Honor Society inductees celebrated at HVRHS

Housatonic Valley Regional High School Honor Society members stand with their lighted candles during the June 4 ceremony.
Ruth Epstein
Housatonic Valley Regional High School Honor Society members stand with their lighted candles during the June 4 ceremony.
FALLS VILLAGE — In a candle-lit ceremony filled with words of wisdom and inspiration, 30 Housatonic Valley Regional High School students were inducted into the Eleanor Roosevelt Chapter of the National Honor Society on June 4.
Following the processional onto the auditorium’s stage, Principal Ian Strever welcomed guests and said that the event was different from a graduation ceremony in that individuals, rather than an entire class, were being celebrated. He told the inductees that “We take immense pride not only in your scholarly achievements, but in the integrity and compassion you demonstrate daily. You communicate with clarity and confidence, you advocate for yourselves and others, you approach challenges with creative problem solving and you demonstrate genuine care for our global community and environment.”
Region One Superintendent Melony Brady-Shanley gave an address in which she talked of leadership which is not just about personal achievements, but acts of humility. “Lead wisely, lead courageously and most importantly, lead with your heart,” she advised.
The students then participated in a somber ritual of lighting candles. Four students spoke of the four qualities upon which the members have been selected: scholarship, service, character and leadership.
Manasseh Matsudaira, this year’s valedictorian, speaking on scholarship, pushed for creating a new word, “scholaring. Scholarship is not a trait we possess or some ethereal goal to achieve, it is an activity we get to engage in” He said scholaring is not confined to eight periods, but one can scholar about pretty much anything. “It’s not defined by what one studies but how they study,” he said.
Katerin McEnroe lit a candle for service. “To give service simply means to give what you can to whomever you can as frequently as you can,” she said. Examples could be smiling at someone in the hall, complimenting a stranger in public or holding the door for a person behind you. She challenged her fellow inductees to do at least one act of service every day.
Speaking about character was Andy Delgado, quoting Greek philosopher Heraclitus, who said, “Character is destiny.” Delgado said the choices he and his classmates have made were products of their character. “The people we are today, and the choices we make today, determine our future and our success.”
Salutatorian Tess Marks, in speaking about leadership, turned to Eleanor Roosevelt, for whom the chapter is named. Marks said she asked herself what traits the former first lady might have listed as those of a leader and quoted her as saying, “Good leaders inspire people to have confidence in their leader. Great leaders inspire people to have confidence in themselves.” Building on that, Marks said she believes great leaders must have empathy, for as Roosevelt also said, “For our own success to be real, it must contribute to the success of others.”
Honor Society adviser Peter Vermilyea administered the oath, whose words the students repeated. He then gave a brief history of the chapter, explaining that in 2019 National Honor Society members chose to name the chapter in honor of Roosevelt, who was a friend of Housatonic. She spoke at the school on two occasions, including the 1958 induction ceremony. She later wrote about her visit in her “My Day” newspaper column, calling the school “exceptional.”
The program always includes the highly anticipated naming of honorary inductees. This year the school’s administrative assistant Katie Wood, who is retiring, and executive secretary Julie Lang, who will retire in the near future, were bestowed that honor by Strever. He said they have shown him the kind of hospitality that makes Housatonic feel like home. As graduates of the school, they care for it like a member of their families.
Strever noted they are not just colleagues, but have become friends.
A reception followed in the cafeteria.
SALISBURY — Amanda Cannon, age 100, passed away Oct. 15, 2025, at Noble Horizons. She was the wife of the late Jeremiah Cannon.
Amanda was born Aug. 20, 1925, in Brooklyn, New York the daughter of the late Karl and Ella Husslein.
She was widowed at the age of 31 and worked as a bookkeeper for the Standard Oil Company and other oil companies in New York City until she retired at age 72.
Amanda moved to Noble Horizons in 2013 to live near her daughter Diane and son-in-law (the late) Raymond Zelazny.
She enjoyed her time in the Northwest Corner and was an avid nature lover, albeit considered herself a native New Yorker as she was born and resided in NYC for 88 years.
She was a faithful parishioner of St. Mary’s Church in Lakeville and attended Mass regularly until the age of 99.
Amanda was the grandmother of (the late) Jesse Morse and is survived by her daughter, Diane Zelazny, her grandsons, Adam Morse, Raymond Morse and his wife Daron and their daughter and her great granddaughter Cecelia Morse.
A Mass of Christian Burial will take place on Thursday, Oct. 23, 11 a.m. at St Mary’s Church in Lakeville, Connecticut.
Memorial donations may be made to St. Mary’s Church.
The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.
LAKEVILLE — Barbara Meyers DelPrete, 84, passed away Tuesday, Sept. 30, 2025, at her home. She was the beloved wife of George R. DelPrete for 62 years.
Mrs. DelPrete was born in Burlington, Iowa, on May 31, 1941, daughter of the late George and Judy Meyers. She lived in California for a time and had been a Lakeville resident for the past 55 years.
Survivors, in addition to her husband, George, include son, George R. DelPrete II, daughter, Jena DelPrete Allee, and son Stephen P. DelPrete. Grandchildren; Trey, Cassidy, and Meredith DelPrete, Jack, Will and Finn Allee, and Ali and Nicholas DelPrete.
A Funeral Mass was held at St. Mary’s Church, Lakeville, on Saturday, Oct. 4. May she Rest in Peace.
Ryan Funeral Home, 255 Main St., Lakeville, is in care of arrangements.
To offer an online condolence, please visit ryanfhct.com
SHARON — Shirley Anne Wilbur Perotti, daughter of George and Mabel (Johnson) Wilbur, the first girl born into the Wilbur family in 65 years, passed away on Oct. 5, 2025, at Noble Horizons.
Shirley was born on Aug. 19, 1948 at Sharon Hospital.
She was raised on her parents’ poultry farm (Odge’s Eggs, Inc.).
After graduating from Housatonic Valley Regional High School, she worked at Litchfield County National Bank and Colonial Bank.
She married the love of her life, John, on Aug. 16, 1969, and they lived on Sharon Mountain for more than 50 years.
Shirley enjoyed creating the annual family Christmas card, which was a coveted keepsake.She also enjoyed having lunch once a month with her best friends, Betty Kowalski, Kathy Ducillo, and Paula Weir.
In addition to John, she is survived by her three children and their families; Sarah Medeiros, her husband, Geoff, and their sons, Nick and Andrew, of Longmeadow, Massachusetts, Shelby Diorio, her husband, Mike, and their daughters, Addie, Lainey and Lyla, of East Canaan, Connecticut,Jeffrey Perotti, his wife, Melissa, and their daughters, Annie, Lucy and Winnie, of East Canaan. Shirley also leaves her two brothers, Edward Wilbur and his wife Joan, and David Wilbur; two nieces, three nephews, and several cousins.
At Shirley’s request, services will be private.
Donations in her memory may be made to the Sharon Woman’s Club Scholarship Fund, PO Box 283, Sharon, CT 06069.
The Kenny Funeral Home has care of arrangements.
MILLERTON — Veronica Lee “Ronnie” Silvernale, 78, a lifelong area resident died Tuesday, Oct. 7, 2025, at Sharon Hospital in Sharon, Connecticut. Mrs. Silvernale had a long career at Noble Horizons in Salisbury, where she served as a respected team leader in housekeeping and laundry services for over eighteen years. She retired in 2012.
Born Oct. 19, 1946, at Camp Lejeune, North Carolina, she was the daughter of the late Bradley C. and Sophie (Debrew) Hosier, Sr. Following her graduation from high school and attending college, she married Jack Gerard Silvernale on June 15, 1983 in Millerton, New York. Their marriage lasted thirty-five years until Jack’s passing on July 28, 2018.
Ronnie is survived by her daughter, Jaime Silvernale (Wm. MacDaniel, Sr.) of Millerton, her beloved grandson, Wm. MacDaniel, Jr.; two special nieces, Shannon and Rebecca and a special nephew Sean Hosier. In addition to her parents and husband, she was predeceased by her brother, Bradley C. Hosier, Jr. and her dear friend Ruth Fullerton of Millerton.
Visitation was private. A celebration of Ronnie’s life will be held in the future. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Scott D. Conklin Funeral Home, 37 Park Avenue, Millerton, NY 12546. To send an online condolence to the family or to plant a tree in Ronnie’s memory, please visit www.conklinfuneralhome.com