The chronicle of a Kennedy beyond JFK: the life of Kick Kennedy

KENT — “There had to be an explanation for why they all fell in love with her,” biographer Barbara Leaming said at the Kent Memorial Library on Saturday, April 30. 

The “they” in question was the House of Cavendish, one of the most influential aristocratic families in England. 

The “her” was a girl nicknamed Kick,who was at that time the daughter of the American ambassador to the United Kingdom. 

In her new book, “Kick Kennedy: The Charmed Life and Tragic Death of the Favorite Kennedy Daughter,” Leaming details the brief life of a young woman, a spirited heroine in her own right and a rarely mentioned part of the Kennedy dynasty.

“Did the Devonshires need the Kennedy money? No. They could buy and sell it 500,000 times over. Then was Kick a great beauty? No, she was not. But Andrew [Cavendish, the Duke of Devonshire, and Kick’s brother-in-law] said the moment she started to talk — she was so alive, she had so much vitality, that you forgot that she wasn’t beautiful. And that was important, as all of those boys knew [in 1938] that they were going to die.

“In the aristocracy, girls  spent their lives way out in the country. They would never see boys except for their brothers. As a result, the girls were not very socially adept — in fact they were terrified. At 18 years old they were brought down to London to be presented at court and to find a suitable husband. 

“They were a mess! Scared to death!” Leaming continued.

“The boys, as Andrew said, from 1936 on, when Hitler invaded the Rhineland, expected to die. He said their fathers didn’t know, or didn’t want to know, but the boys understood that war was coming. They would fight, and they would die. As a result, the boys of the aristocracy were wild — very wild. 

“They drank much too much, they went to every party, they’d go careening back to Oxford and Cambridge in these fabulously expensive cars they would then proceed to crash! ‘We may as well live now, because it won’t last long!’ They knew all the politics of the time, and then they have these girls who can only think, ‘Oh, what should we say to boys at the party? Will someone ask me to dance?’” 

“In walks Kick Kennedy, and she has a very big advantage. All that her brother [John F. Kennedy] was interested in was British politics. 

“He followed it like baseball. Kick soaked it all up. So when she walked into this world, the boys thought she was a miracle. A girl who would listen to them talk politics, and who had her own opinions! Additionally, she was utterly innocent. While all those boys were wild, in ways they were as innocent as she was, and they were all in love with her.”  

The boy most in love with her was “Billy” — William Cavendish, Marquess of Hartington. What followed included a family torn apart by conflicting churches, a new marriage cut short by death in World War II, an important friendship with a wounded soldier, a fateful plane ride and a funeral her own mother refused to attend. 

Through Leaming’s own deep friendship with the Duke and Duchess (Deborah “Debo” Cavendish) of Devonshire, the personal stories of Kick’s short life are richly painted — grand houses and great heartbreak — as romantic and poignant as a novel.

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