Why can’t we love Connecticut the way that New Jerseyans love New Jersey?

Although I’ve lived in Connecticut about three quarters of my life, I grew up in New Jersey and still take an interest in Jersey phenomena like its buffoonish governor, the intentional sabotage of traffic on the George Washington Bridge and the occasional arrests and convictions of its representatives in Congress.

So I was especially interested in a recently published comparison with the state where I sang in grade school about wanting “to live and die in old New Jersey on the blue Atlantic shore” and the state where I’ve spent most of my life. 

The Jersey comment followed a Sunday Hartford Courant feature on the proposition that Connecticut residents are too quick to knock the state and its capital city. Richard Sugurman, the impresario who runs the excellent Connecticut Forum discussions, had written an op-ed that listed all the nice things about Connecticut, from its “excellent” schools, important businesses and UConn basketball to its abundance of wineries, restaurants and “one of the best local public radio anywhere.”

All true, but when he got to Hartford, Sugarman could only wonder “why we don’t think of the many great things as quickly and as easily as what’s wrong.” He didn’t cite any of the many great things about Hartford before calling on us to fix our “chronic negative perception and negative psyche issue.”

Readers apparently responded with some enthusiasm about Connecticut’s virtues and foibles, and the paper printed many of them. One former New Jersey resident said the people of her state are proud of it, despite its gangsters, scenically challenged turnpike and corruption, and she couldn’t understand why Connecticut residents are so critical.

I think I know why. People in Connecticut get Connecticut news from Connecticut newspapers and other Connecticut media, while most of what New Jersey people know about the state comes from New York newspapers and TV stations. Or, if they live in the southern part of the state, from Philadelphia media. 

This has been true for a long time. When I was a lad, the news consumers in northern New Jersey got their news almost exclusively from New York. In the morning, they could choose from The New York Times, Daily News, Herald Tribune and Mirror. That adds up to two great newspapers, the Times and Trib; a great tabloid with the largest circulation, the News, and an inferior tabloid, the Mirror, that had Walter Winchell’s gossip column.

In the evening, there were also pretty good choices. For a while we had The Sun and The World-Telegram with the sports cartoons of Willard Mullin for Republicans, along with what was then the liberal Post, and the reactionary Journal-American that had Westbrook Pegler attacking Eleanor Roosevelt almost every day. 

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Over the years, all the New York papers except the Times, News and Post folded, but the reading habits on the Jersey side of the Hudson remained the same. The state’s residents, especially the large commuting class, retained their New York orientation and as a result, they don’t get to know very much about the people they elect, their conduct in office or much of anything else beyond the often sad results, which get all the attention. 

This is somewhat true of Connecticut residents living in Fairfield County, where some go to the polls wondering what happened to the candidates they have been reading about in the New York papers or seeing on New York television. 

But the rest of the state is fortunate in still having local newspapers that continue to thoroughly cover the state and its government. The Courant, the closest we have to a statewide paper, has survived severe cuts and absentee ownership, and most of the others, despite declining readership, offer their readers the kind of news they need to be informed citizens. We still have other strong dailies like The Journal Inquirer, The Day, The Connecticut Post, The News-Times and several others that, in most cases, still cover the news despite sometimes severely depleted staffs.

It isn’t like the old days when the capital press room had enough reporters to produce an annual satirical revue about the people they covered. But the survivors are generally a dedicated lot, and not much seems to get past them. As a result, the people of Connecticut, unlike their Jersey cousins, get pretty much what they need, which adds up to more than enough to complain about. And we’re better for it.

Simsbury resident Dick Ahles is a retired journalist. Email him at dahles@hotmail.com.

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