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Letter to the editor 3-22-13

 

The truth vs. fear mongering

 

 

Winsted’s financial problems are well publicized so I will not recap them here. But I will share a movie connection that continually comes to my mind. It’s the scene in “A Few Good Men” when Tom Cruise’s character presses Jack Nicholson’s character for the truth. Nicholson responds, “You can’t handle the truth!”

At Board of Selectmen meetings, members of the public and Selectmen Fracasso and Albanesius often press Dale Martin and/or Jane Wall for the “truth” of our account balances. It would be nice if these people could handle the truth, but what I see consistently is a mishandling and contortion of the truth.

Specifically, these selectmen and vocal public members take the truth, often twist the numbers, and always apply fear mongering. Fear mongering is a well-known political tactic meant to shut down conversation and independent thinking. If you can frighten people enough, they will follow you like sheep away from the danger. These fear mongers apply phrases like “epic,” catastrophic, “painful,” “a world of hurt” and other such cataclysmic words to our financial problems. 

After the Newtown massacre, a quote that got traction was the one that Fred Rogers (children’s TV host) shared from his mother. In dire times, she would tell him “Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.” 

I’m thankful for the help of interim Finance Director Jane Wall. She has made reference to staff within Town Hall that has helped. I can’t confidently name who they are, but they are there. Look for them and others who are helping. Don’t let the fearmongering shut down your independent thinking.

Mari-Ellen “Mimi” Valyo

Winsted

 

The writer is a member of the Winchester Board of Education.

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