Return of the Native

Aralia Nudicaulis among the lily of the valley
Photo by Dee Salomon


I have been writing The Ungardener column for a little over a year. If you are a reader then you are likely aware that these articles exist to cajole, inform or otherwise persuade you to get rid of the invasive plants on your property and to cultivate the growth of native plants. There are many ways to write about the topic and, with a few exceptions, I have stuck to the most positive ones as they are nicest to both write and, I hope, to read. Also, my sense is that the topic of invasives so easily leads to negativity, guilt and fear — clearly not the best motivators to action.
Similarly, when I visit people’s property, as I have with each of the 16 participants in my Woodland Workshop, I am always looking for the nicest elements of each property. This might be a beautiful tree, a small patch of trout lily or an area of native strawberry and partridge berry groundcover. It is easier to begin a difficult and potentially long endeavor bolstered by the notion that you are saving something beautiful from disappearance. It gives a sense of what can be — the potential that is waiting to be unleashed. I also am confident that once people get on with the work, their senses become heightened in a way that is tremendously fulfilling and reinforcing. These successes give us confidence and inspiration to address, in our own way, what would otherwise be a scary reality.
Today’s reality is scary. The trick is to open our eyes to it and not let it paralyze us. With that in mind, Doug Tallamy, the esteemed ecologist and entomologist, has a new presentation called “What’s The Rush” that will open your eyes and deserves 30 minutes of your time. You can find it on HomegrownNationalPark.org, the Sharon-based national organization founded by Tallamy and Michelle Alfandari.
Tallamy makes a case for ridding invasive plants and planting natives with a premise that is entirely different from anything I have written about. Doug has spoken in the area before and some of you are already familiar with his assertion: that birds (and other animals) cannot survive without an abundant supply of caterpillars to eat and caterpillars rely on very specific native plants to eat and reproduce. Take away these plants and you starve these animals, breaking an important link in the food chain. Nursery grown and sold non-native plants do little or nothing to assist here and it is clear that the prevailing aesthetic of lawn-maximized yard needs to make way for a connected pathway of native pollinator-friendly plants in all of our yards, plant beds, containers and woods. Please watch it, act upon it and share it.
Aralia. What a seductive word. For me it has been a rather seductive plant. I first discovered Aralia racemosa at Kent Greenhouse and Gardens where I purchased three plants had been looked over at the end-of-season sale. This was before my native plant obsession and surely helped to fuel it. They now number eight, are five feet tall and almost the same size wide; amazing when you think that the entire plant, thick stem and all, dies back at the end of its season. They are happier in the dappled light of the woods than in a garden bed but I could see them thriving under a tree enjoying the shade. Pollinators love their frothy flowers and birds love their tiny berries, which taste a little like root beer.
I have written about its spikey Spikenard cousin, Aralia spinoza, in a previous column when I transplanted a few from the woods to a partially shaded area by the river. It is too early to tell if they will enjoy it there; the ones in the woods have already grown branches along their spikey trunks.
But recently, as I was weeding in the woods behind the house, I scored an Aralia hat trick. A patch of Aralia nudicaulis, Wild Sarsaparilla, that I had never seen before. The photos I have seen of this plant enthrall me: a 12-18 inch delicate stem with three perpendicular branches hovers over a separate stem that holds three globes of delicate flowers that look too big for its stem.
I saw them in real life for the first time in early May at a visit to the Dan Pearson-designed property Robin Hill in Norfolk. They had only just emerged from the ground but even at six inches tall they charmed me. Wow — I wanted that! No nurseries around here had them. Then, serendipitously, crowded by invasive lily of the valley and young burning bush, 15 Aralia nudicaulis appear. This is the kind of magic I encounter in the woods; amazing, no?
Finding, planting, tending and multiplying native Aralia and other native plants is a perfect example of how the woodland contributes to Doug and Michelle’s Homegrown National Park.
What plant treasure have you found in your woods? Let me know at dee@theungardener.com
Dee Salomon “ungardens” in Litchfield County.
Lakeville Journal
CANAAN — Anita L. (King) Gochey, 85, of 77 South Canaan Rd. died June 5, 2026, at Geer Village. She was the wife of the late Lester Gochey. Anita was born July 16, 1940,in Winsted, daughter of the late Ivan and Irene (Dulude) King.
Anita was well known throughout the Northwest Corner. She worked for many local businesses and organizations. Anita worked at the Rexall Drug Store, C.A. Lindell and Sons, Bob’s Clothing, Brooks Pharmacy, and the Housatonic Valley Regional High School in the cafeteria.She used her skills in calligraphy to complete the record books for the North Canaan Congregational Church.Anita’s daughter remembers her as being very creative with cardboard, and a loving mom.
Anita is survived by her son Raymond Gochey and his fiancee’ Chris Filkins of Hinsdale, Massachusetts; and her daughter Michele O’Brien of Sharon. She is also survived by her sister Denise Warner of Torrington and her brother Arthur King of Danbury. Her three grandchildren, Kyle Gochey of Pittsfield, Massachusetts, Cody O’Brien of Georgia, and Sabrina O’Brien of Falls Village. Anita was predeceased by her brother, Martin King.
A Celebration of Anita’s life will be held on Saturday June 20, 2026, at 2:00 p.m. in the Newkirk-Palmer Funeral Home 118 Main St. Canaan, CT 06018.
Lakeville Journal
SHARON — Susanne Cecilia Berberoglu, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and friend, passed away peacefully on May 14 surrounded by the love of her family.
Born on Fe 13, 1951, in New Milford, Susanne lived a life filled with warmth, adventure, compassion, and dedication to those she loved.
A graduate of Brookfield High School, Susanne went on to work as a travel agent, a career perfectly suited to her adventurous spirit and love of discovering the world. She especially cherished her travels to Australia, London, and Hawaii, creating memories that she carried throughout her life.
Susanne had a lifelong passion for antiques and found joy in collecting and appreciating beautiful pieces filled with history and character. She was also deeply devoted to her beloved Boston Terriers, whom she lovingly raised and cared for over many years. Her home was always filled with warmth, laughter, and the companionship of the dogs she adored.
Above all else, Susanne treasured her family. She is survived by her devoted husband of 54 years, Tayfun Berberoglu Sr.; her loving daughter, Jennifer; her son, Tayfun Berberoglu Jr.; and her cherished granddaughters, Faora and Sybella. Her love, kindness, strength, and gentle spirit will forever remain in the hearts of all who knew her.
Susanne will be remembered for her caring nature, adventurous soul, and unwavering love for her family, friends, and animals. Her memory will continue to inspire all whose lives she touched.
The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.
Lakeville Journal

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SALISBURY — Rafael Porro passed away on January 6, 2026.
Family and friends are invited to attend a memorial service in his honor on Saturday, June 13, 2026, at 11:00 a.m. at St. John’s Episcopal Church, Salisbury.
The family welcomes all who knew and loved Rafael to join them in remembering and celebrating his life.
The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.
Lakeville Journal
Lakeville Journal
CANAAN- — Nicholas Gandolfo Jr., 94 of East Canaan passed on June 4,2026, after a courageous battle with kidney cancer and CLL Leukemia.
Nicholas was born and raised in East Canaan to Nicholas Gandolfo Sr. and Marie Zucco Gandolfo both Italian immigrants, a heritage Nicholas embraced with pride.
During his youth Nick had a passion for the outdoors especially hunting and fishing which he enjoyed throughout his lifetime.
Nick served in the Korean war as a Marine. During his heroic service he received many medals and citations,most notably for saving his platoon even while sustaining injury himself during the famed Battle Of The Hook. Nick showed selfless dedication to serving the needs of others. He was involved with the Marine Corps League with whom he established a scholarship fund, the Canaan Couch Pipa VFW, providing durable medical equipment (and Girl scout cookies)to various VA homes and hospitals including Walter Reed in Washington. Nick also aided and assisted in other charitable causes not just limited to veterans, he served his community, for example, by providing thanksgiving dinners to needy local families.
Nicholas served as a volunteer firefighter for the town of Canaan for 25 years.
He will be remembered for his quick wit, and his fiery disposition. He was a shameless flirt who competed with his pals on who would receive the most hugs at any social gathering. With his charm, he always won.
Nicholas is predeceased by five brothers and his longtime partner Marlene Strattman. He is also predeceased by his daughter, Karen Gandolfo.
Nicholas leaves behind his loving daughters and their partners, his grandchildren and their partners and his great grand children. He is also survived by his only remaining brother, Robert Gandolfo, with whom he greatly valued his love and support. Nick also leaves behind numerous nieces and nephews. In his words, he had a special relationship with nieces Melissa Gandolfo and Lynne Gandolfo.
The family wishes to thank Salisbury Visiting Nurses.

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