family dined at The Woodland in Lakeville Thursday, May 22.
LAKEVILLE — A fleet of black SUVs maintained a watchful perimeter outside The Woodland Thursday, May 22, as a former president dined inside.
After attending his grandson’s graduation at Salisbury School, Joe Biden and his family shared a meal at the Lakeville eatery.
Brandon Scimeca, owner of The Woodland, said the reservation was made a few days in advance. The day of the dinner, Secret Service agents arrived in the afternoon to review a security plan with Scimeca.
“They told me where he would enter and exit from, where he would sit, where Jill would sit,” said Scimeca. Later that evening, he said, 10 agents were stationed inside the restaurant with about 15 more outside.
Scimeca said Biden “treated the busboy as nice as the waiter. He was so nice to everyone.”
He ordered a hamburger well done with extra tomatoes and a cola.
Other patrons, able to avoid Secret Service, snapped selfies when Biden got up to go to the restroom, but for most of the meal he and his family quietly enjoyed their dinner.
That is, until dessert arrived at the table next to him.
Billy Sheil, who was dining with his wife and three of his four children, said Biden raised his fork and gestured at the arrival of sweets, “suggesting he wanted to sit with us or come over and take a bite,” Sheil explained.
Sheil scooted to make room in the booth and waved him over. “No fanfare. He just introduced himself and started chatting as a regular guy.”
Biden had a bite of ice cream from Sheil’s daughter Islay’s plate and chatted for about 15 minutes.
Sheil said he shared wisdom, spoke of family, the importance of siblings and the role his sister played throughout his political career.
“He spent real time with us, asking thoughtful questions and sharing in our evening like a grandfather would,” recalled Sheil. “We told him and Jill that we have four kids too — just like them — and mentioned that our second, Quin, was ironically in Washington, D.C., on a school trip. I told them, ‘He’s going to be bummed when he hears what he missed tonight!’”
The family took a photo with the former president before parting ways. Sheil noted, “When we got in the car afterward, Aerin turned to me and said, ‘Dad… was that a dream?’ It kind of felt like one.”
The Sheil family made room for Biden in their booth at The Woodland May 22.Photo provided
U.S. Sen. Chris Murphy walks through Sharon on the first day of his annual statewide walk.
Decked out in a blue T-shirt, khaki shorts and a UConn cap, the man walking along Route 41 in Sharon Wednesday morning looked like others who just enjoy getting out to commune with nature. But U. S. Sen. Chris Murphy (D) had some other thoughts on his mind.
For the ninth year, he was walking across Connecticut to connect with citizens of the state. This year’s route began May 28 in Salisbury and took him to Sharon and Kent for the day.
People along the way wanted to chat with the lawmaker, and despite some gentle prodding from his staffers to keep on pace, Murphy took time to converse with those he met covering a variety of topics. On Route 41 between Lakeville and Salisbury, he encountered longtime friend, former State Rep. Roberta Willis, of Salisbury, who along with her sister Sherie Berk, greeted him with a sign stating “Chris, We’re proud of U.”
Continuing his walk, he made a stop at Sharon Center School where he spoke with sixth- and seventh-graders. Then he met with some of the younger children, who, he said, “had a million ideas about what they could do for our country.”
Sharon First Selectman Casey Flanagan, left, speaks with U.S. Sen. Chris Murphy outside Town Hall.Photo by Ruth Epstein
Following a stop at Standard Space art gallery, he proceeded to Town Hall, where First Selectman Casey Flanagan presented him with a tiny step counter. Pleased with the gift, he said he had been wanting to get one but never got around to it.
At Town Hall, the subject of Mudge Pond came up, with the selectmen telling him how important that natural resource is to the town. Selectman Lynn Kearcher said so far, its condition is not too bad, but the threat of an invasion of hydrilla is a constant worry. “Lynn and I both grew up on that lake. We want to save it for generations to come,” said Flanagan.
Kearcher asked what the citizens of Sharon can do to combat the current administration in Washington. Murphy recommended joining activist groups and getting involved. “All that can make a difference.”
He acknowledged the latest big bill proposed by the Republicans which was approved by the House of Representatives is bad for Connecticut. One of its features calls for reducing Medicaid payments in blue states by 10 percent. It will throw millions around the country off the plan, he said. The bill will also result in adding $3.5 trillion to the national debt.
“It’s an ugly bill,” said Murphy.
As he headed off to Kent, he was met by some Sharon Playhouse employees who excitedly told him about this year’s productions. The walk to Kent proved to be a strenuous one, with a long steep mountain to climb. Once in the center of Kent, he crossed over the Housatonic River on the bridge next to Kent School.
From left, former State Rep. Roberta Willis and Sherie Berk talk with U.S. Sen. Chris Murphy in Salisbury.Photo by Ruth Epstein
Murphy explained the purpose of the walk, which over the nine years has touched all areas of the state. “My job is to listen. I can’t do my job well unless I listen to what people are saying.”
On this trip, he found the issues of housing and Medicaid were what people were talking about. The push and pull between conserving land and the need for housing was also on people’s minds.
In Kent, he made a stop at Motoriot, where owner Jason Doornick explained he refurbishes vintage 4 x 4s. Murphy was impressed with what he saw. He also visited Kent Wine & Spirits and the Mobil station and convenience store where customer Tom Connors approached him and asked, “When did bravery go out of fashion?”
Murphy planned to walk another four days with the aim of reaching Long Island Sound.
SHARON — Marion J. (Cookingham) Pedersen of Sharon, passed peacefully on May 20, 2025, at the age of 91.
Born in Pine Plains, New York, she lived a life of love and unwavering strength. She was a devoted mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and wife known for her cooking skills.
Her greatest joy was taking care of and feeding her family. For over 50 years she knew most of the children in Sharon, either by driving them to and from school on the bus or by feeding them lunch in the Sharon Center School cafeteria. She will be missed by so many.
She is survived and missed by her husband of 74 years, Niels (Pete) Pedersen, her two sons Niels (Peter) Pedersen Jr., and wife Lori of Sharon, Dennis Pedersen and wife Bonnie of Winchester, and her daughter, Deborah Pedersen of Winsted. She will forever be cherished and remembered by her granddaughters, Hollie Boyuk and husband Michael, Sarah White and husband Michael, five great-grandsons, Dylan and wife Ashley, Brandon, Caleb, Christopher and Jacob, and numerous other family members who will miss her dearly.
Marion was the youngest of 12 children and predeceased by her 11 siblings.
All services are private.Memorial contributions may be made to the donors choice. Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.
LIME ROCK — Eleanor Anne Sternlof (née de Guise) of White Hollow Road passed away on April 25, 2025 at Geer Village in North Canaan, Connecticut. She was 94 and the loving wife of the late Paul William Sternlof, who died on August 12, 2005.
Calling hours will be held on Saturday, May 31, from 11am to 1pm at The Kenny Funeral Home, 41 Main Street, Sharon, CT.
The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.