In appreciation: Sterling J. Sterling

Sterling and Jasper

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In appreciation: Sterling J. Sterling

The dog park feels a little quieter this week as we mourn the passing of our dear friend Sterling. Known for his wit, warmth, dark humor and unforgettable stories, Sterling was a cherished member of our community. His loyal dog Jasper, the most noble of canines, continues to grace the picnic table, where he often posed like a regal model—a fitting tribute to his remarkable owner.

The dog park on Long Pond Road in Lakeville is a vibrant hub of diversity, both in its dogs and their owners. Among its most memorable regulars was Sterling, an artist and storyteller with a personality as colorful as his life. He spent many years in Belize, Central America, where he brought joy to his village—including the unforgettable tale, always shared with a mischievous grin, of how he introduced the first toilet to town, sparking a spirited community celebration.

Sterling’s presence at the park was unmistakable. He would arrive draped in a flowing black cape and crowned with a black Stetson hat, his look completed by a silver belt buckle. Last summer, he proudly added a touch of whimsy to his signature style with a pair of bright orange sneakers he had rediscovered in the back of a closet.

To know Sterling was to share in his laughter, his creativity, and his deep love for life. His presence will be deeply missed, but his stories, his art, and the sight of Jasper watching over the dog park will keep his memory alive in our hearts.

As Jasper adjusts to life without Sterling, we are looking for a new home for this noble companion. If you or someone you know would like to provide Jasper with a loving home, please reach out. Let us honor Sterling by ensuring Jasper finds the care and companionship he so richly deserves.

Cristóbal López-Henríquez A.
on behalf of the Friends of the Salisbury Dog Park

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