A Father Who Knows His Calling


 

WINSTED — Many people believe in destiny, but how many truly believe they are living the life they were meant to live? Father Bruce Czapla, pastor of St. Joseph’s Church, says he knows he is following the path chosen for him.

Czapla was born and raised in central Massachusetts and attended parochial schools as well as seminary in New Hampshire.

"I never really thought about a religious life," said Czapla. "A Sunday School teacher asked me about being a priest. I wanted to be an architect."

After just one year of seminary, Czapla decided he needed to take some time to find himself and left school for some soul searching.

"That was in the Vietnam era and they were some confusing and difficult times," Czapla said. He headed to Fall River, near Cape Cod, with no real direction.

While in Fall River, Czapla met a group of nuns called the Hawthorne Dominicans. Founded by the daughter of Nathaniel Hawthorne, the Hawthorne Dominicans primarily cared for terminally ill cancer patients.

"Because of that I went back to school and became a registered nurse. I worked for them for 13 years, caring for terminal cancer patients," said Czapla. "Within that 13-year period, I certainly maintained the practice of my faith. I didn’t know which direction my life was going to go in." However, it was that experience with the Hawthorne Dominicans that led Czapla back to the priesthood and "the religious life."

"My parents have an influence in that also. They wanted me to be successful, but to be happy," Czapla said . "My mother one day asked me if I was ever going to return to the seminary and I think that gave me a little push in that direction."

Czapla returned to the seminary and did his novitiate, the preparation to take vows. In the Catskills in New York he took his vows, and then went back to Boston to complete his theological studies at St. John’s. After several assignments as an associate and as pastor, Czapla was offered the position of pastor at St. Joseph’s in Winsted. This June will be his seventh year at the church.

"It’s been quite an experience. There’s been so much that has happened. It’s a wonderful parish community," Czapla said. "I feel blessed in a lot of ways to be called to be the pastor here."

The role of church pastor is not necessarily a job to Czapla; it’s his life, and a busy one at that.

"My role as a pastor, I think first and foremost is to administer the sacrament of the church and to preach the Gospel. Of course, that means that every day I am suppose to see to it that the faith is being taught as much as possible and encourage the people who come to church every day to lead a good Christian life and to respond to the difficult time that people are having. From a more personal sense, it’s a little bit like being a father."

Currently, St. Joseph’s Church has approximately 1,500 registered families within the community who are officially a part of the church, which equates to around 5,000 members.

"Of course, on any given Sunday we don’t have that many people who come to church,"Czapla said. However, he does estimate that around 1,200 people attend the four weekend services, with higher attendance during the Easter and Christmas holidays.

Being the pastor of a church is not always an easy role to maintain, Czapla said.

"It’s a tough position to be in. Like a father in a home you have a lot of authority and you have to try to exercise that authority prudently with a lot of concern for the spiritual well-being of the people," Czapla said.

"The best part of being a priest is knowing you have helped people in spiritual ways, healing of a different kind. It’s amazing to see the joy on the faces of children when you bless them, when someone walks out of the confessional with a center of peace in their lives. Peace when you bring holy communion to someone when they are sick or anointment when ther're dying."

Being a pastor is a very time-consuming life with little room for personal hobbies or activities. Some days, Czapla spends his entire day within the church and while he technically gets Monday and Tuesday off each week, he cannot remember when he actually took the day off away from the church. In addition, Czapla is a Franciscan friar and has taken a vow of poverty. Any salary he is issued is returned to the order, leaving him with no money for personal spending.

When he does have a free moment, Czapla enjoys spending time with his father, who still lives in Massachusetts. He also loves spending time at the ocean, be it summer or winter.

"Because my days are so busy I love being quiet so I can read. Of course, my favorite reading has to do with the lives of the saints," said Czapla.

And while reading may be his favorite pasttime, Czapla did acknowledge that he enjoys watching movies, including action and science fiction titles.

"I like the Star Trek kind of stuff. I used to consider myself a Trekkie."

Czapla said he is certain that he is leading the life meant for him. While it took him some time to find his way, the pastor knows he is following the will of his "father."

"I think when I returned to the seminary, I returned to myself. I am just trying to be what God intended for me in the first place. It’s always a challenge."

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