Working in the wildflower garden this weekend, trying to maintain control of the weeds, I noticed a wide variety of butterflies, moths and other insects taking advantage of the early blooms. Each plant was picked for its value to hummingbirds and butterflies and other birds and insects. I often get asked to explain the difference between butterflies and moths, each differing in habits and body structure. You will see butterflies mainly in the daytime and moths at night, but this general rule does not hold true for all butterflies and moths; in fact we are seeing a lot of moths this year during the day and night.The best way to determine if it is a moth or butterfly is to look closely at its two antennae or “feelers.” If they are clubbed, you can be quite sure you have a butterfly. Moths generally have feathery or threadlike antennae.Moths and butterflies belong to the order Lepidoptera, meaning scale-winged. Their delicate wings are covered with thousands of minute scales that overlap like shingles on a house. The arrangement of scales reflects a variety of colors through the translucent membranes between the wing veins. The scales on a moth are erratic, often thin and hairy. A butterfly’s wing scales are more uniform and smooth.When resting, a butterfly usually holds its wings closed and upright over its slender back. The moth rests with its wings stretched flat or folded over and around its plump back. Many types of moth larvae or “caterpillars” make cocoons from where, after time, they emerge as adult moths. Butterflies do not make cocoons. A mature butterfly larva tends to make a chrysalis in which to grow. The chrysalis is attached to a plant for several weeks while the larva inside begins to develop into a butterfly.I remember searching for butterfly larvae and, when I found one, watching it make a chrysalis and eventually emerge as a mature butterfly. I was particularly happy when I saw the famous monarch butterfly. How fun it was to see that brand new orange-and-black butterfly emerge and flutter away for the first time! Unfortunately, our familiar monarch continues to be on the decline. In fact, wintering populations in Mexico hit record lows this year. Scientists have been pointing to several reasons for this decline, including unusual weather patterns and loss of habitat. Of utmost concern though, is the use of herbicide-tolerant crops that has enabled farmers, particularly in the Midwest, to wipe out the milkweed growing between the rows of millions of acres of soybean and corn, and with it, much of the butterflies’ food supply. Back here at home, we can help by planting and maintaining native flowering plants, including milkweed, to attract birds and butterflies. Letting excess lawn revert to more of a field condition is also good and reduces maintenance costs. When planting for birds and butterflies, it is essential to avoid nonnative invasive plants. I also recommend adding benches to these backyard landscapes that will enable you and your family to observe this wildlife close-up. To learn more about moths and butterflies and a whole host of other nature-related topics, and to see many different live animals, don’t forget that the Sharon Audubon Festival will be held Aug. 10-11 at the Sharon Audubon Center.Scott E. Heth is the director of Audubon Sharon and can be reached at sheth@audubon.org, (subject line: Nature Notes).
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Raymond Conklin
Lakeville Journal
NORTH CANAAN — Raymond “Pete” Conklin, 89, of North Canaan, Connecticut, passed away on Monday, Oct. 19, 2026. He was born on March 10, 1937, in North Canaan, where he grew up and lived most of his life. As a boy, he spent countless hours with his grandparents in Stockbridge, Massachusetts. There, his grandmother worked as a cook for Norman Rockwell, and his grandfather taught him to fish and appreciate the outdoors.
After graduating from Housatonic Valley Regional High School (H.V.R.H.S.) in 1955, Pete joined the US Air Force, proudly serving for four years while stationed in Phoenix, Arizona. Following his service, he returned to Canaan and built a successful career as a mechanic and machinist, working at Becton-Dickinson and later the Torrington Company before retiring in 2002.
Pete lived a full life anchored by his deep love for the great outdoors. Whether tracking deer at dawn in the quiet woods with his friend Nick, chatting about their gun collections, or spending time at the shooting range, Pete found his truest peace outside. Though a man of few words, he possessed a big heart and endless patience—qualities that made him both a seasoned hunter and a loyal friend. He loved sharing stories about his past, and his quick wit always brought joy to those around him. Holidays with his family were among his favorite times, and he especially looked forward to all the food.
When Pete wasn’t outdoors, he enjoyed cooking and watching Westerns on TV. John Wayne and Clint Eastwood were his all time favorite stars. In the earlier days, Pete and Audrey would go out and enjoy dancing the jitterbug and waltzing the night away. He was an excellent dancer which very few people knew about him.
He is survived by his former wife and loving friend of over 50 years, Audrey Hartman; his best friend of 89 years, Nick Graf; his daughter by marriage, Sherrie Corban; his granddaughters, Jennifer Corban Woods (David) and Samantha Corban; his great-grandchildren, Nicolette Corban and Mason Collins; and his great-great-granddaughter, Evangeline Zahm. He was preceded in death by his parents, Albert R. Conklin and Ethel Elizabeth Blackwell Conklin, and his sister, Dorothy “Dot” M. Conklin.
The family will hold a private gathering following cremation to celebrate his life. He will be deeply missed. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Pete’s name to the Action Wildlife Foundation in Goshen, CT.
Ernest B. Sinclair
Lakeville Journal
NORFOLK — Ernest B. Sinclair, April 20, 1937 - October 26, 2026. Ernie, 89, passed quietly on Oct. 26 ,at Geer Lodge in Canaan, Connecticut surrounded by those he loved.
Ernie was born in Bar Harbor, Maine. The family moved to naval housing in Middletown, Rhode Island while father Leon was stationed on battleships in the South Pacific during the second world war. After the war, they made the move to Norfolk, Connecticut. It was here that Ernie met his childhood sweetheart, Carolyn Ryan.They were married in 1959 and wasted no time in starting a family. Over the next six and a half years, four boys and a girl were born. They lived in several places early in their marriage, but in 1967, the lure of a smaller town and a larger house brought them back to Norfolk. Ernie’s earlier experiences with the town had taught him that this was the perfect place to raise his family. He would spend the next 59 years of his life with Norfolk as his anchor.Needing a bit more care to navigate life’s challenges, Ernie moved to Geer Lodge in Canaan just this past May.
Ernie attended Oliver Wolcott Technical School, Grinnell College and the Rhode Island School of Design, eventually obtaining a degree in architecture and becoming a licensed architect, builder and building official. After working for a number of firms early in his career, he began his own design/build business. Working with his three oldest sons, he designed and built structures in Norfolk and much of the surrounding area.
In retirement, Ernie enjoyed many interests including wood carving, drawing, and his real passion, singing.He was amember of many singing groups including the Norfolk Church of Christ choir, Gaudeamus, Octo Cantabile, and the Litchfield County Choral Union. He was also a contributing vocalist on Pete Seeger’s 1996 grammy winning album “Pete”.
Ernie was a lifelong member of the Church of Christ in Norfolk where he served in various leadership positions, sang in the choir and was involved in the completion of many capital improvements to the church campus including the covered entryway at the rear of the chapel - a project he was particularly proud of. He was given the honor of being named a Life Steward for his commitment and service to the church.
Ernie and his partner of the past 26 years, Susie, used their later years to enjoy many of the things together that life had not afforded them earlier. They travelled, sang together and spent many winter months in a condo that Ernie had purchased in Venice, Florida.
Son of the late Leon and Janet (Coffin) Sinclair, Ernie is also predeceased by his wife Carolyn and brothers Pete and David. He leaves behind his partner Susan Hooker, brother Bob and wife Jill, brother Kirk and wife Cindy, son Stephen and wife Barbara, son Scott and wife Lisa, son Michael and wife Patti, daughter Holly, son Tom and wife Deeda, as well as 13 grandchildren, 6 great grandchildren and a large extended family.
The family would like to thank the staff at the Geer campus in Canaan, Connecticut for bringing joy and comfort to Ernie in his final months.
A celebration of Ernie’s life will be held on Sunday Nov. 22, 2026 at 2:00 p.m. at the Church of Christ, Congregational 12 Litchfield Road, Norfolk, Connecticut.
Memorial donations may be made to the Church of Christ, PO Box 582, Norfolk, CT 06058
George R. DelPrete
Lakeville Journal
LAKEVILLE — George R. DelPrete (Rick) passed away peacefully on Oct. 18, 2026. He was the husband of Barbara for 62 years, and the father of Skip, Jena, and Steve DelPrete, and the grandfather of eight.
Rick was born and brought up in Framingham, Massachusetts, the youngest child of Arthur and Mary DelPrete. He attended St. Stephen’s School, followed by Framingham High School. In high school he was on the honor roll, lettered in football, and on the Student Council. After graduation he attended Bowdoin College, where he majored in history and classics. He was a member of Psi Upsilon, a letter man in football and lacrosse, and President of the Student Council.
After graduation in 1961, he tried the insurance business but wanted to teach. He and Barb moved to the West Coast, where he entered UCLA. Barb took classes and worked to support them.
After graduation he took a position at Berwick Academy in South Berwick, Maine where he taught history and served as the Athletic Director, head football and lacrosse coach.
After five years he moved on to The Hotchkiss School in Lakeville, Connecticut where he taught history and became the Athletic Director and head football coach in football and lacrosse. He retired after thirty-four years continuing to live in Lakeville. He was on the school board, chairman of the Education Committee, a member of the Zoning Board and a Justice of the Peace. His favorite hobby was fly fishing and he did it from Alaska to New England.
There will be a funeral on Nov., 21 at St. Martin of Tours Catholic Church in Lakeville, CT at 11:30 a.m. Burial will be private. Ryan Funeral Home, Lakeville, is in care of arrangements.
In lieu of flowers please donate to Trout Unlimited of Northwest CT.
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James Lawrence Sullivan
Lakeville Journal
COLEBROOK — James Lawrence Sullivan was born on Feb. 18, 1936, in Winsted, Connecticut, to John Sullivan, who immigrated from England, and Emma Isabelle Sullivan, who immigrated from Canada. James was a first-generation American who carried his family roots with pride. He grew up alongside his brother, John Sullivan, and went on to build a life that reflected the values of hard work, independence, and family.
James attended Oliver Wolcott School and proudly served his country in the United States Army from 1956 to 1958. After completing his military service, he began his career with C. H. Nickerson Construction Company, where he worked as a foreman. A tough, hardworking carpenter by trade, James was a skilled craftsman who took great pride in working with his hands. He was never one to sit still and always seemed to have another project going. He could build just about anything, and perhaps his greatest accomplishment was building his own home from the ground up in Colebrook, Connecticut. That home became more than a structure; it became the heart of his family’s memories and a lasting part of his legacy.
James was happiest outdoors. A true outdoorsman, he had a lifelong love of trapping, fishing, and farming. He especially enjoyed the winter months checking his trap lines. Trapping was a passion he loved sharing with his family, and he took pride in teaching his son and grandson the skills and traditions of trapping, passing along knowledge that will live on for generations.
His farm and all its animals held a special place in his heart. He especially loved his very first cow, Elizabeth, who would always hold a special place in his memories. The farm was more than land and animals to James; it was a way of life and a source of happiness. He was also a lifelong member of the NTA, CTA, and NRA, organizations that reflected his longstanding interests and passions.
Above all, James valued his family. He married Barbara Thiery on June 27, 1957, and together they shared 72 years of love, companionship, and memories. Their life together was built on commitment, family, and the many experiences they shared throughout the years.
James leaves behind his beloved wife, Barbara; his three children, Gail Sullivan, Michael Sullivan, and Michele Sullivan; and his two grandsons, Nicholas Sullivan and Mitchell Sullivan.
James will be remembered as a tough, hardworking, independent man who knew the value of an honest day’s work. He was a carpenter, a farmer, an outdoorsman, and a devoted family man. He built more than a home; he built a life, a family, and a legacy that will carry on through the generations. His hands built the house, worked the land, cared for his animals, and followed the trap lines. But perhaps his greatest legacy is the knowledge, traditions, stories, and love he passed down to his family.
He will be deeply missed and forever remembered by those who knew and loved him.
May he rest in peace.
A Celebration of James’s Life
Family and friends are invited to gather for a remembrance of James on Nov. 9, 2026, from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at Norbrook Brewery.
All who knew and loved James are welcome to join in sharing stories, memories, and celebrating a life well lived.
The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.
Memorial Service - Raymond (Butch) Sprague Jr.
Lakeville Journal
Raymond (Butch) Sprague Jr., of Coleman Station Rd., Millerton, NY, died November 1, 2026 in Lakeville, CT. He was the son of the late Raymond and Emma Sprague. Calling hours will be Saturday, November 7, from 1:00 PM to 3:00 PM at The Kenny Funeral Home in Sharon, CT. A complete obituary will be posted at a later date.
In Appreciation - Mike Citrin
Lakeville Journal
Mike Citrin of Ancramdale, New York, passed away on August 9, 2026. Many in our community knew him as a friend and a man of uncommon virtue. I knew Mike as his physical therapist of many years, and he was one of the most remarkable and heroic persons I will ever meet.
Mike developed Parkinson’s disease more that 30 years ago. A few years back, he lost all his strength and mobility, coming close to death. Deciding he needed to get out of the clinic and back into nature, we turned to the Harlem Valley Rail Trail. There, he regained his ability to walk and found another chance at life. Remarkably, at age 80, he recovered such stamina with his walking aid that he eventually could outlast me on the trail.
But this was not enough for Mike–he wanted to ride a bike again. We found a three-wheeled bike that fit his bent-over posture perfectly, and took to the trail once more. He became so adept that soon he was a low-riding and ubiquitous figure, soloing all over the roads of southeast Columbia County.
He graduated from physical therapy, and I became his biking partner. It was an exhausting role;even at the very end, in his mid-80’s, I was never able to keep pace with him. When Parkinson’s nearly killed him a second time, he recovered yet again. Soon he was riding the Rail Trail 12 miles to Millerton for lunch, and 12 miles back home.
Mike regained several robust years of his life from the healing graces of the Harlem Valley Rail Trail, and I experienced this remarkable grace alongside (and far behind) him.
I have cast six stones with Mike’s name, and placed them alongside the Rail Trail to honor him. They are hidden, and some may never be found. It is my hope that the stretch of the Rail Trail between Millerton and Copake Falls will forever be imbued with his spirit, and will henceforth be known as the Mike Citrin Path.
Ken Rude
Red Hook, New York
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