One unifying moment Remembering the fallen, welcoming summertime

The Tri-state area has over the years been home to reliably annual gatherings that have happened here every Memorial Day. The day’s observances were planned thoughtfully and respectfully by groups of veterans and citizens in each town who care deeply about the sacrifices made by their neighbors who gave their all in the service of their country. 

The onset of COVID-19 last year changed everything, as we all know. There were ceremonies and parades that had traditionally been part of Memorial Day but had to be put on hold. This day is seen as the opening of summertime as well as a time to honor the fallen. And the summer of 2020 was unlike any other in memory.  

The ceremonies in each area town are extraordinary, as well as moving and profound communal experiences for all who attend. And each town’s Memorial Day commemorations are unique to that place, with emphasis on whatever it is that holds the most meaning for that town’s citizens. Here’s hoping new residents will take part this year and see a side of their town they haven’t yet.

What the activities of the day all have in common is the building of community spirit while honoring the fallen. All those who participate share a part of something larger than themselves. They all play a role in honoring those from their communities who gave their lives in the service of their country, while gathering to connect with one another. Being able to do that this year can only be seen as a gift none of us will ever again take for granted.

In each town, large crowds have historically come out for the parades. In towns where they are done separately, not as many come together for the cemetery commemorations, but this year that could be different. We should all be grateful to assemble to remember and honor the sacrifices made by veterans to ensure the freedoms of those they left behind at home. 

Many of those who are reading this will attend the Memorial Day events in their towns, and will feel the effects for days and weeks to come. Let’s agree to continue to hold onto that sense of community as our towns move forward and face problems that will be better solved if we realize we are all moving together toward the same goals, as we feel so strongly and poignantly on Memorial Day. 

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