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RAPP celebrates unique family units

AMENIA — A party for Cornell Cooperative’s Relatives As Parents Program (RAPP) was held at the South Amenia Presbyterian Church on Friday, May 4.RAPP is a support group designed to assist grandparents and other relatives who have taken on the role of primary caregiver for a related child. The group also provides a support system for children in these unique family units.RAPP member Josephine French of Pine Plains is a huge supporter of the group.“There’s a generational difference as a grandparent. You don’t always feel connected and you feel like you’re apart from the other parents at school. The parents are often uncomfortable because they don’t want to ask about our situation. They don’t want to offend anyone so they don’t form those bonds with us,” she said.RAPP allows parents who are facing similar struggles to meet other parents and share their personal stories, if they are comfortable in doing so, and to offer companionship.Maureen Paar of Amenia was reluctant to join.“It’s common to be afraid. You’re afraid people will judge you or ask about your personal situation, but that’s not this group. I didn’t know how much I needed it until I came. I couldn’t do it without this group and all the support,” she said.During the party the children of the RAPP group presented new brooms to Althea and Bob Meade, members of the church.“We were desperately in need of new brooms. It was so sweet of them to think of us. We’re very thankful,” said Althea.Bee Bee the Clown was also there to paint faces and make balloon animals for the children.As parents bonded over conversation the children of the group played together with no discrimination for age or gender.“The children really need this too. They go to school and have to answer why they don’t have a mom or dad. Other kids don’t understand. Here, they fit in. They don’t have to worry about getting asked those questions because there are other children here who are just like them,” said French.Brenda Rennia of Amenia also recognized the importance of the meeting for the children.“The kids really look at each other as brothers and sisters. They bond because they’re in similar situations and it’s really positive and supportive for them as well as us,” she said.The party was organized and hosted by Joanne Chappell of Wassaic.“These people are remarkable. It’s amazing what they go through every day, the sacrifices and struggles. They are a truly wonderful group of people,” she said.Chappell organized several donations for the event that everyone was truly grateful for.“I’d like to thank all our donors including CVS in Millerton, Renny’s, Freshtown in Amenia and Dover, Dunkin’ Donuts, El Paradisio Pizza, Cousins, McDonald’s in Dover, Sauto Pizzeria, Four Brothers in Amenia, Tractor Supply, Drug World, Fudgy’s Ice Cream, HG Page & Sons, When Pigs Fly and the Stage Coach Market,” she said.RAPP meets the first Wednesday of every month from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m. at the South Amenia Presbyterian Church. For more information contact Nina Doyle by calling 845-677-8223, ext. 137 or emailing nm62@cornell.edu.

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