Veterans relate war experiences at Gilbert assembly

WINSTED —  The Gilbert School commemorated Veterans Day, Nov. 11. Veterans from all branches of the military, who served in Korean and Vietnam  and other conflicts, spoke to students of all grades about what it was like to serve.

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Three of the veterans who spoke were Dave Tazzara, Joe Godenzi and Paul Vaccari.

The three, all Gilbert graduates, enlisted in the U.S. Army in 1968 and served in the Vietnam War. 

“We were really good friends in school, and we all volunteered,” Vaccari told an audience of students gathered at the library. “We enlisted together in 1967, and we all went through basic training together in 1968, knowing full well what we’d volunteered for.”

Vaccari said that the three joined over 10,000 American soldiers who were fighting in Vietnam.

“Joe and Paul came up to me in a pool hall and said ‘Hey, we just signed up for the draft. Do you want to come up with us?’” Tazzara said. “I had nothing else better to do. That’s how I got into it. In six months, I went from sitting in a chair in a pool hall to preparing a rifle to shoot another human being in Vietnam. It was a learning experience. 

“Our jobs were to make contact with the enemy. We fought soldiers just like leaders fight. They defend their land or their ideas. They had normal families just like we had normal families. You couldn’t get involved in that with what we were doing. Kind of hard to think about, but that’s what we did.”

Tazzara said the three served together for three days, but then were all separated for a full year as they served.

The three stayed in touch by frequently writing letters to each other.

Price of war

During the event, Godenzi recounted how he was severely injured during the war.

“I’m the one who got his butt kicked over there,” Godenzi said as he held up a letter written to him during the war from Vaccari. “This letter has blood on it from 48 years ago. I stuck it in my pocket, and I was reading it the day that I got hit. It was the day from hell.”

Godenzi recounted for the students the moment when he got hurt.

“What happens is that, when you’re going out to the bathroom, you are always with someone else and you are never alone to keep guard,” Godenzi said. “Two guys went out and then they came back screaming ‘They’re coming! They’re here!’ We all dove into our bunkers. Then all hell broke loose.”

Godenzi said “bullets were flying, grenades were flying and everything was just incredible.”

“We were so close to being overwhelmed because they fired their artillery into our perimeter,” Godenzi said. “The first four or five [artillery shells] fell behind me. If you ever felt like someone punched you in the back, it removes your breath. That’s what it felt like.”

Godenzi said he did not notice he’d been wounded.

“My sergeant yelled ‘Joe! You’ve been hit!’ Godenzi said. “I looked behind me and there was an unbelievable puddle of blood on the ground. He screamed ‘Sit down!’ and I must have blacked out. Because when I came to, my sergeant was lying across from me and half of his head was gone. He got an RPG on the back of his head. To this day I always think about how fortunate I was because I know that could’ve been me. So I feel very lucky. Believe me, I’m the luckiest man on the planet to get out of the situation I was in, because a lot of other men did not.”

Godenzi said he was lying bleeding when a grenade was thrown in the bunker he was in.

“Because I was a pretty good athlete at Gilbert, I grabbed the grenade and let it go. But just as I let it go, it exploded,” Godenzi said. “It blew my thumb, two fingers off, along with the tips of the other fingers. It also blew part of my foot off. It also ripped up the front of my body. Then I really panicked and I jumped out of the hooch and I ran out of the bunker.”

Godenzi ran several feet, lay down and screamed “Medic! Medic!”

“The first medics came, but both of them got shot,” he said. “Finally the third medic came. He bandaged me up, but he couldn’t give me medication because there were internal wounds. He wrapped me up and then he left. We were in the middle of a monsoon season, and the rain is pouring down.”

As Godenzi waited, a friend from Detroit made his way over to him.

“He said to me ‘Wow, you are so lucky, because you’re going to see my Tigers play!’” Godenzi said. 

In 1968 the Detroit Tigers were in the baseball playoffs and eventually won the World Series.

“He was just screaming this at me. He kept me from going into shock, which was pretty damn important,” Godenzi said. “You think nothing worse can happen to you on a day than that. But then as I’m laying there and talking to this guy, a tree about a foot in diameter comes crashing down and lands on my chest. Punctured my lung, broke God knows how many ribs. So I’m lying down and waiting for Medevac to come, and I have a big tree on my chest.”

Godenzi said he eventually was evacuated out of the location and went into a deep coma for three weeks.

“They actually told my parents that ‘he’s not going to make it,’ he said. “But by God’s will and grace, I woke up.”

He was transferred to Walter Reed Medical Center in Bethesda, Md., where he had to deal with multiple reconstructive surgeries.

“But I’m the luckiest guy on the planet because I’m still here,” he said. “I have wonderful family and great friends. It’s just one of the times in your life that you appreciate being alive. And I certainly do every day.”

Ceremony honoring veterans

During the middle of the school day, students, teachers and administrators, along with veterans, gathered at the flagpoles in front of the school for a ceremony honoring veterans. 

The middle school marching band played the National Anthem, and the Gilbert School choir sang “America The Beautiful.”

 

School students presented veteran Art Melycher with a check for $255 for local veterans in need. 

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