Sharon history: Remembering Buckley

A photo of the Buckley family was on display during author Sam Tanenhaus’s book talk April 12.
Ruth Epstein


A photo of the Buckley family was on display during author Sam Tanenhaus’s book talk April 12.
SHARON — The setting for author Sam Tanenhaus’s talk on his book “Buckley: The Life and Revolution that Changed America” was most appropriate.
Speaking Saturday, April 12, at Sharon Town Hall about William F. Buckley Jr., conservative writer and political commentator, Tanenhaus said, “Sharon was the essence of what Buckley did. The origins of the conservative movement are from Sharon.”
The program, titled “The Buckleys of Sharon,” was sponsored by the Sharon Historical Society, and followed the organization’s annual meeting. Investigative journalist Brian Ross served as interviewer. The room was packed with listeners attentive to Tanenhaus’ informative and somewhat humorous delivery.
William F. Buckley Sr. purchased Great Elm, the house on South Main Street, in 1923. It was there he and his wife, Aloise, raised their 10 children. An 11th girl who died in infancy is buried in a Sharon cemetery.
“All WFB learned,” as Tanenhaus referred to him throughout the presentation, “started at that home in Sharon.”
Young Buckley was born in 1925, the middle child of the large family, which also consisted of James Buckley, who went on to become a senator.
While Tanenhaus said delving into long passages about early lives when writing biographies is no longer an accepted practice, he did take some time to read a passage about the senior Buckleys’ beginnings, due to the influence it had on their children. WFB’s father was raised in southern Texas, and spoke as much Spanish as English. That might have served as the basis for his son’s way of speaking, which some believe was an attempt to sound British. Aloise Buckley, whom Tanenhaus labeled “a culturally southern Catholic,” came from New Orleans,
Tanenhaus explained that the book came about because of his previous biography on Whitaker Chambers. Buckley was a source for that work and as they got to know one another, “WFB welcomed me into his life as if I mattered.”
Giving some insight into the man, Tanenhaus noted that almost all of Buckley’s good friends were liberals, which was part of the largeness he displayed. He had an all-encompassing quality about him and was able to charm everyone.
The founder of the National Review magazine and host of the public affairs television program “Firing Line,” “WFB was an orator and debater, going back to his student days. In his first competition, he took the side of defending Charles Lindbergh, who was a Buckley family hero. Another time, around 1939 or ’40, he was part of a debate in nearby Amenia, New York, in which the subject was whether the United States should intervene in the European War. Buckley took an isolationist stance.
Later in life, there were two notable debates in which Buckley participated. In one particularly explosive interchange, author Gore Vidal accused Buckley of being a Nazi and Buckley went wild, losing the match. He also lost in another notable debate with civil rights activist James Baldwin.
A few times during his talk, Tanenhaus made reference to “the Sharon incident.” Finally, Ross asked him to explain what that was. Great Elm was located just across the road from Christ Church Episcopal. Its pastor was the Rev. Francis James Meadows Cotter, who happened to be the father of two daughters who went on to become celebrities: Jayne and Audrey Meadows.
It was the spring of 1944, when World War II was ending, but tensions were still high. One Sunday morning, the Rev. Cotter entered the church to find the cushions and altar defiled. The police were called and the tracks led back to Great Elm. It turned out that three Buckley girls and their friends did it as a prank.
There was a court case and the perpetrators plead guilty, resulting in a lot of negative publicity, lawsuits, and daughter Patricia not being accepted to Smith College, which had been a family tradition. Tanenhaus said the episode took on religious overtones, with some believing the Catholic Buckleys purposefully went after a Protestant church.
“That was another reminder of how key this town is,” said the author. “It was a painful event in the life of the Buckley family. But after that, there were signs of atonement.”
The book is due in June.
Lakeville Journal
CANAAN — Anita L. (King) Gochey, 85, of 77 South Canaan Rd. died June 5, 2026, at Geer Village. She was the wife of the late Lester Gochey. Anita was born July 16, 1940,in Winsted, daughter of the late Ivan and Irene (Dulude) King.
Anita was well known throughout the Northwest Corner. She worked for many local businesses and organizations. Anita worked at the Rexall Drug Store, C.A. Lindell and Sons, Bob’s Clothing, Brooks Pharmacy, and the Housatonic Valley Regional High School in the cafeteria.She used her skills in calligraphy to complete the record books for the North Canaan Congregational Church.Anita’s daughter remembers her as being very creative with cardboard, and a loving mom.
Anita is survived by her son Raymond Gochey and his fiancee’ Chris Filkins of Hinsdale, Massachusetts; and her daughter Michele O’Brien of Sharon. She is also survived by her sister Denise Warner of Torrington and her brother Arthur King of Danbury. Her three grandchildren, Kyle Gochey of Pittsfield, Massachusetts, Cody O’Brien of Georgia, and Sabrina O’Brien of Falls Village. Anita was predeceased by her brother, Martin King.
A Celebration of Anita’s life will be held on Saturday June 20, 2026, at 2:00 p.m. in the Newkirk-Palmer Funeral Home 118 Main St. Canaan, CT 06018.
Lakeville Journal
SHARON — Susanne Cecilia Berberoglu, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and friend, passed away peacefully on May 14 surrounded by the love of her family.
Born on Fe 13, 1951, in New Milford, Susanne lived a life filled with warmth, adventure, compassion, and dedication to those she loved.
A graduate of Brookfield High School, Susanne went on to work as a travel agent, a career perfectly suited to her adventurous spirit and love of discovering the world. She especially cherished her travels to Australia, London, and Hawaii, creating memories that she carried throughout her life.
Susanne had a lifelong passion for antiques and found joy in collecting and appreciating beautiful pieces filled with history and character. She was also deeply devoted to her beloved Boston Terriers, whom she lovingly raised and cared for over many years. Her home was always filled with warmth, laughter, and the companionship of the dogs she adored.
Above all else, Susanne treasured her family. She is survived by her devoted husband of 54 years, Tayfun Berberoglu Sr.; her loving daughter, Jennifer; her son, Tayfun Berberoglu Jr.; and her cherished granddaughters, Faora and Sybella. Her love, kindness, strength, and gentle spirit will forever remain in the hearts of all who knew her.
Susanne will be remembered for her caring nature, adventurous soul, and unwavering love for her family, friends, and animals. Her memory will continue to inspire all whose lives she touched.
The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.
Lakeville Journal

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SALISBURY — Rafael Porro passed away on January 6, 2026.
Family and friends are invited to attend a memorial service in his honor on Saturday, June 13, 2026, at 11:00 a.m. at St. John’s Episcopal Church, Salisbury.
The family welcomes all who knew and loved Rafael to join them in remembering and celebrating his life.
The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.
Lakeville Journal
Lakeville Journal
CANAAN- — Nicholas Gandolfo Jr., 94 of East Canaan passed on June 4,2026, after a courageous battle with kidney cancer and CLL Leukemia.
Nicholas was born and raised in East Canaan to Nicholas Gandolfo Sr. and Marie Zucco Gandolfo both Italian immigrants, a heritage Nicholas embraced with pride.
During his youth Nick had a passion for the outdoors especially hunting and fishing which he enjoyed throughout his lifetime.
Nick served in the Korean war as a Marine. During his heroic service he received many medals and citations,most notably for saving his platoon even while sustaining injury himself during the famed Battle Of The Hook. Nick showed selfless dedication to serving the needs of others. He was involved with the Marine Corps League with whom he established a scholarship fund, the Canaan Couch Pipa VFW, providing durable medical equipment (and Girl scout cookies)to various VA homes and hospitals including Walter Reed in Washington. Nick also aided and assisted in other charitable causes not just limited to veterans, he served his community, for example, by providing thanksgiving dinners to needy local families.
Nicholas served as a volunteer firefighter for the town of Canaan for 25 years.
He will be remembered for his quick wit, and his fiery disposition. He was a shameless flirt who competed with his pals on who would receive the most hugs at any social gathering. With his charm, he always won.
Nicholas is predeceased by five brothers and his longtime partner Marlene Strattman. He is also predeceased by his daughter, Karen Gandolfo.
Nicholas leaves behind his loving daughters and their partners, his grandchildren and their partners and his great grand children. He is also survived by his only remaining brother, Robert Gandolfo, with whom he greatly valued his love and support. Nick also leaves behind numerous nieces and nephews. In his words, he had a special relationship with nieces Melissa Gandolfo and Lynne Gandolfo.
The family wishes to thank Salisbury Visiting Nurses, the Winsted chapter of Veteran Affairs and Nicks longtime aide Robin Brazee Anstett.
Wake and burial services will be private, however our family welcomes you to a celebration of life on June 20,2026 at the Canaan Couch Pipa VFW between the hours of 12:00pm and 3:30pm
In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be sent to East Mountain House, PO Box 1405 Lakeville, Ct 06039
Nicholas spent his final days there surrounded not just by family but by an amazing team that provided exemplary care and support for which Nicks family is extremely grateful.

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