Taking the journey to fight breast cancer

SAN FRANCISCO, Calif. — Most Septembers, as this paper’s Millbrook reporter, I attend village board meetings, cover back-to-school activities and uncover new issues affecting the community. But this September, as the fall leaves began to show, I took a pause from reporting to travel to the beautiful city of San Francisco for a week. Although while there I enjoyed exploring the Golden Gate Bridge, visiting the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art and eating dim sum, my visit had a deeper purpose than merely fulfilling a tourist’s pleasure. I stayed with my cousin, Louisa Gloger, and her family in Mill Valley. Our family, mostly located on the East Coast, is large, to say the least. My mother is the youngest of 10. Louisa’s mother, also my late Aunt Pam, was the fourth oldest out of the 10. There are many cousins in our family, but Louisa and I have always been especially close. Louisa has been like the big sister I never had. When I was 3 and Louisa was a teenager we took a road trip through Florence, with our moms blasting a Lionel Richie cassette tape during the entire trip. I remember visiting her at Williams College and attending her graduation, thinking I would never be that old! I also remember the day she married her high school sweetheart next to the ocean in Bolinas, Calif., our whole family flew out for the unforgettable occasion. Louisa always set the pace and showed me what I wanted my own future to look like.When I found out Louisa had been diagnosed with Triple Negative Breast Cancer in 2009 I was confused and upset. I couldn’t understand how my perfectly healthy, beautiful, fun-loving cousin could be diagnosed with this disease at 31. At that time in her life she was married to her husband, Drew, and had two gorgeous daughters, Pamela and Iris. She had the life she had always dreamed of having, but with this disease she worried she wouldn’t live to see it through. Louisa’s mother, my Aunt Pam, passed away from breast cancer during Louisa’s freshman year at Williams College. Many of our aunts and uncles have battled different forms of cancer, however breast cancer is prominent among the women in my family. In discovering Louisa’s diagnosis it was hard not to think about how tough it was losing Aunt Pam. But true to form Louisa battled the disease and was able to get through treatment, and she beat it! She was even more blessed to have another daughter, her third child, Anne, after going through treatment. But she didn’t stop there. After surviving Triple Negative Breast Cancer she co-founded her own organization with Lori Flowers, also a Triple Negative Breast Cancer survivor. Three years ago Triple Step Toward the Cure was created to help support women in treatment for Triple Negative Breast Cancer.Sunday, Sept. 16, was the Third Annual Triple Step Toward the Cure 5K Fundraiser Walk in Oakland, Calif. When Louisa asked me to join the walk as a sponsor to raise money toward the cause, I instantly accepted. While in Mill Valley anyone could donate money to my personal fundraising page to sponsor me in the walk. All funds raised during the walk supported Triple Step Toward the Cure’s financial community resource program, which provides financial and emotional support to women diagnosed with Triple Negative Breast Cancer.“This walk was incredibly important to my co-founder and me, in part because it’s our third year with our organization being called Triple Step, and the number three has become important to us,” said Louisa. “Not only that three years out is a big milestone for us just to be getting back out there with our supporters and the patients that we have helped and are continuing to raise awareness for, but this many years out feels good. It feels like an accomplishment.”Triple Negative Breast Cancer is a type of breast cancer that affects 15 to 20 percent of newly diagnosed breast cancer patients. Triple Negative Breast Cancer is unfortunate because it is harder to treat and more likely to recur, as it is a very aggressive form of breast cancer. Triple Negative Breast Cancer also frequently strikes younger women and women of color, however the disease doesn’t just affect women of color; Caucasian women are also highly affected by the disease.“We at Triple Step Toward the Cure are very driven to find a cure, raise awareness, support women who are diagnosed and basically reach out to disadvantaged or at risk communities to raise awareness of this disease and sort of stop this cancer before it starts,” said Louisa.Working as a sponsor for Triple Step Toward the Cure, it was the first time I’d ever been involved in a fundraising walk. Although I was passionate about the cause, I was worried I wouldn’t receive many donations in a short time frame. I was humbled by the fact that during my time raising funds a variety of people stepped forward to support me and I ended up raising $1,080, when my original goal was $750. During Sunday’s walk sponsors from all over California traveled to Lake Merritt in Oakland to run and walk the 5K. Although the cause was to battle a devastating disease the event was a celebration. People dressed in pink from head to toe, and joined together to raise money to fight the disease. A marching band walked the entire course so people could enjoy live music throughout the 5K. The walk in Oakland generated $30,000 and Triple Step will have another walk on Saturday, Oct. 6, in Los Angeles, Calif. Triple Step hopes to raise a total of $100,000, and by the looks of it it’s well on its way.Although the walk was successful the battle continues for women suffering with this disease.“As a survivor it’s really hard for me to see women that we have helped through our organization fall prey to the disease at young ages,” said Louisa. “One of the first women that we helped in our program was recently given the horrifying news that she only had months to live. It’s really hard for us, as an organization, to know that we are losing patients and until that ends we will not feel that our work is done. That’s where the importance of this walk comes in.”The walk not only raises awareness but it also raises critical funds to continue the work needed to help women through treatment. Louisa said that over the last three years she has seen the organization grow through outreach done by Flowers and herself. Both co-founders traveled across the country spreading the word to social workers, hospital workers and health care navigators that Triple Steps Toward the Cure’s services are available. Louisa said many women newly diagnosed are young working moms or women who are challenged financially.Unfortunately, many set seeking treatment aside because they have other responsibilities, creating higher mortality rates among many women with the disease. Triple Step hopes by offsetting some of the costs and challenges these women face they will be able to focus on getting well. Since stepping up their outreach program across the country, the organization’s applications have increased 60 percent.“Which is great, but it also really highlights the fact that when you spread the word that you are providing financial support, people who need your help will come knocking. As a result we have to go out and continue to raise money. That’s where this walk becomes so important, because this is our chance to get the word out and try to raise funds,” Louisa said.I was honored to be able to support my cousin through the Triple Step Toward the Cure walk in Oakland. When I was there she expressed how she is constantly worried the disease will return and she will have to battle the disease that has already threatened to take the life she has built around her family. It made me wonder if one day I would fall prey to this disease, or any form of cancer that has affected my family. There is no way of knowing. We can only live in the present. But I can stand proudly, in solidarity with my cousin and the women across the world fighting Tripe Negative Breast Cancer to fight the disease and end it forever. And I do.“I’d would like to have Triple Step be a big enough organization that any women who comes to us with Triple Negative Breast Cancer is able to get the support that she needs with us whether financial or emotional,” said Louisa. “I’d like to see us have a global presence. There is more and more evidence that this disease suggests that there are higher rates in certain areas of Africa and in developing countries. I would love for our organization to have a global influence and frankly my ultimate goal is that we find the cure for Triple Negative Breast cancer, and find a way to prevent it and no longer need to exist as a organization because the disease has been eradicated.”To learn more about Triple Step Toward the Cure and its services go to triplesteptowardthecure.org.

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