Letters to the editor - March 21 2013

 

Ethics not amusing issue

 

Dick  Boyle’s letter of March 14 might have been clever in the way it was written to mimic a pollster interview, had it not been spoiled by the abysmal inaccuracies by the author.

 

Peace and quiet are too often the façade hiding habitual political intimidation and threats that suppress a free exchange of differing opinions. One such example is that of business owners threatened with boycotts by their progressive neighbors if anyone expresses anything other than the acceptable PC political point of view, or questions anything Messrs. Rand and Dresser do.

 

Anyone daring to question Mr. Rand in person and not being pacified with his meaningless obfuscations, can be assured that by the end of the following week they will have been vilified and marginalized as crazy. That ensures no one in town will give them any credence and they will not dare show their faces or open their mouths ever again on any issue.

 

It is hard to believe Mr. Boyle ever watches a Board of Selectmen (BOS) meeting, judging by his nonsense regarding the simple suggestion that there be a Pledge of Allegiance at the start of BOS meetings. The only other suggestion made in conjunction with the pledge was that a moment of silence be observed out of respect for the welfare of our military personnel, and to honor the dead and injured. There never was any question of the pledge being made in one specific or multiple languages, and no mention of anyone singing anthems. 

 

Mr. Boyle and his political associates may find the Pledge of Allegiance and moments of silence for our military dead and wounded subjects of jocularity and ridicule. They are so insular as to be unaware there are as many other citizens, if not more, who do not find Mr. Boyle and his allies astute or amusing in the least. 

 

Then there are Mr. Boyle’s equally uninformed claims regarding the code of ethics (COE) and commission. Mr. Lauretano has not accused Salisbury of being a hotbed of corruption and Mr. Boyle cannot cite one single instance of such a wild accusation. His silly rant reveals that he has not bothered to read the documents — certainly not for the purpose of understanding them. He comes very late to the discussion and has failed to do his homework so as to be up-to-speed before opining.

 

The COE and commission do not deal with crimes, prosecution or incarceration. The state law enforcement and judicial systems deal with such things. Ethics are a different matter. Judging by the timidity and ineptitude Mr. Rand exhibited in dealing with the Riva debacle, Salisbury could have used an independent commission with common sense protocols in place for such matters. Had Mr. Riva still been a member of the BOS, the 2005 COE would have been applicable to him and he would have been in violation of the appropriate section of that document. Fortunately for Mr. Riva, he was only the Salisbury Affordable Housing Committee chairman and therefore not to be held accountable for his actions.

 

Kathy Lauretano

Lakeville

 

 

‘Oz’ was such fun

 

With due respect, an answer to the critic who panned “Oz, The Great and Powerful”:

 

Yes, “Oz, The Great and Powerful” is not “...not in Kansas anymore, Toto.” However, it has the capacity to reach the modern day adolescent. If you don’t approve of the evil witch wearing tight black leather pants, attack today’s taste in fashion, not the vehicle dealing with it. (Notice Glenda the Good wears the traditional gown.)

 

“Oz, The Great and Powerful” is imaginative with terrific special effects, and like all good children’s tales it is entertaining as it carries useful messages in sometimes funny, sometimes scary scenes and sometimes scenes containing great sensitivity. For the finale, good triumphs over evil because of good ol’ fashioned teamwork and good leadership.

 

Today’s flying baboons are yesterday’s flying monkeys, with a new generation to face them. Do not miss this prequel. Your 13-year-old might thank you some day. P.S.: My grandson wants to see it a second time.

 

Pat McMullan

Lakeville

 

 

Spring Splash a success 

 

We would like to express our sincere gratitude and thanks to the more than 30 adult and children “splashers” who endured the frigid waters of Lake Wononscopomuc to benefit the Housatonic FFA Alumni John Rice Scholarship and the Jane Lloyd Fund. We are extremely grateful to the members of the community who pledged and cheered us on.

 

We would also like to thank the Housatonic FFA Alumni, faculty and students, the town of Salisbury, the members of the Salisbury Volunteer Ambulance Service and Deano’s Pizza for their time and support.

 

We look forward to seeing you all again next year.

 

The Rice and Lloyd families

Salisbury

 

 

 

Give me a rainbow of garden colors

 

I know that there are more important matters to comment on, but I just have to make a brief comment on an article in the March 7 issue of The Lakeville Journal. In regards to “Black is the new pink” — oh, please, after a winter of white, gray, brown and black everywhere we look in the landscape, cars, clothes and even some people’s moods, now I read that black is the new “in color” for flowers?

 

No, thank you. Give me a garden full of pink, orange, red, yellow, green! Bright, happy, explosive color! 

 

Thank you, and happy gardening.

 

Pam Irving

Cornwall Bridge

 

 

Thanks for the support

 

I and my staff at Livingstone Dental Excellence are exceptionally pleased to announce that on behalf of Operation Gratitude and the United States military we collected almost 20 pounds of candy during our “Halloween Candy Buy Back Program.”

 

As a result of nationwide efforts by ours and numerous other dental offices, over 100,000 care packages were sent out to our men and women in the various military branches. With the help of supporters nationwide since 2003 more than 900,000 care packages containing snacks, personal care necessities, entertainment items and letters from appreciative Americans have been mailed out.

 

As Lt. Gen. Raymond T. Odierno wrote in response to receiving his own care package from Operation Gratitude: “I would like to thank you not only for the package I received from Operation Gratitude, but also for all you do for each of the dedicated men and women who serve our great nation. I am truly humbled by the support you, your volunteers and your generous sponsors have shown those who sacrifice so much for our country. Though our soldiers, sailors, airmen and Marines may protect our freedom, it’s people like all of you that give them the extra motivation to do the incredible job they do every day. Thank you once again, and God bless you all.”

 

I, and my staff, would sincerely like to thank everyone who participated in the “Halloween Candy Buy Back Program” this year that helped make this such a huge success, especially the Canaan Day Care Center and the staff at Sand Road Animal Hospital.

 

Thomas Livingstone, DMD

North Canaan

 

 

Let’s hear it for religion

 

One recent Sunday, an order of Dominican sisters was at the Church of St. Mary in Lakeville selling their baked goods. The money raised was to go for the nuns’ work among the lepers of the world. Leprosy, apparently, is still stubbornly prevalent in some areas despite the development of treatments for it. The nuns said that the price of one apple pie, a brownie and a loaf of bread would feed one leper for two weeks. So I bought all the above and brought them home, where they didn’t last very long, given my agnostic husband’s love of apple pie, even if nuns made it.

 

All of this got me thinking about the good that is done in this world by its religions. We don’t hear very much about that these days. But a little checking around on the Internet makes it clear that, if all religions suddenly went out of business, and their good works were stopped, this world would be in a very bad way indeed. 

 

Because I’m Catholic, I’m most familiar with groups like Catholic Charities, which to my mind is a legion of saints. But there are other groups of other affiliations. The Federation of Protestant Welfare Agencies, United Jewish Appeal, to name just two. These organizations feed the poor, house the homeless, care for the sick and clothe the naked, all in the name of their beliefs, which are informed by religion. 

 

Have terrible things been done in the name of religion? Absolutely. Do the religious of the world always live by the high standards they preach? Sadly, no.

 

But through the ages, religion has also been a huge force for the good, helping the helpless, keeping order, setting standards. And if we fail to live up to its standards, I believe we are still better off for having them.

 

So, in this age when it is practically de rigueur to disdain religion if one is to remain a member of the civilized world, could we, just for a moment or two, give some thought to the good that religion does? If you need inspiration, check out that mother who’s taking home a free Easter meal from one of the many church food banks in the area, or the homeless guy who just got a new pair of shoes, courtesy of some church. They are not the whole truth of religion, but they are a very big part of it.

 

Marjorie Palmer

Salisbury 

 

 

Culinary heaven here in Salisbury

 

As someone who enjoys cooking (and eating their own fare), I seldom venture out to the local eateries on weekend nights. What a mistake that’s been when a culinary surprise sits right at my back door — well, almost. Distance-wise it is the closest restaurant, but in terms of cuisine it’s one hundred miles and a quarter century away.

 

 In another life, which is a common phrase for many Northwest Corner refugees who once earned their daily bread in big cities, I experienced some of the world’s greatest culinary arts in many of New York City’s legendary restaurants. One in particular — Lutèce at 249 E. 50th St. — was a favorite. Fortunately, it was even more so for my in-laws who lived two blocks north, frequently dined there and would often have their children and spouses for family dinners. In the 1980s, for six years Lutèce was internationally ranked as the world’s best restaurant by none less than Julia Childs and Zagats; those were some dinners, but I’ll stick to the topic of food.

 

Everyone knows — and if you don’t you should — The Country Bistro in Salisbury for its warmth, cheery atmosphere and excellent breakfast and lunch menu. But if you haven’t been there for dinner on a Friday, Saturday or Sunday night, you don’t know what you’re missing. Get ready to be surprised because the difference between breakfast, lunch and dinner is like Cinderella before and after putting on the glass slipper.

 

This past Saturday a good friend invited me to join him for dinner at The Bistro and I walked out a convert to Jacqueline Heriteau who, along with daughter Holly Stonehill and her chef sons Kris and David, has created an oasis of culinary heaven right here in Salisbury.

 

The Asparagus Delight as an appetizer was out of this world. Steamed perfectly al dente and delicately wrapped in prosciutto, highlighted with a balsamic reduction and side of sauce marcel, the dish was as elegant in presentation as it was in taste. It was culinary perfection.

 

The entrée of Shrimp a la Grecque was not only elegant in its simplicity of ingredients, it made what could have been — and too often is in most restaurants — wallflower rice blossom with just the right amounts of olive oil, lemon, tomatoes, parsley and just a whiff of garlic to remind you of the importance of that ingredient. The taste of wonderfully sweet butter lingered on the palette after each delicious bite; unforgettable. I will no doubt attempt to replicate this dish at home, but I will be back to The Bistro for further research and tasting.

 

To accompany my dinner, I had a Latour French Chardonnay from Burgundy that was excellent.

 

Salisbury isn’t Manhattan, and The Country Bistro isn’t Lutèce, but Jacqueline Heriteau has proven culinary breadth that goes beyond her native France and for a short while that night I was back in culinary heaven.

 

Thanks for the memories, Jacquie. I will return.

 

Chris Janelli

Salisbury

 

Changing voting method in Salisbury makes sense

 

When we first moved to Lakeville, seven years ago, we were charmed by our first voting experiences. The poll workers were professional, yet cordial, the lines short, the wait also. 

 

Local elections, however, were a different experience. Because of the (to us anyway) archaic system of voting for selectmen, we can vote for only two of the three office holders, pretty undemocratic and terribly confusing. One year we observed a woman put four ballots in the scanning machine before she got it right. She was not the only one.

 

As time went on we learned that only the first selectman collects a salary and has an office in Town Hall. The other two, although they spend plenty of time working for the town, do not. It makes sense that a candidate run for first selectman only as that person is essentially the executive officer of the town and is on call all the time. We can’t imagine if you were prepared to serve in that office a person would want to “drop down” to be a selectman.

 

It seems perfectly rational to make the changes being suggested by Mr. Vail and Mr. Hammond, voting separately for first selectman, then voting for two of the candidates on the ballot for selectman. 

 

We hope residents read about the proposed changes, attend town meetings to have their questions answered and vote for them. 

 

Dr. and Mrs. William Kremer

Lakeville

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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